That Does It!!!!

Sharon

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rack'm said:
Get to the point and stop talking around the subject.

:yeahthat: That drives me nuts.

Say [whatever] in as few words as possible before I tune you out; then remind me later or write it down. I have a short attention span. :lol:
 
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Kizzy

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rack'm said:
Get to the point and stop talking around the subject. :yay:

Good advice. I think women make an effort to spare feelings so they have to fluff up everything they say, instead of going right for the nuts and bolts, but I have run across more men than ever that do this as well.

Right now, I deal with hundreds of people every month, about 1/2 of them on a weekly basis. I find myself getting frustrated with "fluff" just fricken say it.

And I've ALWAYS hated guessing games. You sense an attitude, ask what is wrong and get that "nothing." :mad: I use to feel I had to get to the bottom of it, now, it is like be mad/upset/whatever, when you are over it or willing to get to the nuts and bolts come to me.
 
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SamSpade

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Sharon said:
:yeahthat: That drives me nuts.

Say [whatever] in as few words as possible before I tune you out; then remind me later or write it down. I have a short attention span. :lol:
Nah.

I have both a little brother and a little sister, who can talk without taking a breath on a subject for at least twenty minutes - and THEN forget their original point. I work with two people who frequently sidle up to your cubicle and suddenly begin recanting all the events of the weekend no matter how inconsequential they are. I work with one woman in particular who can't seem to grasp when a conversation is OVER and will continue to follow you everywhere - I've actually ducked into the men's room to end a conversation she won't finish.

I've had people pollitely dawdle in conversation and my bladder was about to explode.

Say your peace first; THEN elaborate.
 
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Kain99

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Kizzy said:
And I've ALWAYS hated guessing games. You sense an attitude, ask what is wrong and get that "nothing." :mad: I use to feel I had to get to the bottom of it, now, it is like be mad/upset/whatever, when you are over it or willing to get to the nuts and bolts come to me.
OMFG! This is so frustrating! Game playing crap! I hate thsi more than liver...
 

SamSpade

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Kizzy said:
And I've ALWAYS hated guessing games. You sense an attitude, ask what is wrong and get that "nothing." :mad: I use to feel I had to get to the bottom of it, now, it is like be mad/upset/whatever, when you are over it or willing to get to the nuts and bolts come to me.
Women do this, too - but I suspect for different reasons.

Most often, when a woman says "Nothing" in response to "what's wrong" - and it's said in such a way that you KNOW it's not true - what's really being said is, I'm REALLY mad at you, and I'm not talking about it, 'cuz I either want to stay mad, or I know I'll just get madder.

When I do it, it's usually because it'll just make *YOU* mad, no matter how much you say it won't.

Hmmm. Maybe it IS the same reason.
 

rack'm

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SamSpade said:
Women do this, too - but I suspect for different reasons.

Most often, when a woman says "Nothing" in response to "what's wrong" - and it's said in such a way that you KNOW it's not true - what's really being said is, I'm REALLY mad at you, and I'm not talking about it, 'cuz I either want to stay mad, or I know I'll just get madder.

When I do it, it's usually because it'll just make *YOU* mad, no matter how much you say it won't.

Hmmm. Maybe it IS the same reason.


They are both just childish games.........when I'm faced with that crap, I roll over and go to sleep. :yawn:
 
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Kain99

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rack'm said:
They are both just childish games.........when I'm faced with that crap, I roll over and go to sleep. :yawn:
That's true.... There is something obviously wrong and then they deny it. If you get really lucky, you end up with a psycho who is p!ssed that you can't read his mind. :lol:
 

The Jackoholic

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SamSpade said:
Most often, when a woman says "Nothing" in response to "what's wrong" - and it's said in such a way that you KNOW it's not true - what's really being said is, I'm REALLY mad at you, and I'm not talking about it, 'cuz I either want to stay mad, or I know I'll just get madder.
i've learned just to say"what i do" then "sorry"and if it was really bad i get the phone book out to see what i have to do to make it right
 

rack'm

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The Jackoholic said:
i've learned just to say"what i do" then "sorry"and if it was really bad i get the phone book out to see what i have to do to make it right


Classic appeaser…….you voted for Gore didn’t you!!
 

SamSpade

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rack'm said:
They are both just childish games.........when I'm faced with that crap, I roll over and go to sleep. :yawn:
Except, I'm just giving up fighting. It's not a ploy to me. Saying "nothing" for me IS the same thing as rolling over and going to sleep.
 
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Kizzy

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My father would get mad and just not say a word to you. You'd ask what is wrong and he wouldn't even say anything, he'd just ignore you. :lol: My husband does this too, just doesn't say anything. I appreciate that quality about both of them more than ever, because they THINK about why they are mad before just blowing up about a bunch of crap that is irrelevant. When I find out what it is, it is pretty specific and to the point.

Attitudes are contagious, and some people are just mental.
 

Pete

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Is the topic about people who ramble on endlessly with uninteresting trivial crap or the "Whats wrong?" "Oh nothing" game?
 

SamSpade

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Pete said:
Is the topic about people who ramble on endlessly with uninteresting trivial crap or the "Whats wrong?" "Oh nothing" game?
Why, what's wrong, Pete?

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