Say a prayer for hubby

edinsomd

New Member
Paso is strong but I don't think God has anything to do with her strength. Might just be my mood tonight but Paso is getting through this on her own, not through some fake thought of God.

I'm certainly not a big Bible-thumper, can't remember the last time I darkened a church's door, but I would never question where anyone finds comfort in bad times.
Ed
 
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jaybeeztoo

Guest
I'm certainly not a big Bible-thumper, can't remember the last time I darkened a church's door, but I would never question where anyone finds comfort in bad times.
Ed

She is finding strength through her inner self. It is HER, not some god.
 

Ken King

A little rusty but not crusty
PREMO Member
She is finding strength through her inner self. It is HER, not some god.
Not to take anything away from the intent of this thread, but are you sure it isn't the number of prayers that she has received when she asked for us to make them for her hubby and many of us included her in them as well?
 

belvak

Happy Camper
Just checking in today to see if there was an update. Paso, continued thoughts & prayers for you, your Hubby, and your Mom. Here's your daily :huggy:.
 

Geek

New Member
Way to pick your moment in the sun! :yay:

Not to take anything away from the intent of this thread, but are you sure it isn't the number of prayers that she has received when she asked for us to make them for her hubby and many of us included her in them as well?

You might find your way to a certain thread in the religion forum before you judge her.




Prayers to Paso and family :flowers:
 

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
Just checking in today to see if there was an update. Paso, continued thoughts & prayers for you, your Hubby, and your Mom. Here's your daily :huggy:.


Thank you all...They said not much improvement on Bill he did pull out his feeding tube today..It is still in his nose...still running temps...he did scratch his nuts some so I guess that is good...He did look at me when I went to see him but did not seem to see me just a blank stare...Tomorrow is 2 weeks..Oh they were able to leave his trache collar off for the last 2 days all day (not night) so they said that is good..he must be a tougher old bird then I thought..

I refused treatment on mom so she is coming home tomorrow with hospice care...thanks all for our support... :huggy:
 

camily

Peace
Thank you all...They said not much improvement on Bill he did pull out his feeding tube today..It is still in his nose...still running temps...he did scratch his nuts some so I guess that is good...He did look at me when I went to see him but did not seem to see me just a blank stare...Tomorrow is 2 weeks..Oh they were able to leave his trache collar off for the last 2 days all day (not night) so they said that is good..he must be a tougher old bird then I thought..

I refused treatment on mom so she is coming home tomorrow with hospice care...thanks all for our support... :huggy:

We refused the feeding tube when my dad lost the swallow reflex. I know how hard this is. Been through it. I'm here if you need anything. :huggy:
 

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
We refused the feeding tube when my dad lost the swallow reflex. I know how hard this is. Been through it. I'm here if you need anything. :huggy:

That is what happened..I was a knats ass away from doing it but I thought on it..thanks for your support..
 

camily

Peace
That is what happened..I was a knats ass away from doing it but I thought on it..thanks for your support..

It took about a week. They kept him sedated alot but he knew we were there. He was conscious. Me, my sisters and my mom all had alone time with him. He could have gotten the tube and live an undetermined amount of time. But with what quality? Just lying there. That's it. He didn't want that and had spoken to my mother about it when he was well. He died peacfully surrounded by his family. This is so hard for you I know. If you need to talk I'm here.
 

SoMDGirl42

Well-Known Member
You might find your way to a certain thread in the religion forum before you judge her.




Prayers to Paso and family :flowers:
:yeahthat: Thanks Geek. Jay lost her sister and nephew very tragically. Today would have been her sister's 39th birthday. I understand why she is hurting. Don't judge her, her emotions are raw and her pain is real.
I refused treatment on mom so she is coming home tomorrow with hospice care...thanks all for our support... :huggy:

My step-father passed last May (end stage renal failure). We refused the feeding tubes as well. It's tough, but he eventually went into a coma like state and basically went in his sleep. It was quailty of life verus quantity of life and it made the decision easy for us. Hospice is a wonderful compassionate group!

glad to hear about progress on Bill. Keep strong.
 

wineo

loving life
Thank you all...They said not much improvement on Bill he did pull out his feeding tube today..It is still in his nose...still running temps...he did scratch his nuts some so I guess that is good...He did look at me when I went to see him but did not seem to see me just a blank stare...Tomorrow is 2 weeks..Oh they were able to leave his trache collar off for the last 2 days all day (not night) so they said that is good..he must be a tougher old bird then I thought..

I refused treatment on mom so she is coming home tomorrow with hospice care...thanks all for our support... :huggy:

My father had a feeding tube for 7 years, he was brain dead and that was the only thing keeping him alive. In the end it was a blood infection that finally gave him his peace. We had a long fight in courts trying to get that pulled. I push everyone to have a Living Will, so this won't happen if you don't want it too.

Paso, you know better then anyone else how she would want to live.:flowers:

My thoughts and prayers go out to you. If I can help you in anyway, call.

Glad hubby is showing more signs of improving.:huggy:
 
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