Science proves that men & women can't be friends
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withrespect
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I wouldnt want to sleep with her and be woke up at 3 am while she cleans the shower.
MMDad
Lem Putt
I wouldnt want to sleep with her and be woke up at 3 am while she cleans the shower.
The constant shrieking when the ice maker makes noise "it's the mouse again!!! Kill it!!!"
Misfit
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BOP
Well-Known Member
Pick a different characteristic.
No they don't
He's gay, isn't he?
I have several female friends. Platonic friends. In general, the age gap is a barrier, because I'd do any one of them in a New York minute. That's all I'd need is a minute.
But I also understand that we couldn't be friends any more. And that's the trade-off I would have to weigh; do I value this person as a long-term friend, or am I willing to sacrifice that friendship? I'm pretty happy with, and highly prize my female friends.
Of course none of that factors in Mrs BOP and her skillet collection.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
I have some very close friends that I refuse to believe want to sleep with me.
and Thanks.
This is simply meant as an observation. What do your 'close' male friends like about you? Sense of humor? Intelligence? Good card player? Share a hobby or a sport?
If they like picking out curtains and go shopping with you, I'd accept it at face value; they don't wanna.
Past that, attractive qualities are...attractive. While they may not obsess about you and lose sleep over it, some form of sex with you has most likely crossed their minds, all of theirs, to some degree or other. That's normal and not a big deal. Depending on the manner and degree. The worst offenders are the ones who pretend most overtly to not be interested.
I do not intend to speak for every last heterosexual man on the planet but, in general, if women could be tapped into a typical man's brain for a few moments, y'all would just start shooting us down like rabid dogs in the street only stopping to reload or switch to a weapon with higher capacity and greater killing power.
Have a nice day!
withrespect
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This is simply meant as an observation. What do your 'close' male friends like about you? Sense of humor? Intelligence? Good card player? Share a hobby or a sport?
If they like picking out curtains and go shopping with you, I'd accept it at face value; they don't wanna.
Past that, attractive qualities are...attractive. While they may not obsess about you and lose sleep over it, some form of sex with you has most likely crossed their minds, all of theirs, to some degree or other. That's normal and not a big deal. Depending on the manner and degree. The worst offenders are the ones who pretend most overtly to not be interested.
I do not intend to speak for every last heterosexual man on the planet but, in general, if women could be tapped into a typical man's brain for a few moments, y'all would just start shooting us down like rabid dogs in the street only stopping to reload or switch to a weapon with higher capacity and greater killing power.
Have a nice day!
K
K
WR He has made a true comment, we see women as objects of sex, friend or not, what you choose to do after that is another story. I besT your husbands best friend had many thoughts of spanking your Azz along with a list of other things. Don't ask him because he will not tell the truth, we are good a that, so we like too think.
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Dakota
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And if a women's thoughts could be amplified for you to hear, we'd have an awful lot of explaining to do. Because I know that some women, myself included, do view men as objects of sex. I think many women do and that they just won't confess that because society says it is wrong for a women to think that way. I completely avoid getting personal with anyone of the opposite sex because.... well because...
Just sayin'
And if a women's thoughts could be amplified for you to hear, we'd have an awful lot of explaining to do. Because I know that some women, myself included, do view men as objects of sex. I think many women do and that they just won't confess that because society says it is wrong for a women to think that way. I completely avoid getting personal with anyone of the opposite sex because.... well because...
Just sayin'
So we all know friend, the family friend or hubby friend or wifey friends desire you and he/she has fantasized about you because you look good, its only natural. Hell probably at the dinner table with all kinds of thoughts ha-ha. Dakota that night when you made that finger licking chicken I was thinking about licking the left overs
. I also have to think men have them thought 97% worse than women, plagues on us, a good plague. Your boss, your friendly grocery man, your son high school 18 yr old friend is thinking things you don't want to know. I remember one time during a job interview I was saying to my self while anwering questions (I know right now you are not thinking about f ing this hot blonde interviewing you) 
Dakota your a naughty girl 
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Dakota
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So we all know friend, the family friend or hubby friend or wifey friends desire you and he/she has fantasized about you because you look good, its only natural. Hell probably at the dinner table with all kinds of thoughts ha-ha. Dakota that night when you made that finger licking chicken I was thinking about licking
Like I said, thank gawd my thoughts are not amplified. I'd be in really big trouble if they were. Think of the movie "What Women Want" when Helen Hunt's character glances down at the Mel Gibson's crotch and she think "oh no, I looked." I might be married but I'm not dead. But beyond looking, being friends with members of the opposite sex when in a relationship is nothing but a bunch of trouble. I just think women are naive if they don't face that fact. There is no man going to hang out with you that isn't hoping he is going to get a little something something in return.
We just keep hope alive 24/7 ha ha, you never know. Your last statement is not true, what if he is gay?
Dakota
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We just keep hope alive 24/7 ha ha, you never know. Your last statement is not true, what if he is gay?
Perhaps..... If they are gay, meaning straight up, not attracted to women at all, gay, then they can be friends. I have terrible gayder - it has gotten better over the years but it is not all that great even still. I hate to think that a man I find attractive is gay but I have had that happen. Many years ago, in high school, there was a guy that I thought was very sexy. A few years ago, those fantasies were shattered when I found out he has had a boyfriend for many years. Sad though, from the pictures they all look pretty hot, you know, minus the pink shirts and such.
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Pushrod
Patriot
Is that really their full character names? Learn something new every day!
withrespect
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I find this very very hard to believe.
Women think about sex quite often... but I don't think about sex with every man I come in contact with... even if they are attractive. :shrug: And I just can't fathom some of the people I am in contact with on a daily basis thinking about me in a sexual nature...
When I was single, I knew within the first five minutes of talking to a guy if I would ever consider sleeping with him.
Women think about sex quite often... but I don't think about sex with every man I come in contact with... even if they are attractive. :shrug: And I just can't fathom some of the people I am in contact with on a daily basis thinking about me in a sexual nature...
When I was single, I knew within the first five minutes of talking to a guy if I would ever consider sleeping with him.
For men, if you look good we want it, there is no thought process, and yes daily that man or men you come in contact are having a fantasy thought about you in the worst way, but in a good way ha ha. Only if you could read minds you would get a big eye opener of the male species sex thoughts and how often. Right now I picture you in high heels, tight leather and a body like Beyonce and a butt like Ines Sainz.