The Child Support injustice.

[blondie4512]

She needs her real Dad whether you like that or not, and the alienation will hurt her in many ways.

Having custody means providing all the child needs and that means it is the custodial parent that has the job of NOT alienating the separated parent.



I had one son who is now 33, and my own Child Support case is closed and over long years ago.

So there is nothing to justify for me, and my intention is to help other families being ruined by the Child Support and Custody laws.


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Did you miss the part where I said he chooses to alienate himself??? I guess you think I'm supposed to just show up on his doorstep with my daughter who for 1 has never met this man a day in her life and just be like hey here's your daughter, please be a part of her life and he is gonna say ok and its all gonna be merry?!?! I see showing up to some run down trailer, with who in the hell knows what's goin on it that place but I can assure you it would be nowhere I would let my child go near.. And him probably slamming the door in her face then I get to be the one to console her on her heart break... Yea I think I'll pass but I'm glad you live in this delusional world where everyone one is perfect and this stuff doesn't happen... Again helping to justify your own screw ups as a father...

 

[LusbyMom]

Did you miss the part where I said he chooses to alienate himself??? I guess you think I'm supposed to just show up on his doorstep with my daughter who for 1 has never met this man a day in her life and just be like hey here's your daughter, please be a part of her life and he is gonna say ok and its all gonna be merry?!?! I see showing up to some run down trailer, with who in the hell knows what's goin on it that place but I can assure you it would be nowhere I would let my child go near.. And him probably slamming the door in her face then I get to be the one to console her on her heart break... Yea I think I'll pass but I'm glad you live in this delusional world where everyone one is perfect and this stuff doesn't happen... Again helping to justify your own screw ups as a father...

Of course it's not his fault.. he didn't choose that. It's your fault and it's your responsibility to make sure she sees him.

He really has some warped logic

 

[bcp]

Did you miss the part where I said he chooses to alienate himself??? I guess you think I'm supposed to just show up on his doorstep with my daughter who for 1 has never met this man a day in her life and just be like hey here's your daughter, please be a part of her life and he is gonna say ok and its all gonna be merry?!?! I see showing up to some run down trailer, with who in the hell knows what's goin on it that place but I can assure you it would be nowhere I would let my child go near.. And him probably slamming the door in her face then I get to be the one to console her on her heart break... Yea I think I'll pass but I'm glad you live in this delusional world where everyone one is perfect and this stuff doesn't happen... Again helping to justify your own screw ups as a father...

If I had a child floating around out there that I didnt know about, I would certainly not slam the door in their face should they suddenly show up.

might be some proof required though.

 

[Highlander]

Did you miss the part where I said he chooses to alienate himself??? I guess you think I'm supposed to just show up on his doorstep with my daughter who for 1 has never met this man a day in her life and just be like hey here's your daughter, please be a part of her life and he is gonna say ok and its all gonna be merry?!?! I see showing up to some run down trailer, with who in the hell knows what's goin on it that place but I can assure you it would be nowhere I would let my child go near.. And him probably slamming the door in her face then I get to be the one to console her on her heart break... Yea I think I'll pass but I'm glad you live in this delusional world where everyone one is perfect and this stuff doesn't happen... Again helping to justify your own screw ups as a father...

Do yourself a favor Blondie and don't waste too much time trying to reason with cuSICK. He is a pathetic, delusional little man and you'd find yourself having a more intelligent dialogue with a tree stump.

 

[blondie4512]

If I had a child floating around out there that I didnt know about, I would certainly not slam the door in their face should they suddenly show up.

might be some proof required though.

Oh he knows she exist, but could just care less...

 

[blondie4512]

Do yourself a favor Blondie and don't waste too much time trying to reason with cuSICK. He is a pathetic, delusional little man and you'd find yourself having a more intelligent dialogue with a tree stump.

I'm beginning to realize this...

 

[Toxick]

If I had a child floating around out there that I didnt know about, I would certainly not slam the door in their face should they suddenly show up.

might be some proof required though.

HOW CAN YOU NOT TRUST YOUR OWN CHILD!!!!

 

[VoteJP]

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According to him, people magically start acting their age and become good, kind, loving people when they have a child. "It's nature".

Rational people understand this is a delusion, yet he clings to this delusion with a tenacity the likes of which I have never seen.

Wow, I am so happy that you said that as it touches my heart.

So the message does get though even if it does take time for the seeds to grow.

It really is that simple - just stop viewing the parents as inhuman animals and start seeing the parents as regular human beings and the ignorance will fade away.


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[VoteJP]

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Thank you for proving my diagnosis, Jimmy!

