This thread is about MJ and me now.
Don't you need to go and change a diaper?
Christy
b*tch rocket
If you spent just one evening with board mommy she'd fix you right up.
And seriously, you can sit and listen to all the touchy feely stuff if you want, but the fact of the matter is, if he doesn't want it he doesn't want it. Nothing you can do about it, and you'd be silly to beat yourself up over "why". Count yourself lucky that you won't be stuck changing his diapers and wiping his ass when he gets old.
Cowgirl
Well-Known Member
If you spent just one evening with board mommy she'd fix you right up.
And seriously, you can sit and listen to all the touchy feely stuff if you want, but the fact of the matter is, if he doesn't want it he doesn't want it. Nothing you can do about it, and you'd be silly to beat yourself up over "why". Count yourself lucky that you won't be stuck changing his diapers and wiping his ass when he gets old.
I need Vrai to come talk to my coworker. She just got dumped and is sobbing every day over her ex.
Chain729
CageKicker Extraordinaire
Husband let me know he'd be divorcing me about a week ago.
He has always maintained that he loved me, even tho many times it seemed that he didn't. So couple days ago I just ask him to be honest, did he love me?
He starts with the I have love for you and I care about you crap, but I say hey now. Its over, can't you just be honest, do you love me? And of course the answer was no.
I asked how long he'd felt that way, and he said he'd been falling out of love with me for a while...I asked how long...and he said since the beginning.
We've been together for 9 years, we have an 8 yr old daughter. I have asked him over the years to just let me go if he didn't love me, but he lied and manipulated me this whole time.
How can a person do that to someone else? How could he do it to me when he knows I love him? If he had the tiniest speck of love for me at all he would have told me the truth, he should have let me go.
This has my head spinning. I thought people were good for the most part. But they aren't.
I feel completely violated.
Have wedding vows replaced "until death do us part," with "until I'm not infatuated with you anymore, until I don't feel like loving you, or until I don't feel loved anymore?"
aps45819
24/7 Single Dad
"until it's inconvenient"
K
kris31280
Guest
"until such time as both parties deem this contract to be null and void." Might as well dehumanize it since that's what it amounts to...
Husband let me know he'd be divorcing me about a week ago.
He has always maintained that he loved me, even tho many times it seemed that he didn't. So couple days ago I just ask him to be honest, did he love me?
He starts with the I have love for you and I care about you crap, but I say hey now. Its over, can't you just be honest, do you love me? And of course the answer was no.
I asked how long he'd felt that way, and he said he'd been falling out of love with me for a while...I asked how long...and he said since the beginning.
We've been together for 9 years, we have an 8 yr old daughter. I have asked him over the years to just let me go if he didn't love me, but he lied and manipulated me this whole time.
How can a person do that to someone else? How could he do it to me when he knows I love him? If he had the tiniest speck of love for me at all he would have told me the truth, he should have let me go.
This has my head spinning. I thought people were good for the most part. But they aren't.
I feel completely violated.
My ex-wife kinda did the same thing to me. After 7 years of marriage, she told me out of the blue that she didn't want to be married anymore, ( through a text message at that ). I can tell you that at first it was very hard to deal with, but as time goes on it gets easier and easier. Dont beat yourself up over it, he made the chioce not you. You will be ok.
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shiki
Guest
Agreed.
what are the icky things?
No I'm actually skinny
and I didn't know he was homosexual but I did know he liked to suck sausage on occasion.
I'm blown but I'll get over it. We have a daughter together and he's been raising my sons as his own. I fell more upset for them.
Alrighty then.
BadGirl
I am so very blessed
Wow.
He wasn't the "Don't ask, don't Tell 'Marine", was he?
Dye Tied
Garden Variety Gnome
He wasn't the "Don't ask, don't Tell 'Marine", was he?
Mojo?
For Dye, not Mojo...
Simply amazing...