This is bad.
- Thread starter notthatone
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Boring. You're slacking in your old age.
JULZ
BFJ
He will never be able to adjust his balance of highs and lows without medication. He can live a full, happy and productive life with meds and they aren't meds that will make him a zombie. He has to take control of this situation, you CANNOT do it for him.
As with addictions, this disease sometimes requires a person to bottom out before they realize they need help to manage the disease.
You are not a bad person if you leave, you do have a choice. If you see how this is damaging your children I say you must leave until he takes control of HIS disease.
bohman
Well-Known Member
That statement is the biggest steaming pile I've ever seen posted here. There is no one here quicker to unload on perfect strangers with hateful crap. The fact that you normally try to disguise it with "it's for their own good" really doesn't change anything.
I'm obviously biatchy enough on my own that I don't need any help.
But then you get right back on track with a 100% correct statement - I'm so confused!
pixiegirl
Cleopatra Jones
That statement is the biggest steaming pile I've ever seen posted here. There is no one here quicker to unload on perfect strangers with hateful crap. The fact that you normally try to disguise it with "it's for their own good" really doesn't change anything.
But then you get right back on track with a 100% correct statement - I'm so confused!
Confused is right if you think being a biatch has anything to do with being unhappy or angry because it has nothing to do with either. I lack patience for grown people that act like my 4 year old and need to have their hands held and boo boos kissed. Just like you have the right to have no patience for my biatchiness I have the right to have no patience for idiots.
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kris31280
Guest
Pixie's a subscriber to the school of Tough Love... she tells it like it is, doesn't really care if you agree with her or disagree with her, and isn't going to sugar coat something just because it'll make it easier to swallow.That statement is the biggest steaming pile I've ever seen posted here. There is no one here quicker to unload on perfect strangers with hateful crap. The fact that you normally try to disguise it with "it's for their own good" really doesn't change anything.
But then you get right back on track with a 100% correct statement - I'm so confused!
It's part of what makes her probably the best kind of friend to have around
Pixie's a subscriber to the school of Tough Love... she tells it like it is, doesn't really care if you agree with her or disagree with her, and isn't going to sugar coat something just because it'll make it easier to swallow.
It's part of what makes her probably the best kind of friend to have around
How does calling the OP a "douche" (post #37), among other unnecessary remarks, be mistaken for tough love and not sugar coating to make it easier to swallow?
Treating people with respect and not sugar coating advice can go hand in hand.
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kris31280
Guest
If you're acting like a douche she calls you a douche :shrug: Not sure how that could be made anymore clear.
Lugnut
I'm Rick James #####!
I imagine sugar coating a douche would be pretty bad for a Jay in the long run. The OP should thank Pixie for helping her avoid what could have been a very sticky situation...
No kidding, it's definitely clear. What's also clear, is the lack of respect she gives strangers looking for advice. Evidently you agree with treating strangers with no respect, personally I do not. I will extend respect to a stranger until they have proven to me that they do not deserve it. The OP needing help is no reason to disprove that she deserves respect.
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kris31280
Guest
The OP asked for advice, Pixie gave it. If you want someone to do it in a lovey feel good way, then don't ask advice of strangers :shrug:
Black-Francis
New Member
Pixie's a subscriber to the school of Tough Love... she tells it like it is, doesn't really care if you agree with her or disagree with her, and isn't going to sugar coat something just because it'll make it easier to swallow.
It's part of what makes her probably the best kind of friend to have around
Wow!! Can your head be any further up her nice ass?
pixiegirl
Cleopatra Jones
The OP is the douchiest douche bag of the douchiest kind. Go read its posts since it's been here. It has an open marriage because of the bi-polar husband, she takes her kids around this other man. She and her husband just bought a new car and found out he has over $8K in MVA fines. She has an affection for Xanax and vibrators, doesn't have a job nor any idea how to open a checking account and needs to find mens clothing in a size 5x. Sounds like a winner to me!
Really, do some homework before you give me crap about calling an idiot an idiot. It's not my job to make internet strangers with a need for attention feel good. I also don't need to give respect where none is due.
lovinmaryland
Well-Known Member
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kris31280
Guest
I just respect her for who she is, love her because of it :shrug:
pixiegirl
Cleopatra Jones
Shut it!
Everything she says is truth and she knows first hand I don't blow sunshine, even to my friends.
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kris31280
Guest
Shut it!
ESPECIALLY to your friends.Which is kinda the way to be... because if I wanted a Yes Man, I'd find a Yes Man... I'd rather have a friend who cares enough to tell me the truth, even if I don't want to hear it.
Shut it!
Well there ya go then.
As for the OP, I didn't research her every post (nor have I researched yours), therefore I do not know any of what you stated about the OP.
Respect as a trait that people have, is unfortunetly becoming extinct, you evidently don't care if people treat you with respect, since it's not one of your traits.
migtig
aka Mrs. Giant
Ty - stop your squabbling. Pixie will never back down, and you are just making this tread more miserable in the process.
As for the original poster, you aren't doing the wrong thing by leaving. Sometimes support from total strangers is what it takes, and there is some support here. But I think you should check out this Domestic Violence Shelters for St. Mary's County, MD and maybe give one of the places a call just to chat. Good luck.
As for the original poster, you aren't doing the wrong thing by leaving. Sometimes support from total strangers is what it takes, and there is some support here. But I think you should check out this Domestic Violence Shelters for St. Mary's County, MD and maybe give one of the places a call just to chat. Good luck.
pixiegirl
Cleopatra Jones
You sure are smart...
Or at least you like to think you are. Let me type real slow for you since you don't get it and are having a hard time catching on.....
The OP has posted nothing but "look at me b/s" since she came on a couple weeks ago (which I pointed out to you). She wants nothing more than attention. She does not deserve respect or even a serious response. Got it. She acts like a douche so she gets treated like one.
Respect is certainly one of my traits but I also don't expect it from strangers on the internet. I see the world the way it really is not with my CareBear glasses on. I've yet to call you a douche, though you are on the verge if you don't get off my nuts. It's the internet, I have the right to call an ass an ass if I see fit.
The husband
Needs to feel he's not in this alone and I'm not sure that's been conveyed to him. Is there anyone who has gone through this who can spend time with the husband? It is a scary thing to all of the sudden realize "this is you." One more point---unless he's completely lost, I bet he knows there's something wrong but can't take the step toward making it right.
Just a theory.
Needs to feel he's not in this alone and I'm not sure that's been conveyed to him. Is there anyone who has gone through this who can spend time with the husband? It is a scary thing to all of the sudden realize "this is you." One more point---unless he's completely lost, I bet he knows there's something wrong but can't take the step toward making it right.
Just a theory.