Say a prayer for hubby

belvak

belvak

Happy Camper
CalvertNewbie said:
Paso, although I've never met you I have to tell you that I really look up to you for your strength. I can only hope that I would be so strong if I ever had to deal with all of this at once. It's so touching to see the dedication you have to both your hubby and your Mom. The fact that you prefer to take care of your Mom at home instead of putting her in a nursing home is so commendable, especially with everything going on with hubby.

Life has a way of throwing the unexpected at us, and testing us 'til no end, but it's certainly easier when everything doesn't happen at once! Stay strong and know that we're all thinking of you daily. :huggy:
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jp2854

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Paso you are an angel for all you are doing between your mom and bill. How are things with bill today any news? Here is a hug for you as you are going through a rough time.
 
Pasofever

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
jp2854 said:
Paso you are an angel for all you are doing between your mom and bill. How are things with bill today any news? Here is a hug for you as you are going through a rough time.
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He seems more "awake" eyes open but not really looking around...but staying with eyes open more and more..not moving body much...do not know if he knew me or not...when I said good bye and I loved him his chest heaved like he was crying but no tears or mouth movement...he still has the neck brace on they do surgery on this neck on Monday....

Mom has her appt with hospice tomorrow..she ate good yesterday but not as well today..

thanks all...I am fixing the house..I live in a dump..I am in getting 2 dressers..and I need to get the living room fixed..any capenters? Hubby took out supporting walls and they are jacked up at this time..need serious work..can pay materials and labor cash under the table but not rich..thanks...probably a big job..too much for me to think about but cant stand the walls open and floor open to the ground anymore either going to spend all my tax return trying to make my house better..thanks all..love Paso
 
camily

camily

Peace
Pasofever said:
He seems more "awake" eyes open but not really looking around...but staying with eyes open more and more..not moving body much...do not know if he knew me or not...when I said good bye and I loved him his chest heaved like he was crying but no tears or mouth movement...he still has the neck brace on they do surgery on this neck on Monday....

Mom has her appt with hospice tomorrow..she ate good yesterday but not as well today..

thanks all...I am fixing the house..I live in a dump..I am in getting 2 dressers..and I need to get the living room fixed..any capenters? Hubby took out supporting walls and they are jacked up at this time..need serious work..can pay materials and labor cash under the table but not rich..thanks...probably a big job..too much for me to think about but cant stand the walls open and floor open to the ground anymore either going to spend all my tax return trying to make my house better..thanks all..love Paso
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:huggy: How's your daughter handling all this?
 
unixpirate

unixpirate

Pitty Party
Pasofever said:
He seems more "awake" eyes open but not really looking around...but staying with eyes open more and more..not moving body much...do not know if he knew me or not...when I said good bye and I loved him his chest heaved like he was crying but no tears or mouth movement...he still has the neck brace on they do surgery on this neck on Monday....

Mom has her appt with hospice tomorrow..she ate good yesterday but not as well today..

thanks all...I am fixing the house..I live in a dump..I am in getting 2 dressers..and I need to get the living room fixed..any capenters? Hubby took out supporting walls and they are jacked up at this time..need serious work..can pay materials and labor cash under the table but not rich..thanks...probably a big job..too much for me to think about but cant stand the walls open and floor open to the ground anymore either going to spend all my tax return trying to make my house better..thanks all..love Paso
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Hey S,

I can volunteer my time along with a buddy. I'm not traveling till the 7th of June. You got my cell.

Thinking of you guys. :love:
 
Ponytail

Ponytail

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unixpirate said:
:doh:


That would be July 7th.



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I'd love offer my services to help out Paso, I just don't know when I can make it back down there again. Pregnancy is playing hell with g/'s emotions and she didn't handle my trip down there this past weekend too well. :crazy:
 
Pasofever

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
I have someone tiling the bathroom right now..the nice one (we have 4 in this house) I will worry about the living room later...just an old house (built in the 40's) the new part (3 bed 3 bath) is great it is the old part living room dining room and another bed room..uggg one day...Bill was getting to it but he never will now I am sure..

Mom ate great tonight and seemed with it for her...I did alot of work in the rooms I am redoing..and did alot of dogs tonight so I feel good...night all...
 
unixpirate

unixpirate

Pitty Party
Pasofever said:
I have someone tiling the bathroom right now..the nice one (we have 4 in this house) I will worry about the living room later...just an old house (built in the 40's) the new part (3 bed 3 bath) is great it is the old part living room dining room and another bed room..uggg one day...Bill was getting to it but he never will now I am sure..

