Trading sex for food

[vraiblonde]

I don't really understand the concept of this. If I get jiggy with a guy it's because I like him, not because he fed me. And the feeding thing isn't a prerequisite to me finding him attractive enough to suck face or more with. Conversely, just because he fed me or bought me a drink doesn't mean I will make physical contact with him.

How did food and sex get intertwined, anyway?

 

[Misfit]

How did food and sex get intertwined, anyway?

I blame Cucumbers.

 

[slotpuppy]

Is whipped cream a food? I find that goes good with sex.

 

[Beta]

I blame Cucumbers.

how about bananas?

 

[GURPS]

How did food and sex get intertwined, anyway?

I blame college guys, expecting a date to 'put out' just because he bought her dinner ...

 

[Misfit]

I've never been bought a meal and then felt pressure to put out. :shrug: It maybe because I'm gassy after I eat.

 

[vraiblonde]

And yet if some guy just handed you the $50 instead of using it to buy you dinner, that would be considered whorish. Dating is sooooo confusing....

 

[Beta]

And yet if some guy just handed you the $50 instead of using it to buy you dinner, that would be considered whorish. Dating is sooooo confusing....

Dating isn't what's confusing. Women are confusing. They're willing to be bought, but instead of guys paying them $50, women expect men to buy food that costs $50. If women got smart and didn't worry about what people thought, they'd change the whole construct of dating, get rid of the meal, take the $50, and then save up for a pair of shoes.

 

[GURPS]

And yet if some guy just handed you the $50 instead of using it to buy you dinner, that would be considered whorish. Dating is sooooo confusing....

but then you could spend the $ 50 on new clubs and improve your swing

 

[Hank]

I blame college guys, expecting a date to 'put out' just because he bought her dinner ...

So, did you put out?

 

[kwillia]

I think the orignial idea of being treated to a meal and conversation was part of the the "courting" that went on between and man and a woman where the woman is dating in order to determine if a man is suitable for a long term relationship and will be a candidate for marriage and fathering children. The thought is that a guy is less likely to invest in such time and money if he is just after you for a one night stand as was stated quite profoundly by a highly regarded philosopher of the 70s... "If her daddy is rich take her out for a meal. If her daddy is poor do whatever you feel."

It makes sense to me that you are looking at things from the perspective of someone who is NOT looking for a provider/potential father to children that will be in it for the long hall.

 

[Toxick]

How did food and sex get intertwined, anyway?

Well you see, when a boy-caveman liked a girl-caveman he would fashion a bludgeoning or stabbing weapon out of a tree-branch which he would then use to kill a boar with.

He would then drag the animal to her cave where they would cook it.





While they were waiting for the meat to get done to perfection, they would rut like pigs.


And that is how sex and food became intertwined.

 

[migtig]

You are looking at it wrong. Dinner is an opportunity to get to know a guy, not only through conversation, but by how he treats the servers, what he orders, how he treats you, how annoyed he is by the crying baby, paying the check and more.

If you have a long date with a guy over dinner and you find yourself wanting to kiss him or more, it is because you've discovered you like the person that you have seen over the meal. You aren't wanting to because he paid for the meal. That's just part of a bigger picture.

That's a woman's POV.

Men probably have a different POV. "I bought dinner, looked at her boobs all night and she put out. So if I buy dinner chicks put out".

 

[GURPS]

If women got smart and didn't worry about what people thought, they'd change the whole construct of dating, get rid of the meal, take the $50, and then save up for a pair of shoes.

but that would be whoreish

 

[GURPS]

So, did you put out?

ask your sister

 

[Beta]

but that would be whoreish

Do I need to highlight the part where I said it's whoreish anyway, so they should all stop worrying about what people think so they can actually cash in?

ask your sister

she's a prude...for awhile anyway

 

[Misfit]

I think that the meal is a type of aphrodisiac. I mean it’s romantic, both standing in line, maybe deciding to share a #4, having her seductively carry the tray to the table by the ball crawl. Laughing flirtatiously as she picks a curly black hair out of the sammich. Drinking the cigarette butt tasting sweet tea from the same straw. Who wouldn’t expect too after that.

 

[GURPS]

Do I need to highlight the part where I said it's whoreish anyway, so they should all stop worrying about what people think so they can actually cash in?

 

[lucky_bee]

but that would be whoreish

That's called a smart woman. Shoes are expensive. Sex costs you more in the long run.

 

[slotpuppy]

I think that the meal is a type of aphrodisiac. I mean it’s romantic, both standing in line, maybe deciding to share a #4, having her seductively carry the tray to the table by the ball crawl. Laughing flirtatiously as she picks a curly black hair out of the sammich. Drinking the cigarette butt tasting sweet tea from the same straw. Who wouldn’t expect too after that.

You can buy me a meal anytime.