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Thats different. Two women is hot . Two men is far from hot and my wife will tell you she thinks the same.camily said:
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I NEVER said I thought it was hot. Also, remember that what you see in pics and porn is not the same as real life. In real life you usually see regular women or one more butch woman and a more feminine woman. Not the babes typically show. Not nearly as "hot" as the fantasy. Also, this movie goes way further than sex, as do all homosexual relationships. It's not like gay people lay around all day doing each other.DMJ said:
You sais "had" does that mean you are no longer their friend or you just don't hang with gays anymore?onebdzee said:Some of the best friends I've ever had were gay....they live just like every other dating/married couple....they still have the same issues....they are just the same sex
And might I add....from a women's point of view....they are the absolutely best date in the world!
That's because women are naturally affectionate, therefore it's not so bizarre that they would be affectionate toward each other. What are two guys gonna do - fart and pull the covers over each other's head?DMJ said:
Sorry to hear about your Friend
Hello Hey I meant no disrespect I was just responding to the verbage in your response. Please accept my appologies for any insensitivity but I had no way of knowing. I have a friend who is gay and he is aware that I am not in agreement with this life style or whatever you want to call it. But we get along very good . Just recently he moved also to N.J. WE will miss him . He has had many problems (physical) that have be as result of his way of life. He still feels he has no choice. His family rejected him and when he shared with his partner that he just was not comfortable any longer in this life, well the community he was surrounded by threw a big quilt trip on him and there where all types of threats. So I feel your pain but I have also seen some other shades of this life as well.onebdzee said:After a long battle with cancer, J passed away almost 5 years ago and D moved back to Florida...he still e-mails me daily and calls once a week....So, to answer your question....He is still my friend and because of geographics I don't "hang with" him anymore
camily
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He has no choice. This is why he continues to be gay. It is not his lifestyle. Do you consider being heterosexual a lifestyle? No, it's who you are. Do you choose to be straight? No. It's who you are. Why would someone choose to be ridiculed and to have their family reject them? They wouldn't. I don't understand why this is such a difficult concept for some people to grasp, plus, why the he!! does it matter to people anyway? I just don't get it. Live and let live.SRV said:Hello Hey I meant no disrespect I was just responding to the verbage in your response. Please accept my appologies for any insensitivity but I had no way of knowing. I have a friend who is gay and he is aware that I am not in agreement with this life style or whatever you want to call it. But we get along very good . Just recently he moved also to N.J. WE will miss him . He has had many problems (physical) that have be as result of his way of life. He still feels he has no choice. His family rejected him and when he shared with his partner that he just was not comfortable any longer in this life, well the community he was surrounded by threw a big quilt trip on him and there where all types of threats. So I feel your pain but I have also seen some other shades of this life as well.
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camily said:
The thought of a hairy a$$ disgusts me so much that I believe there cannot be a choice. Ladies, think of the ugliest, meanest, nastiest unwashed man you have ever met. That's what I see whenever I see a man. There is no way I could ever overcome that and "choose" to be gay.
Likewise, I don't believe a homosexual is choosing to be that way. You either are or you aren't.
I'm not a homophobe because there is no way I would ever bat for the other team. I have been hit on before, and it disgusted and offended me, but no differently than if I were hit on by a woman who disgusted me.
I suspect most homophobes are a little less secure in their sexuality.
It is a mishap in the brain wiring.