Sex after Pregnancy

lovinmaryland

lovinmaryland

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LordStanley said:
Considering how much of a burden it is for them to have sex with their husband, can you blame him for not being more romantic.

Say husband draws a bubble bath, lights some candles, mood music and flowers... you know all that crap :biggrin:

Then she still turns him down. He'll for all we know he's already done this and got tired of being shot down.
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Is this why you dont draw my bubble bath any more :bawl:
 
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HunterJJD

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Cowgirl said:
Seems to me that if the hubby was so sick of not having sex, he'd tell her they needed to fix it (yes, THEY) or get a divorce. And it's not just her problem. If she's too stressed, maybe he should step up and take some responsibilities off her. :shrug:

And gee, if a woman isn't interested in sex, guys shouldn't use the line "am I gonna get it tonight?" :rolleyes: Very romantic. Makes me want to drop my pants right there. :lol:
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There is two ways to use your mouth to ask for sex, that is not the right way
 
pebbles

pebbles

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Cowgirl said:
Seems to me that if the hubby was so sick of not having sex, he'd tell her they needed to fix it (yes, THEY) or get a divorce. And it's not just her problem. If she's too stressed, maybe he should step up and take some responsibilities off her. :shrug:

And gee, if a woman isn't interested in sex, guys shouldn't use the line "am I gonna get it tonight?" :rolleyes: Very romantic. Makes me want to drop my pants right there. :lol:
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That's exactly how I feel! So romantic, he makes it feel like another thing on my to do list!
 
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HunterJJD

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SingerLady said:
yA......:loser:
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Your the one posting about your sex life cause your husband turns you off now and/or his #### is to small to please your warn out snatch but instead of speaking with him about issues, you stay with him so he can support you and the kids all while his life is miserable. All this yet you call LS the :loser:
 
pebbles

pebbles

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LordStanley said:
so your solution is complain on a open forum that your hubby "naggs" you to have sex with him. So you give him just enough so he wont cheat on you.

Yeah, thats a healthy relationship.

Sex is an urge which has nothing to do with love. Hubby still has the urge. You dont. what happens if you stop all together. do you really expect him to wait around for you/

Hell maybe you just dont find him attractive anymore?
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Read back, I didn't come here asking for suggestions or complaining. I saw what the OP said & let her know she isn't the only one that feels that way.

Hopefully since we can talk to each other about our relationship, it won't get that far. And yes I still find him attractive so that's not the problem. I don't just give him enough so he won't cheat, I take into consideration his "needs" & even though I don't have the "urge" or want to I do it for him because I do love him. Not that that's any of your business.
 
Jameo

Jameo

What?!
HunterJJD said:
Your the one posting about your sex life cause your husband turns you off now and/or his #### is to small to please your warn out snatch but instead of speaking with him about issues, you stay with him so he can support you and the kids all while his life is miserable. All this yet you call LS the :loser:
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:roflmao:
 
lovinmaryland

lovinmaryland

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pebbles said:
That's exactly how I feel! So romantic, he makes it feel like another thing on my to do list!
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If you would have sex w/ him more maybe he wouldnt make it seem that way to you. But good lord you are practically making him beg for it. And honestly if you arent giving it to him that often he cant possibly last longer than 3 or 4 minutes... lighten up.
 
LordStanley

LordStanley

I know nothing
lovinmaryland said:
If you would have sex w/ him more maybe he wouldnt make it seem that way to you. But good lord you are practically making him beg for it. And honestly if you arent giving it to him that often he cant possibly last longer than 3 or 4 minutes... lighten up.
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3 minutes = happy husband.

Seems like a win win to me
 
SoMDGirl42

SoMDGirl42

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Can we biatch about the men who won't have sex with the pregnant woman because he might "hurt" the baby? Let's turn this around.


Please, like there is a man who is big enough to really hurt the baby...........:killingme
 
LordStanley

LordStanley

I know nothing
SoMDGirl42 said:
Can we biatch about the men who won't have sex with the pregnant woman because he might "hurt" the baby? Let's turn this around.


Please, like there is a man who is big enough to really hurt the baby...........:killingme
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JD is.... At least that what I hear from Nacho and LovinMD
 
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SingerLady

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HunterJJD said:
Your the one posting about your sex life cause your husband turns you off now and/or his #### is to small to please your warn out snatch but instead of speaking with him about issues, you stay with him so he can support you and the kids all while his life is miserable. All this yet you call LS the :loser:
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geeezzz well aren't you the nasty one..... First of all I never said any of the things you stated above. And Honey beleive me I don't need a man to support me and my child, I can hold my own.
 
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