SxyPrincess, is this the way you'd treat someone who admitted to problems in his life if he were face to face? Unless you're completely heartless, the answer would be no.
Why would you do it here? Even if you suspect he's ingenuine, what if he's being honest?
MARSAM, this is the same way I was welcomed to the conversation. Just push through it, you'll be alright.
By the way, there seems to be a "family" here, a BBS Mafia of sorts. There is a certain group of users the flaunt a lot of supposed power. I experienced it when I was new here, too. If you question the opinion of one of the "family," watch out!
...might be one of the main reasons that the same group of people is here, and new members sometimes never return. Flame me if you will, but at least give it a thought.