What do you want out of marriage?

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Shreddie

New Member
I'm wondering what you all expected when you got married, or are hoping to get out of it when you do.

I expected 1. to be able to talk to my spouse, 2. to have them talk to me, 3. to have them want to spend time with me, 4. to have them want to be married to me, and 5. to have sex.

Are any of those things unrealistic? Am I asking for too much? Should I settle for say 3 out of 5? Or would that be just that...settling. I'm curious to hear your thoughts.

Thanks!
 
nachomama

nachomama

All Up In Your Grill
Shreddie said:
I'm wondering what you all expected when you got married, or are hoping to get out of it when you do.

I expected 1. to be able to talk to my spouse, 2. to have them talk to me, 3. to have them want to spend time with me, 4. to have them want to be married to me, and 5. to have sex.

Are any of those things unrealistic? Am I asking for too much? Should I settle for say 3 out of 5? Or would that be just that...settling. I'm curious to hear your thoughts.

Thanks!
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I expected a lot out of marriage. I was happy to get out alive and with most of my sanity. :flowers:
 
migtig

migtig

aka Mrs. Giant
Shreddie said:
I'm wondering what you all expected when you got married, or are hoping to get out of it when you do.

I expected 1. to be able to talk to my spouse, 2. to have them talk to me, 3. to have them want to spend time with me, 4. to have them want to be married to me, and 5. to have sex.

Are any of those things unrealistic? Am I asking for too much? Should I settle for say 3 out of 5? Or would that be just that...settling. I'm curious to hear your thoughts.

Thanks!
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I'd be happy with #1, #3 and #5 :shrug:
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
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Dougstermd said:
you know what the one food that kills a womans sex drive is???



WEDDING CAKE
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Actually it's not the food that kills it - it's the guy going from attentive, sexy boyfriend to farting, burping, inconsiderate husband that does it.
 
Dougstermd

Dougstermd

ORGASM DONOR
vraiblonde said:
Actually it's not the food that kills it - it's the guy going from attentive, sexy boyfriend to farting, burping, inconsiderate husband that does it.
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I figure if you start out that way. they know what they are getting.
 
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Wenchy

Guest
vraiblonde said:
Actually it's not the food that kills it - it's the guy going from attentive, sexy boyfriend to farting, burping, inconsiderate husband that does it.
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This is why it's a good thing to do the burping and farting from the beginning. :yay: My men knew what they were getting.
 
Azzy

Azzy

New Member
Needless to say, I think marriage is overrated. I haven't gotten quite what I've expected but then again, he probably hasn't either. It would be much better to just shack up for the rest of our lives. It would be way cheaper of a breakup than a divorce. Anyway MP and I are running off together, as soon as we come up with the money :howdy: No, I'm not kidding.
 
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spoon

New Member
Shreddie said:
I'm wondering what you all expected when you got married, or are hoping to get out of it when you do.

I expected 1. to be able to talk to my spouse, 2. to have them talk to me, 3. to have them want to spend time with me, 4. to have them want to be married to me, and 5. to have sex.

Are any of those things unrealistic? Am I asking for too much? Should I settle for say 3 out of 5? Or would that be just that...settling. I'm curious to hear your thoughts.

Thanks!
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marriage can only be good if you both enjoy the same things....i only had 3 in the begining and with alot of work from both of us now i have all 5...im very lucky :roflmao: it will be 10 years...good luck
 
Nanny Pam

Nanny Pam

************
Shreddie said:
I'm wondering what you all expected when you got married, or are hoping to get out of it when you do.

I expected 1. to be able to talk to my spouse, 2. to have them talk to me, 3. to have them want to spend time with me, 4. to have them want to be married to me, and 5. to have sex.

Are any of those things unrealistic? Am I asking for too much? Should I settle for say 3 out of 5? Or would that be just that...settling. I'm curious to hear your thoughts.

Thanks!
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Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Livin' ain't easy, lovin's twice as tough
So come back, baby, when you grow up

You look real good like a woman now
Your mind hasn't gotten the message somehow
So if you can't take it 'n' the goin' gets rough
Come back, baby, when you grow up

I want you girl but your wide-eyed innocence
Has really messed up my mind, yeah-eah-eah
I'd rather you get your very first heartbreak
Somewhere else along the line

Come back when you grow up, girl
You're still livin' in a paper-doll world
Some day be a woman ready to love
Come back, baby, when you grow up

Come back when you grow up, girl
You've still got a lotta time left in the world
You'll some day be a woman ready to love
Come back, baby, when you grow up
 
Lugnut

Lugnut

I'm Rick James #####!
vraiblonde said:
Actually it's not the food that kills it - it's the guy going from attentive, sexy boyfriend to farting, burping, inconsiderate husband that does it.
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Careful, the bitter is showing! :lmao:
 
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