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bresamil

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charlesctygal said:
I tried talking to him last night and all hell broke loose. Whenever he doesnt want to talk about something he gets irate and starts throwing stuff. Last night he threw his pack of cigarettes on me and told me it was my fault becaues I was making him angry. Its always my fault according to him. I start all the arguments and him and his daughter can do no wrong. He went into his daughters bedroom and told her I was being mean to him, so she comes out with him a few minutes later and she starts hitting on me (not that it hurt or anything) and told me she did not like me. He just sat there and laughed. It got real bad and now he says I have to leave. Its in both of our names, but I certainly dont want to stay there. Now I look for a place to stay, everything is so expensive.
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You need to go to the Women's Center and explain the situation. They will help guide you to affordable housing and legal help. They can also advise you on how to handle the property situation. Good luck and thank God you are getting out while you can.
 
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charlesctygal said:
I tried talking to him last night and all hell broke loose. Whenever he doesnt want to talk about something he gets irate and starts throwing stuff. Last night he threw his pack of cigarettes on me and told me it was my fault becaues I was making him angry. Its always my fault according to him. I start all the arguments and him and his daughter can do no wrong. He went into his daughters bedroom and told her I was being mean to him, so she comes out with him a few minutes later and she starts hitting on me (not that it hurt or anything) and told me she did not like me. He just sat there and laughed. It got real bad and now he says I have to leave. Its in both of our names, but I certainly dont want to stay there. Now I look for a place to stay, everything is so expensive.
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He definately has anger issues. I know the type, all too well. I sure hope you can find a place to stay. From my experience, trust me, if he has anger issues, it won't get better, only worse. The Women's Center might be able to help you. Please don't stay until it gets so bad that you end up in the hospital. There is a home in Calvert for abused women, it is called Safe Harbor, but you will have to press charges against him to get in. Also, Social Services could do some intervention if you want to take that route.
 
SouthernMdRocks

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charlesctygal said:
I tried talking to him last night and all hell broke loose. Whenever he doesnt want to talk about something he gets irate and starts throwing stuff. Last night he threw his pack of cigarettes on me and told me it was my fault becaues I was making him angry. Its always my fault according to him. I start all the arguments and him and his daughter can do no wrong. He went into his daughters bedroom and told her I was being mean to him, so she comes out with him a few minutes later and she starts hitting on me (not that it hurt or anything) and told me she did not like me. He just sat there and laughed. It got real bad and now he says I have to leave. Its in both of our names, but I certainly dont want to stay there. Now I look for a place to stay, everything is so expensive.
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OMG what a ass he is. Glad you are finding this out now, before more children are involved. Good luck, there is help out there if needed. But think twice before up and leaving, it's your place too and he can cry abandonment. This is strictly a legal issue and I'm not sure this would apply in your case, but it's something to find out about..But most important is your well being so maybe leaving now is your best option.
 
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charlesctygal said:
I basically was just asking for some advice, no harsh criticism. I know I got myself in a bad situation, and yes, things have gotten a lot worse. I was just wondering if any of you are step parents, and if you have a step child who misbehaves all the times, so helpful hints?
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Stepfamily Network Home Page.. but I think you're better off being by yourself.
 
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charlesctygal said:
I tried talking to him last night and all hell broke loose. Whenever he doesnt want to talk about something he gets irate and starts throwing stuff. Last night he threw his pack of cigarettes on me and told me it was my fault becaues I was making him angry. Its always my fault according to him. I start all the arguments and him and his daughter can do no wrong. He went into his daughters bedroom and told her I was being mean to him, so she comes out with him a few minutes later and she starts hitting on me (not that it hurt or anything) and told me she did not like me. He just sat there and laughed. It got real bad and now he says I have to leave. Its in both of our names, but I certainly dont want to stay there. Now I look for a place to stay, everything is so expensive.
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Big big big honkin' red flags right there!

Time to get the hell out of Dodge.

Do you own the place together or is it a rental?
 
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vraiblonde said:
Women are dumb, anyway. They'll just marry any old guy, regardless of his glaring flaws or how incompatible they are for each other. That's why I can never figure out these guys who complain they can't find a woman, when all these gals just take the first guy who comes down the pike.
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Cowgirl said:
You know it is possible to raise nice, well-behaved children without spanking, right?
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Yeah I just raise my voice to Megan and she crumbles ......... but sometimes mom has to clear her ears with a swat to the diaper
 
vraiblonde

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Dear Everyone:

charlesctygal has resolved her problem by leaving her husband. We can stop advising her to do so now.

Yours in attentiveness,

Vrai
 
BadGirl

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vraiblonde said:
Dear Everyone:

charlesctygal has resolved her problem by leaving her husband. We can stop advising her to do so now.

Yours in attentiveness,

Vrai
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Wishing charlesctygal nothing but good things in her future. :yay:

Sounds like she more than deserves it.
 
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