OK so yesterday I was listening to XM and Dr. Laura

Wives are obligated to cater to their hubby's need for bangbang.

  • True, it is my obligation

    Votes: 6 27.3%

  • True because if I don't he will find some woman who will.

    Votes: 5 22.7%

  • Get away from me, I have a headache.

    Votes: 8 36.4%

  • Bangbang, don't remember it.

    Votes: 3 13.6%
  • Total voters
    22
Pete

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was on one of the channels I scanned through so I listened.

She was reading a letter from a woman who had read her book "Care and feeding of Husbands". I have not read this book but her feeling in a nutshell is that wives are pretty much obligated to "rock their husbands world" whenever requested. No, "get off me I am tired" no more "I don't feel like it go away". The premise is that if she keeps her man happy he will strive harder to make her happy.

This woman was going on and on how she now drops trou when requested and does the bangbang on demand and how her life and their relationship is so much better now.

Now the pig in me says "A woman who would cheerfully jump bones on command. :banana: Then the logical part thinks "Hmmmmm seems like she is just a sex slave obligated to perform on command." Strange stance to be put out by a talking head advise guru.

So the question is; How many of you women agree with DR. Laura and just do it because it is what you are supposed to do because you are obligated?
 
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Shetiger

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Pete said:
was on one of the channels I scanned through so I listened.

She was reading a letter from a woman who had read her book "Care and feeding of Husbands". I have not read this book but her feeling in a nutshell is that wives are pretty much obligated to "rock their husbands world" whenever requested. No, "get off me I am tired" no more "I don't feel like it go away". The premise is that if she keeps her man happy he will strive harder to make her happy.

This woman was going on and on how she now drops trou when requested and does the bangbang on demand and how her life and their relationship is so much better now.

Now the pig in me says "A woman who would cheerfully jump bones on command. :banana: Then the logical part thinks "Hmmmmm seems like she is just a sex slave obligated to perform on command." Strange stance to be put out by a talking head advise guru.

So the question is; How many of you women agree with DR. Laura and just do it because it is what you are supposed to do because you are obligated?
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Never obligated... but do if I want it
 
mv_princess

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Softballkid said:
Hunny, thats what the poll is about... "effing"

He wants you to eff him :yay:
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Not on command. I am not going to roll over because he wants some. If you aren't ready when I am, you are outta luck
 
LordStanley

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Id say your obligated..... Love, honor and cherish till death do you part.

If you wont give it up, then why marry.
 
Softballkid

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mv_princess said:
Not on command. I am not going to roll over because he wants some. If you aren't ready when I am, you are outta luck
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So, its ok for "him to have a headache"
 
mv_princess

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Softballkid said:
So, its ok for "him to have a headache"
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Sure, but he better not complain when I have one.

this whole topic really doesn't apply to me, but if I was in a relationship like that, it wouldn't last long
 
Softballkid

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mv_princess said:
Sure, but he better not complain when I have one.

this whole topic really doesn't apply to me, but if I was in a relationship like that, it wouldn't last long
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I'm in the same boat, but I hear about it here at work all the time.. :lol:

But I still think it is eff'd up beyond belief, that it is known women will throw out an excuse all the time not to, but yet when she wants to, its not ok for him..

Though its such a slim chance the guy will ever turn it down.

Its :bs: I tell ya.... :bs:
 
mv_princess

mv_princess

mv = margaritaville
Softballkid said:
I'm in the same boat, but I hear about it here at work all the time.. :lol:

But I still think it is eff'd up beyond belief, that it is known women will throw out an excuse all the time not to, but yet when she wants to, its not ok for him..

Though its such a slim chance the guy will ever turn it down.

Its :bs: I tell ya.... :bs:
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I have been turned down. It's not nice.

but if you are that turned off by sex you should probably go to the doctors. sounds like history problems
 
LordStanley

LordStanley

I know nothing
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LordStanley said:
Is it rape if your married to her?
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you could have just replied to my post, instead of leaving me meam krama :bawl:

OK so yesterday I was l... 12-05-2006 12:54 PM yes
 
vraiblonde

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mv_princess said:
No, eff you and find a different woman if that's what you want
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Have I told you lately that I love you? :smoochy:

This is why I quit listening to Dr. Laura. One gal called and said she'd read Proper Care and had a question: her hubby wants her to drop whatever she's doing and service him. The book says she's obligated to do so. Her problem is that the hubby calls her at work and wants her to come boink him in his office, then gets pissed when she says she can't leave.

Dr. Laura asked her what was more important to her - the job or the husband? Woman says, "My husband." Laura replies, "Okay, then..."

Personally, I'd drop kick that husband because he sounds like a control freak to me. Dr. Laura didn't see it that way.
 
mv_princess

mv_princess

mv = margaritaville
vraiblonde said:
Have I told you lately that I love you? :smoochy:

This is why I quit listening to Dr. Laura. One gal called and said she'd read Proper Care and had a question: her hubby wants her to drop whatever she's doing and service him. The book says she's obligated to do so. Her problem is that the hubby calls her at work and wants her to come boink him in his office, then gets pissed when she says she can't leave.

Dr. Laura asked her what was more important to her - the job or the husband? Woman says, "My husband." Laura replies, "Okay, then..."

Personally, I'd drop kick that husband because he sounds like a control freak to me. Dr. Laura didn't see it that way.
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I don't like her. And I don't see where any man thinks he should be able to get away with this? if that's what you want call in one of those mail-order brides.
 
Pete

Pete

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vraiblonde said:
Have I told you lately that I love you? :smoochy:

This is why I quit listening to Dr. Laura. One gal called and said she'd read Proper Care and had a question: her hubby wants her to drop whatever she's doing and service him. The book says she's obligated to do so. Her problem is that the hubby calls her at work and wants her to come boink him in his office, then gets pissed when she says she can't leave.

Dr. Laura asked her what was more important to her - the job or the husband? Woman says, "My husband." Laura replies, "Okay, then..."

Personally, I'd drop kick that husband because he sounds like a control freak to me. Dr. Laura didn't see it that way.
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I have never heard her go to that extreme :lol: I always thought she meant, you are both home, he wants to get frisky and you are chatting on the forum, you are obligated to log off and get frisky with him. Not leave work or get busy at a rest area in broad daylight on the Jersey Turnpike.

I can't stand to listen to her very much. She has some whacky ideas but most of her callers are total retards. :lol:
 
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