I agree that there should be no name calling; especially from someone who is the OP. I think advice was given here, under the circumstances that most of us don't know each other, personally, and suggestions were made here out of experience, kindness, and concern. Afterall, wr, you did ask for someone to save you. I hope your BP is back to normal. We, who are parents, have lived through what you described here. I know you are frustrated, but, please take a step back, and look at the concern offered you. No one has their arm twisted behind their back, and is forced to post. I was going to use the gun pointed to one's head reference, but that is not politically correct, anymore. JMO. Take care.
Note: I guess I will never be a full fledged forum member because I detest forum speak; maroon, tread, inorite, meamie, smow, ghey, etc. Just tell it like it is, and use real English. No wonder spell check blew up.