sgtsprout said:
I am curious though hoiw other people deal with the little things? Or is everyone else realtionship peachy.
Just noticed the date on this.
old old stuff.
And I see the issues have been resolved for the better.
Anyway my post still applies, I think:
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In my vast experience:
Having children (still alive) proves that you can tolerate obnoxious behavior. So, the things that really bother you now, you will grow used to, and you won't even notice them in a few years.
OTOH...
It could go in the other direction. Little things become like needles through your skin, the bigger issues become SPIKES through your head.
If the former turns out to be true, you've found love. Congratulations.
If the latter is true, enjoy the sex while it lasts, and make a backup plan for when it's gone.
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