sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
I'm quite done in this thread. I know why I posted what I posted. I certainly do not want to argue in here. And yes, I too trust that Wenchy knows what she is doing.
Prayers Please
- Thread starter Wenchy
- Start date
I'm quite done in this thread. I know why I posted what I posted. I certainly do not want to argue in here. And yes, I too trust that Wenchy knows what she is doing.
Yes, it is safe to say that many people on these boards has gone through what he is currently going through. So anyone with personal messages of encouragement and hope can be powerful in the healing process. With that said I believe that some things shared when people are in a crucial time in their lives can possibly do harm though. Well wishes and prayers are great but there will always be the ones that judge, assume and make immature comments and show disrespectful behavior. One negative comment can quickly erase the feeling you got from ten good ones.
Anonymity has it's advantages in so many places in life for a reason. It is why so many of us are able to freely express how we feel not only here but in other places as well.
hotcoffee
New Member
An important part of any healing process... is the feeling of value... or self worth....
I know that when I was in the hospital, and hubby started a thread on this same forum... I felt loved. When all of you started to respond, I felt value.... self worth.... I am sure it helped with the healing process.
I'm quite sure all those who are close to him are going through some trials right now as well. It's hard to have a friend or family or partner that is in a position where they have to take time out and heal the body, heart, or soul in order to continue on with life. There's a hole in their life right now as well. They need our prayers as well.
My heart goes out to all those involved and I really wish all the nay-sayer's would just hold their criticism for another topic... I don't mean to be calling anyone mean... just mean to put it in a bigger perspective... know what I mean?
I didn't think my post in anyway suggested that someone had already acted inappropriately as much as I was posting about the potential. I stand by my opinion in regards to listing his name and address, not the intent of those wanting send well wishes, encouragement and support.
Due to the sensitivity of anyone's personal or physical issues I personally believe that ones privacy should be protected at all cost. You chose to be very open and proactive about your personal situation from the very beginning. Your courage and the way you have handled your challenges, I find inspiring. However; if I were in the same situation or even another one altogether I cannot say how I would handle or approach it. That being said I personally would want my privacy protected by anyone who may know me in person or on the internet. I would want to be the one to share my circumstances and not someone else without my permission.
For the most part I feel that most active forum participant's know where the line in the sand is regarding crossing from playing around to potentially causing additional harm, but there are always a few in every bunch that will not and it is that person who has the potential to take something that was meant as a beautiful intention filled with love and concern and turn it into a nightmare.
In using a hypothetical situation being that we are largely in an military/ government town where people must meet or exceed extreme personal and financial scrutiny to obtain and hold their work clearances this type of information could cause major ramifications as just by typing one's full name in the computer browser would bring your name. I would not want a situation that happened to me ten years ago be right there at a click of that button to affect my future.
Due to the sensitivity of anyone's personal or physical issues I personally believe that ones privacy should be protected at all cost. You chose to be very open and proactive about your personal situation from the very beginning. Your courage and the way you have handled your challenges, I find inspiring. However; if I were in the same situation or even another one altogether I cannot say how I would handle or approach it. That being said I personally would want my privacy protected by anyone who may know me in person or on the internet. I would want to be the one to share my circumstances and not someone else without my permission.
For the most part I feel that most active forum participant's know where the line in the sand is regarding crossing from playing around to potentially causing additional harm, but there are always a few in every bunch that will not and it is that person who has the potential to take something that was meant as a beautiful intention filled with love and concern and turn it into a nightmare.
In using a hypothetical situation being that we are largely in an military/ government town where people must meet or exceed extreme personal and financial scrutiny to obtain and hold their work clearances this type of information could cause major ramifications as just by typing one's full name in the computer browser would bring your name. I would not want a situation that happened to me ten years ago be right there at a click of that button to affect my future.
Wenchy
Hot Flash
Why would I delete this?
A personal letter when some can not get email (or get a phone call...because they can't) means so much.
You are being a bitch. You know I love you and and also know what I need means the most to him.
Last edited:
and and what do you need?
Wenchy
Hot Flash
This is the only way. Write him send it , and it may take weeks before he gets the letters.
Hope House has him with no communication online. He might get letters weeks later.
Please understand.
He knows what I know about him.
Write him an old fashioned letter.
He will never be mad at me.
Wenchy
Hot Flash
sockgirl77
Well-Known Member
Oh Jesus ####ing Christ. 
Hank
my war
mamatutu
mama to two
For the life of me, I do not get that some members here are negative to Wenchy for her posts of RR's info. If it was a problem, vrai, or RR himself would have stepped in to stop it. So, I am totally confident that what has been posted by her is true and right. Instead of being critical, maybe some of you should channel your energy in a different direction; try sending positive vibes RR's way. Always remember to count your blessings. I believe that the internet, and for example, forums will be the downfall of the goodness in human character because you do not have to be accountable face to face for what you say. It is advised here a lot by some to use the red X in the right hand corner, and walk away, but I think the wrong people are using that option, and we are losing the right ones that should have stayed. JMO
Hank
my war
stfu
Hank
my war
Hold please. Wenchy will be faxing you his medical records.
MMDad
Lem Putt
Couldn't this be done by PM instead of blasting it out to the world? And why would people need to know which rehab he's in in order to pray for him?
I thought this was supposed to be about him? How does what you need matter?
Last edited:
mamatutu
mama to two
stfu...stop trolling for unicorns, right? I am sure RR will appreciate your sentiment, and welcomes your good wishes. You are such a good guy, Hankiepoo.
mamatutu
mama to two
That is your problem; you don't think/see past your own gopher/beaver nose, and think you know everything, and have all the answers. Not to mention, you are not very nice. What is your avatar, exactly, anyway?