R Favors 4 The Ex Wrong

[rack'm]

I did favors for my ex. I tag and titles his car, paid for his insurance etc. All to help him get on his feet. 1.5 years later he can no longer drive (I had to take the tags since he never paid me to title it, got a Dui which jeopardized my insurance rates) and never received any child support. Now my weekends with me have to drive an hour total to pick up my kids so he will at least spend time with them. Pure and simple if you allow yourself to be taken advantage of by someone who did not want you anyway then your the fool.

For Kyle.....

No good deed goes unpunished.

 

[Pete]

Insist she give up some butt for your troubles. :shrug:

She probably figures "Why rent the sausage when the electrical work is free?"

 

[morganj614]

I know you and I know the kids won't go without. If you tell her this is it and no more then you've helped but you've also stated no more. She does need to learn these things and I KNOW she's not helpless.

P.S. I have forgiven you guys for trying to fix me up with old dude
no, not the toothless one

 

[rack'm]

trading favors for booty was fun at first but is too confusing now.

Isn’t it great when you see what a whore your wife always was it was just disguised as marriage before.

 

[Dougstermd]

I know you and I know the kids won't go without. If you tell her this is it and no more then you've helped but you've also stated no more. She does need to learn these things and I KNOW she's not helpless.

P.S. I have forgiven you guys for trying to fix me up with old dude
no, not the toothless one

I have toothless friends also

 

[pixiegirl]

I did favors for my ex. I tag and titles his car, paid for his insurance etc. All to help him get on his feet. 1.5 years later he can no longer drive (I had to take the tags since he never paid me to title it, got a Dui which jeopardized my insurance rates) and never received any child support. Now my weekends with me have to drive an hour total to pick up my kids so he will at least spend time with them. Pure and simple if you allow yourself to be taken advantage of by someone who did not want you anyway then your the fool.

Were we married to the same guy?

 

[wmburdette]

Be kind to the ex...

Be vewy, vewy careful out there when dealing with an ex, things could take a turn for the worse!

Can you imagine???

 

[Dougstermd]

Isn’t it great when you see what a whore your wife always was it was just disguised as marriage before.

yeah I thought it was very funny. b/c she acts like little miss can't be wrong

 

[Tigerlily]

Were we married to the same guy?

If not I am sure they were probably related

I must ad in all fairness he loves his kids and does his best with them. He just doesn't get the other responsibilities life entails.

 

[rack'm]

yeah I thought it was very funny. b/c she acts like little miss can't be wrong

There's quite a few of them out there like that.

 

[aps45819]

Be vewy, vewy careful out there when dealing with an ex, things could take a turn for the worse!

O'Toole's attorney said this was part of routine sexual activity between the couple -- acts that he agreed to -- incidents that should have stayed in the bedroom.

It was routine to superglue his pecker?
I'd love to be on that jury

 

[Dougstermd]

Be vewy, vewy careful out there when dealing with an ex, things could take a turn for the worse!

Can you imagine???

that also happened to a lawyer in Norfolk

 

[RoseRed]

O'Toole

 

[crabcake]

Dear Dougster

Make this a gift to her as your last favor.

 

[Dougstermd]

thanks for all of the advice. I feel better knowing that a lot of other people have had similar experiences.

 

[DoWhat]

thanks for all of the advice. I feel better knowing that a lot of other people have had similar experiences.

Is this the tread you were talking about starting yesterday?

 

[wmburdette]

that also happened to a lawyer in Norfolk

A lawyer eh? ...and this is a problem?

 

[Wickedwrench]

Is she throwin' it to ya as payment? :shrug:

I wouldn't go near her. She'll probably scream rape or something.

 

[sleuth]

If it doesn't cause any problems with any current relationships you have, then offer to "teach her" how to do it, so she doesn't have to call you in the future.

And if you have kids, they will appreciate that mom and dad remain friends.

If you're in a relationship with another woman, though, I wouldn't recommend making a habit of it.

 

[Qurious]

My ex has asked me to do some electrical work on her house as a favor. I did a few things for her when she first bought the place but soon I had a bigger honey do list then when I was married. I told here enough was enough and she would either have to hire a handy man or start dateing someone with skills. So she did both. 8 months later she is asking me for another favor. What to do? What to do?

if you dont have kids with her, then i would say what I mean and mean what I say.

FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO DO IT!!