The ex and men in general

[softcrab]

I doubt your ex is disappointed/hurt that you didn't ask him to help you move your car. In fact, he's probably happy that you didn't ask him or he would have at least offered to help you out. Heck, it sounds like he may have been a jerk and said no to you. Otherwise you'd think he'd have offered.



how old is she?

Daughter 21. And he did do me a favor. I got the house alone - Loud music, she doesn't like that. The computer, again I'm the nice one, when she's home I let her have it. Guess ya'll wish she was home.

 

[aps45819]

No offer. But we were married a long time. He knew me enough I probably wouldn't have accepted. Again, was he insulted? I've been told men like to help, it makes them feel needed and appreciated.

Come to think of it, those are not feelings I want to convey to my ex.

And I am the pleaser role in my family, I wouldn't have tried to make him feel bad on purpose.

He's not thinking about you, what you said or what the inflection of your voice might have meant.

He's watching football and drinking a beer

 

[nachomama]

Daughter 21. And he did do me a favor. I got the house alone - Loud music, she doesn't like that. The computer, again I'm the nice one, when she's home I let her have it. Guess ya'll wish she was home.

I'm thinking you might be an ex for a reason.

 

[Baja28]

And by the way ***k you.

Ooooooo......ok. Top or bottom? Good day to drink though isn't it?

 

[Toxick]

No offer. But we were married a long time. He knew me enough I probably wouldn't have accepted. Again, was he insulted?

Why do you care? It sounds to me that, if anything, you'd be glad if he was insulted.



So #### it --- just say he was insulted, give yourself a pat on the back and move on.

 

[softcrab]

I doubt your ex is disappointed/hurt that you didn't ask him to help you move your car. In fact, he's probably happy that you didn't ask him or he would have at least offered to help you out. Heck, it sounds like he may have been a jerk and said no to you. Otherwise you'd think he'd have offered.



how old is she?

He may have said no, but it would have been regret. I'm a good wife. Too bad, I was his. Ask my house.

 

[KVF323]

I already regret it, but at the time I never gave it a thought. More concerned with daughter getting satisfied. Just the way I am.

i like to make sure i get my satisfaction

 

[sockgirl77]

F***, I praise the Lord.

####, I hope you don't praise the Lord with language like that.

 

[Beta84]

I already regret it, but at the time I never gave it a thought. More concerned with daughter getting satisfied. Just the way I am.

Daughter 21. And he did do me a favor. I got the house alone - Loud music, she doesn't like that. The computer, again I'm the nice one, when she's home I let her have it. Guess ya'll wish she was home.

ok. I might be willing to help with that then.

 

[itsbob]

No I'm union, I have alreadt considered tomorrow off. What better excuse, can't get my car out. There is a method to my madness. And by the way ***k you.

Union??

How many weeks after a couple inches of snow can you still call out due to being snowed in??

My son tried to call in today, and my ex (bless her heart) told him to get off his ass and go to work.

 

[sockgirl77]

ok. I might be willing to help with that then.

I thought you were done with young chicks???

 

[Beta84]

I thought you were done with young chicks???

that's not that young! i've been aiming for at least drinking age lately! :shrug:

 

[itsbob]

that's not that young! i've been aiming for at least drinking age lately! :shrug:

Tippy Cup drinking age, or regular cup drinking age??

 

[Beta84]

Tippy Cup drinking age, or regular cup drinking age??

hey now, I'm not 4d!

 

[sockgirl77]

that's not that young! i've been aiming for at least drinking age lately! :shrug:

You'll get sick of 21 year olds quickly. They're annoying.

 

[vraiblonde]

My ex husband is okay and I'd let him dig me out of a snowstorm any day.

 

[Bann]

I don't think I'd turn down any help unless it was from a total weirdo - shoveling a lot of snow is hard work!

 

[LusbyMom]

I agree with you. I would rather have strangers help me than my ex. I wish I was a widow instead of an ex.

 

[Bay_Kat]

I don't think I'd turn down any help unless it was from a total weirdo - shoveling a lot of snow is hard work!

I'm still trying to figure out why the OP said the ex and men in general. This seems to be about her ex or maybe she's just bitter against men altogether.

 

[Bann]

I'm still trying to figure out why the OP said the ex and men in general. This seems to be about her ex or maybe she's just bitter against men altogether.

My ex isn't exactly my best friend, hence, the reason he's my ex. But I certainly wouldn't turn down an offer to help with as much snow as we've had! Thing1 & Thing2 and I shoveled a heckuva lot of snow between yesterday and today!