Two Mommy's --

[kris31280]

I do believe she was referring to Loving mother and loving father as a Functional traditional unit. Question for all of you single muthers out there that think the whole world is out to get you Just because you cannot have a functional family unit.Is a functional hetro family unit not a good thing for children?

A functional hetero traditional family is good for kids, but so is a functional homo non-traditional family. A non-traditional functioal hetero or homo single parent home is good for kids as well.

The issue is the functionality of the family, not the genders involved in the family.

 

[Merlin99]

Dude....that silly argument/comparison has been addressed in other posts.

It's about behavior not skin color.

Yes, the white mother's deviant behavior, faling in love with a black man. Be honest with yourself and admit it, you would still complain to this day if you wouldn't be publicly ostracized.

 

[Xaquin44]

Yes, the white mother's deviant behavior, faling in love with a black man. Be honest with yourself and admit it, you would still complain to this day if you wouldn't be publicly ostracized.

public shunning would have no effect on him.

He's just a closet case hehe

 

[Geek]

Yes, the white mother's deviant behavior, faling in love with a black man. Be honest with yourself and admit it, you would still complain to this day if you wouldn't be publicly ostracized.

good point

 

[SouthernMdRocks]

What would be better than that?

I thought the same thing..

 

[SouthernMdRocks]

I do believe she was referring to Loving mother and loving father as a Functional traditional unit. Question for all of you single muthers out there that think the whole world is out to get you Just because you cannot have a functional family unit.Is a functional hetro family unit not a good thing for children?

It's a wonderful situation and I grew up that way and wished the same for mine. But, we had a your's, mine and ours family. Love them all but to say it was the prime situation? it was a challenge to say the least. BTW, my oldest son, loved so much by me and my parents, father not around by his choice, maybe good maybe not.... My parents and I could not have loved and cherished him more but,,, something I think was missing as he grew up,,no matter what, they understand there was someone else who didn't care enough, AS much as we tried, it seemed to make a difference not having him care.

 

[foodcritic]

Still off

Yes, the white mother's deviant behavior, faling in love with a black man. Be honest with yourself and admit it, you would still complain to this day if you wouldn't be publicly ostracized.

I guess U just don't see the distinction between behavior and skin pigmentation. And NO I won't admit it because your...wrong.

Like I stated previously to a radical like yourself 8 mommies must be even better. I assume you would also advocate for Polygamy as well. The fact is, you can't logically draw the line anywhere.

 

[AndyMarquisLIVE]

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[Geek]

I guess U just don't see the distinction between behavior and skin pigmentation. And NO I won't admit it because your...wrong.

Like I stated previously to a radical like yourself 8 mommies must be even better. I assume you would also advocate for Polygamy as well. The fact is, you can't logically draw the line anywhere.

Are you a full grown adult

 

[redhotmomma]

So I pick my 3 year old daughter up from Daycare yesterday and on the way home, she says "So&So has 2 mommy's". She wasn't questioning it, she just made the comment.

I wasn't sure what to say to her. I found myself thinking too much into it. First thought was the parents were lesbians. So I told her, some kid's have 2 mommy's, some kids have 2 daddy's and other kids are like her and have a mommy and a daddy. Then I thought, well maybe the mother and father aren't together and the father is remarried and the child has a Mother and a Step-Mother. She's only three, so I didn't want to confuse her with all the possiblities and didn't say anything else about it.

She said something about it again last night. So I know she is "thinking" about it. But without knowing the child's situation, I wasn't sure how to explain it to her.

I am sitting here this morning thinking about it and the fact that when she first said it, I "assumed" the parents were lesbians. And my response was that there are some kids that have 2 mommy's and I was pretty much trying to make it sound like it was okay and that it didn't make So&So different. But my in-laws are "old schooled" and I could see if she had of made the comment to them. What would they have told her? I would hope they would be decent about it and not make it sound bad so that she would go to daycare thinking this little kid is different. But I'm not sure.

I honestly don't agree with the whole lesbian, gay thing, but I know it's a way of life and we see it more and more. I don't want her to think differently of kids because of it.

Let's say the parents were lesbians, I'm sure some of you have experienced this. What do you tell your child? Was it okay for me to say, some people have 2 mommy's, some people have 2 daddy's and some people have a mommy and a daddy? Or should I have said something else?

I am going through this with my son. My step brother is gay. My son just met them both.( They live across country) He has me while they were kissing. I told him because they love each other. Which can still confused a kid. I mean he kisses his Daddy good night. They also brought their dog which they call their Baby. So my son thinks they are talking about a real baby. He said their baby has 2 daddies. So when he gets older i will have to explain more. But that was enough for now...lol! I gave him a bag of chips and he moved on..lol! It is hard because they are so young and getting them to understand when most people don't. My husbands side of them are against it. I am not. I am all for it. I just hope they don't tell my son it' s a bad thing.