Newsflash: Women are confusing!

Pete

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tater said:
Wait a minute, wait a minute! I'm starting to see a pattern here. Too many of these answers have the words "stalker" in them :lol:

But, you're right. She did mention that she is an independant woman. :rolleyes: I'm screwed aren't I?
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Act gay and see if she tries to convert you back.
 
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tater said:
Wait a minute, wait a minute! I'm starting to see a pattern here. Too many of these answers have the words "stalker" in them :lol:

But, you're right. She did mention that she is an independant woman. :rolleyes: I'm screwed aren't I?
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No, not at all. She just may need a little more "space" than some of the more "needy" women do. I told my hubby when we first met that I liked/needed my space, that my career was so important to me and that I would never rely on a man, etc, etc. I was sure to make it crystal clear, just like she seems to have done. His nickname for me was "tough girl".

Be careful not to smother her or she may run, sooner rather than later. But if it makes you feel any better, I quickly saw how great my hubby is and I even became a little "needy" like he was. I just needed to see first, that I wasn't going to be hurt by him. Now I can't imagine ever losing him. I've changed 100%. Give her some space and time. Maybe that's what she needs. Being that it's so early on in your "relationship", also be prepared for the possibility of her dating others - another reason to take things slow so you don't risk getting hurt.
 
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Pete said:
Act gay and see if she tries to convert you back.
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Hmmm, you might be onto something there. I could call her and tell her I just got back from picking out some new mauve curtains, installing some track lighting, and shaving my yams :whistle:

Has it been two hours yet? :tap:
 
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tater said:
Hmmm, you might be onto something there. I could call her and tell her I just got back from picking out some new mauve curtains, installing some track lighting, and shaving my yams :whistle:

Has it been two hours yet? :tap:
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That reminds me I have to go to Lowes
 
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CalvertNewbie said:
I told my hubby when we first met that I liked/needed my space, that my career was so important to me and that I would never rely on a man, etc, etc.
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Wow! And that didn't skeer him off? He's either a real hard-charger or you're just smoking hot :popcorn:
 
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CalvertNewbie said:
No, not at all. She just may need a little more "space" than some of the more "needy" women do. I told my hubby when we first met that I liked/needed my space, that my career was so important to me and that I would never rely on a man, etc, etc. I was sure to make it crystal clear, just like she seems to have done. His nickname for me was "tough girl".

Be careful not to smother her or she may run, sooner rather than later. But if it makes you feel any better, I quickly saw how great my hubby is and I even became a little "needy" like he was. I just needed to see first, that I wasn't going to be hurt by him. Now I can't imagine ever losing him. I've changed 100%. Give her some space and time. Maybe that's what she needs. Being that it's so early on in your "relationship", also be prepared for the possibility of her dating others - another reason to take things slow so you don't risk getting hurt.
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Or... what I could do is just have you talk to her, vouch for me, and we could just bypass all that middle crap! :wink:



Or... I could just be like what alot of my exes b/f's before and after me and treat them like crap or act like I just don't give a rat's ass about them. Alot of women seem to be attracted to that, no?
 
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tater said:
Wow! And that didn't skeer him off? He's either a real hard-charger or you're just smoking hot :popcorn:
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He liked my NY accent and my tough girl attitude. :lol:

As it turns out, while I wasted 6 years engaged to an idiot hubby was in a crappy marriage with a psycho for 7 years. So we both appreciated some space for a short while while we got to really know eachother. I guess it also helped that I lived in DC and he lived in York, PA (2 hrs away) when we first met. He was in process of moving to Baltimore, where he worked, so then we were an hour away. I think we were both at similar points in our lives when we met. He wanted to move in together sooner than I was prepared for but I said the hell with it and took the chance. Now we're both needy and I actually ok with that.
 
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tater said:
Or... what I could do is just have you talk to her, vouch for me, and we could just bypass all that middle crap! :wink:



Or... I could just be like what alot of my exes b/f's before and after me and treat them like crap or act like I just don't give a rat's ass about them. Alot of women seem to be attracted to that, no?
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It does seem like a lot of people (male and female) are in crappy relationships with people that treat them like crap. I really think that some people enjoy the drama and fighting all the time. I was 31 yrs old when I met hubby. He's a couple of years older. Neither one of us had patience for games and drama anymore. I didn't get married until I was 33 but I'm glad I waited for the right guy.
 
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tater said:
Understandable. So, are you Marissa Tomei-ish from "My Cousin Vinny"? :drool: That was the first non-rated X movie that I enjoyed watching in the nude :popcorn:
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What a coincidence! :lol:

I watched Erin Brocovich last night and while not being a big Julia Roberts fan she was smokin in that movie.
 
tater

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ocean733 said:
You called her, didn't you? :popcorn:
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Nope, I waited the recommended two hours after her text, then texted her back. I wrote "I am an independent man, I can take care of myself, and I dont need you or any other woman in my life". Haven't heard from her since :shrug:
 
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tater said:
Nope, I waited the recommended two hours after her text, then texted her back. I wrote "I am an independent man, I can take care of myself, and I dont need you or any other woman in my life". Haven't heard from her since :shrug:
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:lol:
 
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tater said:
Nope, I waited the recommended two hours after her text, then texted her back. I wrote "I am an independent man, I can take care of myself, and I dont need you or any other woman in my life". Haven't heard from her since :shrug:
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:faint:
 
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tater said:
Was that not good? Worked for CalvertNewbie :shrug:
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:smack: I didn't quite get my point across in a text message, smartazz! :lol:

Seriously though, did you text her back and/or talk to her? Anything new to report to all of us nosey forumites? :tap:
 
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