Stepping Out

[MDindef]

Originally posted by Kain99
So, MDindef are ya going to post the information from the article that you read??

Yeah, I'll post it...gotta find it again.

The Barna Institute researches religious type things. One of the things they say is that church members by percentage compared with non-church members are just as likely to participate in many different offenses.

When I find it again, I'll post it.

 

[justhangn]

Re: Yakky

Originally posted by Kain99
When you find out that someone cheated on you... What hurts the most? The thought of him touching someone else or the thought of him caring for someone else?

For me, it was the betrayal of trust, the act has nothing to do with it. Some people are just dogs out mounting the nearest post while others use it as a tool against their so-called loved one.

The commitment of body and soul is supposed to be what keeps the marriage together, without either; it’s nothing more than a convenience.

 

[Kain99]

No offense taken... It is all about trust once it's gone you never, ever get it back....

I think that if your laying around fantasizing about Joe Schmuckatelly all the time your not really much different than the person who steps out...

Kenny Chesney doesn't count

 

[JabbaJawz]

Originally posted by Kain99
Kenny Chesney doesn't count

Thanks for the disclaimer... !

 

[SxyPrincess]

Originally posted by Kain99

Kenny Chesney doesn't count

Neither does Tim McGraw!

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by Kain99
No offense taken... It is all about trust once it's gone you never, ever get it back....

No truer words have ever been spoken.

 

[justhangn]

Talk about your thread killer......

 

[Kain99]

I don't think any famous people count! It's the ones ya share an office with and drink with on the weekends that I'd worry about.

 

[Kizzy]

I disagree with that. I think it is ok to have a fantasy now and then, I mean lets face it we are not dead. Now, if you turn your fantasy into reality, it could be the beginning of your demise. First, women DO NOT cheat unless there is something they are not getting from the relationship. (sorry, Tater) But, maybe she wasn't ready for that commitment.

As far as getting back the trust, it can be done. Anything is possible.

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by IM4Change
I disagree with that. I think it is ok to have a fantasy now and then, I mean lets face it we are not dead.

According to the marriage couselors of the world, role playing it what you are supposed to do when you need to spice things up.


I agree, she finds a new residence to roll to and I roll in the next babe.

 

[Kain99]

Oh... So your saying that you wouldn't mind finding out that hubby dearest is thinking about Sally Sue instead of you?

 

[yakky doodle]

Originally posted by Kain99
Kenny Chesney doesn't count

PFEW! ((wiping sweat off brow)) thanks!

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by Kain99
Oh... So your saying that you wouldn't mind finding out that hubby dearest is thinking about Sally Sue instead of you?

Maybe when the pin-up falls off the head board she'll think differently.

 

[yakky doodle]

Originally posted by justhangn
I agree, she finds a new residence to roll to and I roll in the next babe.

go JH!

 

[Kizzy]

Oh... So your saying that you wouldn't mind finding out that hubby dearest is thinking about Sally Sue instead of you?

What I don't know doesn't hurt me. He is not going to run off with Sally Sue. He loves me and I know that. Even if he poked Sally Sue, he would stay once the cracker started to seem like the same old saltine he gets at home. I just better never find out about it.

 

[yakky doodle]

Originally posted by IM4Change
What I don't know doesn't hurt me. He is not going to run off with Sally Sue. He loves me and I know that. Even if he poked Sally Sue, he would stay once the cracker started to seem like the same old saltine he gets at home. I just better never find out about it.

so, let me get this straight: you are encouraging adultery and deceit? how do you know he wouldn't run off with SS? Husbands leave their wives every day for their little honey bunny. Who's to say yours wouldn't?

(not being personal; rather, hypothetical).

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by IM4Change
I just better never find out about it.

This is were is gets interesting though, because she'll make sure you know he's been docking at her port just to get back at him for cutting off the services.

 

[yakky doodle]

Originally posted by justhangn
This is were is gets interesting though, because she'll make sure you know he's been docking at her port just to get back at him for cutting off the services.

jackpot! we women are some evil beyotches when we don't get what we want!

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by yakky doodle
jackpot! we women are some evil beyotches when we don't get what we want!

It seems to be that way. Men seem to just find about receptacle where women want to keep what they had as a matter of possession.

I honestly think that’s why so many women try to land a married man, not because he’s the be all end all, just because they want to KNOW that they could make that man stray.


OH and by the way, when he doesn't take the bait, HE'S DIRT!

 

[justhangn]

Originally posted by kwillia
You mean once I make it to a meet 'n greet function... I have to stop fantasizing about all of you....

That happens anyway.