You are welcome, and I too am happy that you got your whatever proved.

Cheers, cheers, cheers...


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[hvp05]

Of course it's not his fault.. he didn't choose that. It's your fault and it's your responsibility to make sure she sees him.

He really has some warped logic

As T_P said, manufacturing this disjointed reality is borne of his own experiences, and the only way he can attempt to excuse what happened in his past. He denies that his recent "campaigns" have been related to that past, but clearly the ties are deep and direct.

He also denies holding disdain for his ex-wife, yet has insulted her second husband and their marriage. Additionally, he has indicated that he stood by her grave and told their son he was not upset for what he did - or something to that effect - I'm sure T_P remembers the line better than I. That is what led to his deducing that divorces should not be granted and second marriages relegated to the level of adultery.

Thus why he can not let go, no matter how many times or how many ways his beliefs are disproven: not only does he stand to lose his agenda, but he'd have to face reality and accept responsibility.

So the message does get though even if it does take time for the seeds to grow.

You are welcome, and I too am happy that you got your whatever proved.

 

[frogman123]

Why in the hell is this guy running for Governor? His record is ridiculous and every post on here makes him out to be the biggest idiot on the forums (which is really saying something). Who is paying for his little "campaign"? "Manufacturing/Distributing CDS"? What an dumb@$$.

 

[VoteJP]

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Did you miss the part where I said he chooses to alienate himself??? I guess you think I'm supposed to just show up on his doorstep with my daughter who for 1 has never met this man a day in her life and just be like hey here's your daughter, please be a part of her life and he is gonna say ok and its all gonna be merry?!?! I see showing up to some run down trailer, with who in the hell knows what's going on it that place but I can assure you it would be nowhere I would let my child go near.. And him probably slamming the door in her face then I get to be the one to console her on her heart break... Yea I think I'll pass but I'm glad you live in this delusional world where everyone one is perfect and this stuff doesn't happen... Again helping to justify your own screw ups as a father...

You are just projecting your ideas onto a scenario and being unnecessarily defensive as what you describe is not very likely to really happen at all, link.

Since you have the child's custody then it is your job not to let there be any alienation for the child even if the Dad did want to be alienated (which is never true).

If you approach the Dad in a hostile way then you are bringing the hostility to him, and assuming a "run down trailer" is not fair and even if it is a broken down trailer then he is still her Dad. And we do not know what is going on with him without actually talking to the Dad and finding out what is what, and it is extremely unlikely that a Dad and a Man that once made love to you is going to slam the door in your face. A daughter needs their own real Dad and that is a life-long need that will harm her without it.


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[VoteJP]

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Sometimes you have to use the law when a man doesn't have enough balls to grow up and be a father.

Moms and custodial parents do not need the law and that law has done you wrong.

The Dad does not need to meet your ideals of grown-up or of being a father and the laws will never serve that function either.

It is your job to deal with the Dad the way he is and not the way you want him to be, and the children need their own real Dad the way he really is and not having their father violated by the law with Mommy standing behind the law that hurts their Dad.

The law makes a custodial to feel strong and to feel righteous but it is a betrayal and those feelings are untrue.


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[LusbyMom]

Moms and custodial parents do not need the law and that law has done you wrong.

The Dad does not need to meet your ideals of grown-up or of being a father and the laws will never serve that function either.

It is your job to deal with the Dad the way he is and not the way you want him to be, and the children need their own real Dad the way he really is and not having their father violated by the law with Mommy standing behind the law that hurts their Dad.

The law makes a custodial to feel strong and to feel righteous but it is a betrayal and those feelings are untrue.


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My job is to raise my child in the best possible way. My job is to protect my child. My ONE AND ONLY concern is my child.

Is he the way I want him to be? Nope and it is my concern because him acting like a 2 year old HURTS MY CHILD. When you have a child who sits and waits for a deadbeat to show up and then he never shows how exactly do you explain that to a child when they are hurt? I could give a rats ass about his hurt because he is an adult who makes his own decision. My child is just that a child and does not deserve to be treated like garbage.

 

[Bronwyn]

My job is to raise my child in the best possible way. My job is to protect my child. My ONE AND ONLY concern is my child.

Is he the way I want him to be? Nope and it is my concern because him acting like a 2 year old HURTS MY CHILD. When you have a child who sits and waits for a deadbeat to show up and then he never shows how exactly do you explain that to a child when they are hurt? I could give a rats ass about his hurt because he is an adult who makes his own decision. My child is just that a child and does not deserve to be treated like garbage.

Don't forget part of your job is to me too!!!!