Mom ate great tonight and seemed with it for her...I did alot of work in the rooms I am redoing..and did alot of dogs tonight so I feel good...night all...
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Paso, I'm serious if you need hellp. My buddy does tiling and wood work for a living. I know it sounds odd he does both. He built my deck that I swear the house will fall down before the deck. :lol: I'm free, and would expect him to be close to it. He works for me when I'm on the road so I can make it up to him. We would love to help. I know your pad and what your talking about needing help. :love: I'll take some blue pills for payment.. :lmao:
 
ImAChvyGirl

ImAChvyGirl

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I am glad to hear that he is starting to come back to life. And that your mother is doing better since you brought her home. Make sure to take care of yourself too though.

daily hugs

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jp2854

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Paso how is your mom doing today? Did hospice come and visit today? Hope things continue to go good for you with your mom. How is your daughter doing with all this between her dad and grandma both not doing so great?
 
Pasofever

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
jp2854 said:
Paso how is your mom doing today? Did hospice come and visit today? Hope things continue to go good for you with your mom. How is your daughter doing with all this between her dad and grandma both not doing so great?
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Well we got news that hubby's dads brothers daughter husband was killed in a car accident today..I am worried about my FIL he has lost his mother, brother and now another family member in the last few months...and Bill...

They said they found a spot on Bills kidney that might be cancer that is all he needs..

Jail called today they have gone to the judge and had the rest of his home detention sentence dropped...that was an odd unexpected call...they told me they were sorry and were real nice..

I have called 2 X today and each time his nurse has been in with him so I don't know if he got in his feeding tube or not...will know more later tonight..

Hospice came..really nice people...signed up mom should qualify (they need more of a diagnosis from the doctor)

Mom has been up most of the day and eating well...though after they did not feed her for a week at the hospital she will not drink from her cup and special straw I had made for her so we have that set back..I have to syringe feed her which she does very well on..

Daughter seems to be doing ok but she has had ALOT of head aches lately so I told her to please go to the Dr and get checked out..

I do not know if I said it or not but hubby tested pos for hep C so I went to be tested (he was not an iv drug user but was stuck for diabetes in jail all the time) I was tested for A B C and was neg so the dr started me on the hep B vaccine..I feel better after those results..

I just know he will wake up and kill me for all the yard work (lots and lots to the dump) and for the house work I had done (He likes to do it as he built the house himself..) so I hope he will not remember anything and I will tell him he did it all before the accident...or I will have to move in with one of you..

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toppick08

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Pasofever said:
Well we got news that hubby's dads brothers daughter husband was killed in a car accident today..I am worried about my FIL he has lost his mother, brother and now another family member in the last few months...and Bill...

They said they found a spot on Bills kidney that might be cancer that is all he needs..

Jail called today they have gone to the judge and had the rest of his home detention sentence dropped...that was an odd unexpected call...they told me they were sorry and were real nice..

I have called 2 X today and each time his nurse has been in with him so I don't know if he got in his feeding tube or not...will know more later tonight..

Hospice came..really nice people...signed up mom should qualify (they need more of a diagnosis from the doctor)

Mom has been up most of the day and eating well...though after they did not feed her for a week at the hospital she will not drink from her cup and special straw I had made for her so we have that set back..I have to syringe feed her which she does very well on..

Daughter seems to be doing ok but she has had ALOT of head aches lately so I told her to please go to the Dr and get checked out..

I do not know if I said it or not but hubby tested pos for hep C so I went to be tested (he was not an iv drug user but was stuck for diabetes in jail all the time) I was tested for A B C and was neg so the dr started me on the hep B vaccine..I feel better after those results..

I just know he will wake up and kill me for all the yard work (lots and lots to the dump) and for the house work I had done (He likes to do it as he built the house himself..) so I hope he will not remember anything and I will tell him he did it all before the accident...or I will have to move in with one of you..

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:huggy:....I will help you in your yard....

Paso, you are being put to the test, but remember there is strength in numbers, and we're here to help you and yours.....:huggy:
 
Pasofever

Pasofever

Does my butt look big?
toppick08 said:
:huggy:....I will help you in your yard....

Paso, you are being put to the test, but remember there is strength in numbers, and we're here to help you and yours.....:huggy:
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actually got most of it done...got to the dump..uggg alot of stuff...even got rid of his scrap copper and metal....the John Deere mowers blades were dull (daughter is not careful cutting grass) so they are off being sharpened...I have done alot and am proud of how it is looking....It is something I at least can control at this time..
 
Nanny Pam

Nanny Pam

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Pasofever said:
actually got most of it done...got to the dump..uggg alot of stuff...even got rid of his scrap copper and metal....the John Deere mowers blades were dull (daughter is not careful cutting grass) so they are off being sharpened...I have done alot and am proud of how it is looking....It is something I at least can control at this time..
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You are one tough lady! :yay:
 
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