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CalvertNewbie

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it's true. I am looking at myself. But before I just threw away my family I wanted to make sure I was not just imagining it. I just wanted him to tell me the truth.


Shiki, you had every right to demand honest answers from him before he ends the marriage. It's the only way you can really start to move on, by having the answers/closure you need. It sounds as though you've known for quite some time that you marriage was on the rocks.

I also feel sorry for the kids but kids are stronger than a lot of people give them credit for. They will make it through this, just like you will. I hope he plans to remain in their lives and that he'll continue to support his child as a father should. Best of luck. Hang in there! :huggy:
 

LesterGreen

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My ex-wife kinda did the same thing to me. After 7 years of marriage, she told me out of the blue that she didn't want to be married anymore, ( through a text message at that ). I can tell you that at first it was very hard to deal with, but as time goes on it gets easier and easier. Dont beat yourself up over it, he made the chioce not you. You will be ok.

Daaaammnnn!!!!! How old is your ex-wife, 14?
 
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CalvertNewbie

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:killingme She pretty much acted like it. You know thats all anybody does anymore is text. It was a pretty chicken sh!t move on her part if you ask me.

That's for sure! She should have at least had the decency to sit down, face to face with you, and tell you like an adult. That's horrible, but at least it probably helped you realize more quickly that you didn't need someone like that as your wife.
 

rich70

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That's for sure! She should have at least had the decency to sit down, face to face with you, and tell you like an adult. That's horrible, but at least it probably helped you realize more quickly that you didn't need someone like that as your wife.

Honestly, your right. It did help out a little. It did show me who she really was and what kind of person she is.
 

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shiki

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yeah some turn to crack...

So let me get this straight...your husband of 9 or so years...who as you said, "Raised your son(s) as his own" told you he didn't love you anymore and wants a divorce...

so he didn't cheat? didn't hit you? didn't hit your kids? just said, "hey i don't love you anymore" and now you are telling an internet board that he was gay?

First off which is it? Upset that I've said too much or that I've said too little? Secondly I'm not telling anyone he's gay, perhaps implied in answer to a silly question, but never said. I was being facetious...or was I? Truly can't see how it really matters to you...unless you're his boyfriend or maybe his girlfriend and don't like how I'm badmouthing him.


Even if it was true, which i doubt, what does that say about you?


Thirdly, Miss Cleo is that you? Your psychic powers are amazing! you don't know me or him so why would you believe or doubt anything? If you did know either of us you'd know the truth anyway. Everyone has a right to an opinion, yours on this subject falls into the uninformed category. :jameo:


calvertnewbie said:
Shiki, you had every right to demand honest answers from him before he ends the marriage. It's the only way you can really start to move on, by having the answers/closure you need. It sounds as though you've known for quite some time that you marriage was on the rocks.

I also feel sorry for the kids but kids are stronger than a lot of people give them credit for. They will make it through this, just like you will. I hope he plans to remain in their lives and that he'll continue to support his child as a father should. Best of luck. Hang in there!

I would have liked honesty but he could never give it to me, why should I expect it now. It is a blow but I'm hopin we can end it peacefully.

I should have listened to my heart, actions do speak louder than words. But he's my husband I trusted him. He lied.

life goes on tho doesn't it :(
 
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