 

[frogman123]

Moms and custodial parents do not need the law and that law has done you wrong.

The Dad does not need to meet your ideals of grown-up or of being a father and the laws will never serve that function either.

It is your job to deal with the Dad the way he is and not the way you want him to be, and the children need their own real Dad the way he really is and not having their father violated by the law with Mommy standing behind the law that hurts their Dad.

The law makes a custodial to feel strong and to feel righteous but it is a betrayal and those feelings are untrue.


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You are the prime example of someone that should not be a Dad and that shows. Look at you and then look at your son. Like father like son- lives of crime. Some crack head knocks up a woman and that means he is going to (or is eventually going to) be a good dad? NO! Do i think a child needs a father figure? Yes. I know many people who would never refer to their bio father as "dad", but do refer to their step-father as "dad"- because "dad" means a lot more than just knocking someone up- look at yourself if you need an example.

You are the epitemy of a low-life screw up. And it's sad that you are attempting to get people to vote you into a position that represents them. No body is going to vote for you. Like someone else said in this thread stop posting your craziness and go get a job. well, I guess the problem is that you are not hireable into any decent job- AHHH! That't it! You can't get a decent job, so you are trying to get one that doesnt require hiring, but instead people electing you into it. Just reading your crap pisses me off, but I want to keep reading it so see you make an @$$ out of yourself over and over again...

 

[Bronwyn]

You are the prime example of someone that should not be a Dad and that shows. Look at you and then look at your son. Like father like son- lives of crime. Some crack head knocks up a woman and that means he is going to (or is eventually going to) be a good dad? NO! Do i think a child needs a father figure? Yes. I know many people who would never refer to their bio father as "dad", but do refer to their step-father as "dad"- because "dad" means a lot more than just knocking someone up- look at yourself if you need an example.

You are the epitemy of a low-life screw up. And it's sad that you are attempting to get people to vote you into a position that represents them. No body is going to vote for you. Like someone else said in this thread stop posting your craziness and go get a job. well, I guess the problem is that you are not hireable into any decent job- AHHH! That't it! You can't get a decent job, so you are trying to get one that doesnt require hiring, but instead people electing you into it. Just reading your crap pisses me off, but I want to keep reading it so see you make an @$$ out of yourself over and over again...

Very well put.

 

[VoteJP]

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Some crack head knocks up a woman and that means he is going to (or is eventually going to) be a good dad? NO!

The child's real parents are the reality, and anything otherwise is a lie.

If their parent(s) is a drug user or a rapist or nice person then that is reality, and being healthy includes dealing with reality and not hiding from it or denying it.

A baby born to parents of the KKK grows up to be the child of the KKK because that is what reproducing children is about.

If you want to steal babies from drug using parents then you need to steal the babies from the KKK and from other objectionable parents too.

I say we need to stop taking babies away from their own God given parents - unless there is proven child abuse going on.

Do i think a child needs a father figure? Yes. I know many people who would never refer to their bio father as "dad", but do refer to their step-father as "dad"- because "dad" means a lot more than just knocking someone up- look at yourself if you need an example.

Children are told to call their step-parent as Dad or as Mom, and the children need to be told NOT to do that.

The bio-parents are the real Mom and Dad and anyone else is a fraud and liar - and a liar to children.

You have it figured out in raising children under lies, because you dis-value the truth and the children are then raised under lies and liars.

The truth will not hurt children, and by the truth is how children face life honestly.

... it's sad that you are attempting to get people to vote you into a position that represents them. No body is going to vote for you. Like someone else said in this thread stop posting your craziness and go get a job. well,

In 2008 I got 19,067 votes just in the 5th District of MD, and I am applying for the job as the next Governor of Maryland.


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[bcp]

The child's real parents are the reality, and anything otherwise is a lie..... next Governor of Maryland.


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[LusbyMom]

The bio-parents are the real Mom and Dad and anyone else is a fraud and liar - and a liar to children.

You have it figured out in raising children under lies, because you dis-value the truth and the children are then raised under lies and liars.

The truth will not hurt children, and by the truth is how children face life honestly.


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Do you know what a "real" dad is? It's the one who is there for the child all the time. The one who stays up nights when they are puking their guts up, the one that shows up to coach the kids team, the one that shows up to practices and games, the one who supports them, the one the child turns to when they are hurt or sad, the one they look up to. The one that listens to hours of band practice, the one that goes on field trips, the one that teaches them right from wrong. Their is so much more that a "real" dad does. A name on a birth certificate mean nothing if you don't do what a "real" dad does.

You say the truth will not hurt the child? So is it ok to tell a kid that their parent is a POS loser deadbeat?