You hit the nail right on the head " Sexual FANTASIES and DREAMs. Not our real life. Thats what you do in a public forum for entertainment purposes only. Not spill you guts about your personel life. That is what good friends are for, or maybe in your case what might be better is a therapist.
I dont think things would have been so harsh for you, if you didnt continually bash just about every man who responded to something you didnt like. You are correct, we are adults, and adults joke, but you seemed to be offended by everything.