Sex after Pregnancy

onebdzee

off the shelf
I have actually gone to the doctor because I thought something was wrong, but the midwife assured me I was okay and there's really no test they can do to deam me okay. I thought they could test your hormones too. I just want that spark back ya know.... It's kinda depressing

*putting on Freudian hat*

Ever heard of Post Partum Depression?....It will do the same thing....once you get into the cycle of depression, it will continue till all gets straightened out by a doctor(not a mid-wife) and medication
 

SingerLady

New Member
*putting on Freudian hat*

Ever heard of Post Partum Depression?....It will do the same thing....once you get into the cycle of depression, it will continue till all gets straightened out by a doctor(not a mid-wife) and medication

Yea I have heard of it but I'm IT'S BEEN OVER A YEAR! Could it really be that?
 
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kvj21075

Meow
I just never ever wanted to touch that ugly thing so there is no way on God's green earth I'm gonna!

And whoever said something about having sex with a hedgehog, that is a little too small for me not to mention prickly. Don't think I will ever be that desperate. Besides I don't particularly care whether I have sex or not for the most part. :shrug:
a hedgehog is too small for you???? what do u normally use????? a foreign car?
 

onebdzee

off the shelf
Yea I have heard of it but I'm IT'S BEEN OVER A YEAR! Could it really be that?

Yea, it could be(been there, done that)....the cycle of depression starts with a post partum....take away the "new baby" stuff and returning to work will take it's place....take away the "how are we going to make it while I'm on maternity leave" and add in the cost of daycare....in the end, for the most part woman lose their sex drive because of this

My suggestion, go see a psychologist and see what they tell you....you might just need some stress management
 

SingerLady

New Member
Yea, it could be(been there, done that)....the cycle of depression starts with a post partum....take away the "new baby" stuff and returning to work will take it's place....take away the "how are we going to make it while I'm on maternity leave" and add in the cost of daycare....in the end, for the most part woman lose their sex drive because of this

My suggestion, go see a psychologist and see what they tell you....you might just need some stress management

Don't ya know..... I think your right! Gosh I can't believe I didn't think about that. You are soooo right. With all that other BS on my mind the last thing I think about is sex!:faint:
 

sunflower

Loving My Life...
Don't ya know..... I think your right! Gosh I can't believe I didn't think about that. You are soooo right. With all that other BS on my mind the last thing I think about is sex!:faint:


Get some help so you can be a wonderful mother and wife... (Not that you arent) Things will be fine!
 

onebdzee

off the shelf
Don't ya know..... I think your right! Gosh I can't believe I didn't think about that. You are soooo right. With all that other BS on my mind the last thing I think about is sex!:faint:

:diva:

Like I said....been there, done that

Woman have so much crap on their minds that the last thing they think about is sex....and when they do, they don't enjoy it fully because they are thinking about what to pack for the kids lunch in the morning or when the phone bill needs to be paid

Men(sorry guys) usually put all that aside and don't think about much but having sex

Get some help so you can be a wonderful mother and wife... (Not that you arent) Things will be fine!

:yeahthat:
 

Larry Gude

Strung Out
:diva:

Like I said....been there, done that

Woman have so much crap on their minds that the last thing they think about is sex....and when they do, they don't enjoy it fully because they are thinking about what to pack for the kids lunch in the morning or when the phone bill needs to be paid

Men(sorry guys) usually put all that aside and don't think about much but having sex



:yeahthat:

To a guy, worrying about all we worry about, what we deal with, there is no greater reward or stress reliever than having a fantastic romp with the old lady at the end of the day. We, at least me, are not very good at seeing stress or troubles as a reason to NOT wanna get off.
 

pebbles

Member
well I know that much but it has been over a year, and that urge is just not there! I use to be a little devil in bed and couldn't wait. but now I dread having to in the first place!

I feel the same way & it's been over a year for me as well since my son was born.
 
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