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ArkRescue

ArkRescue

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There seems to be a number of women around that just can't enough from 1 man? Or maybe she isn't getting WHAT SHE wants from him, and is continuing to interview for the job? :jerry:

Gilligan said:
Oh, they were all clean, folded and organized in neat stacks.:bigwhoop:

The 'why' was easy. She wanted to stop sneaking around behind my back to see her bf's and take it out in the open. Pretty old story, that one.

An experience like that could have left me bitter and cynical. :killingme
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Gilligan

Gilligan

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ArkRescue said:
There seems to be a number of women around that just can't enough from 1 man? Or maybe she isn't getting WHAT SHE wants from him, and is continuing to interview for the job? :
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That right there is the rhetorical question for the ages, yes?
 
mitzi

mitzi

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lnmarsh said:
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Im sorry but, while sober, you don’t call someone you love names even after they’ve cheated.

If after 25 years of marriage you find your spouse cheating and lying to you, total betrayal...TRUST ME.....you can call them every SOB, MF'r, and anything else that comes out.
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ArkRescue

ArkRescue

Adopt me please !
The perception of WHAT went wrong differs from couple to couple, and each side of the "couple" usually have a different view too. I don't think there is always a clear right/wrong as sometimes it works out for the best for both people (the break-up).

Maybe you'll meet someone better suited to you?

Gilligan said:
That right there is the rhetorical question for the ages, yes?
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Gilligan

Gilligan

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ArkRescue said:
The perception of WHAT went wrong differs from couple to couple, and each side of the "couple" usually have a different view too. I don't think there is always a clear right/wrong as sometimes it works out for the best for both people (the break-up).

Maybe you'll meet someone better suited to you?
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I agree completely..although I would not have agreed so readily back when it all came down and the facts crept out.

With the benefit now of hindsight and calmer waters..it's clear to me that it really was all for the best and a chance to start anew.
 
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mitzi said:
lnmarsh said:
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Im sorry but, while sober, you don’t call someone you love names even after they’ve cheated.

If after 25 years of marriage you find your spouse cheating and lying to you, total betrayal...TRUST ME.....you can call them every SOB, MF'r, and anything else that comes out.
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I agree. If someone disrespects their SO like that, they deserve every name they're called and a lot more. Sorry you went through that mitzi, that's just pure hell! Hubby better hope he's never stupid enough to stray because name calling would be the least of his worries. I have no doubt that I'd turn into a major biotch if he turned our world upside down like that. Better watch the shampoo, soap, toothpaste, etc, hunny! :killingme

To Mabus.....sorry that you were right in this case. And yes....she is a HO for cheating. If someone isn't happy in a relationship, break it off instead of banging someone else. Why is that so difficult for some to do? Hang in there, not everyone is trash like she is. :buddies:
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Mabus

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CalvertNewbie said:
mitzi said:
Hang in there, not everyone is trash like she is. :buddies:
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I understand this. Difficult as it is for the current situation. I know that not all women (or men) are dogs, liars, cheaters, whatever. And yes it's better to find out now rather than 5 years down the line. JC insists she's not a cheater...but then how would Yahoo boy know the things he did?

I think I treated her right, I think I did the things that it took to make the relationship work given the circumstances it was under. And I know damn well that if JC didn't appreciate the things I did, that XX would think the world if I did 1/10th of the things I did for JC.
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struggler44

struggler44

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Mabus said:
I understand this. Difficult as it is for the current situation. I know that not all women (or men) are dogs, liars, cheaters, whatever. And yes it's better to find out now rather than 5 years down the line. JC insists she's not a cheater...but then how would Yahoo boy know the things he did?

I think I treated her right, I think I did the things that it took to make the relationship work given the circumstances it was under. And I know damn well that if JC didn't appreciate the things I did, that XX would think the world if I did 1/10th of the things I did for JC.
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Dude, to just throw it out there; maybe your wand didn't have enough magic in it for her, it happens. React to what you feel. You already stated what you found and what you think is happening....WTF :shrug:
 
mitzi

mitzi

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CalvertNewbie said:
mitzi said:
I agree. If someone disrespects their SO like that, they deserve every name they're called and a lot more. Sorry you went through that mitzi, that's just pure hell! Hubby better hope he's never stupid enough to stray because name calling would be the least of his worries. I have no doubt that I'd turn into a major biotch if he turned our world upside down like that. Better watch the shampoo, soap, toothpaste, etc, hunny! :killingme

Oh believe me, it got much worse than raging name calling....lol. It got really, really ugly. Yea, it was pure hell but all behind me now.
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SoccerMom2

SoccerMom2

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ICit said:
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soccermom.... :popcorn: :killingme

JK.....

Mabus... I sure hope you have better luck in the future :yay:... sucks to have it happen to ya... I know all about it... just dont turn all bitter and jaded. :buddies:
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I hope hes talking about liz5778 because i love my DynCorp Man...lol!
 
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Mabus

Free Rent
ICit said:
:just dont turn all bitter and jaded. :buddies:
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Toughest part for anyone to deal with right after they got screwed out of something they believed was legitimate and real. But I think I'm dealing with it pretty well. I haven't thought about smearing her name around the county or torching her house, so I think I'm ok.

But I do hope she gets drunk, sleeps with JPC, and gets knocked up for him. Then that's 2 kids she won't be receiving child support for. :jerry:
 
TurboK9

TurboK9

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Mabus said:
Confirmed cheater via Yahoo IM this morning. She shouldn't have left it open. Now to figure a way to get her hopes up and ditch her
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Take her 'car shopping'. Let her pick one out, tell her you'll buy it next week, then ditch her ass. :yay:

Oh and be sure to take some time 'off' from womenzez. It helps. No rebounding!!! One night stands are OK though. :yay:
 
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