Pete said:See Tonio, MM is a prime example. You would be hard pressed to find another human who has had the effed up life he has. If I were him I would have jumped off a bridge a long time ago holding an anvil. Yet you rarely here him complain.
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j/k
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...Lemonade brotha!
Is there a way to take karma back?![]()
Christy said:I've not read a bit of this, but I just have to say, I'm far better than all (well the vast majority) of you thank you veydy much.
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Thumb wrestle for the title?Christy said:I beg to differ. I'm bionic now.![]()
I'm not asking for sympathy and I don't expect it. Part of is that I just need to vent about this stuff. In my mind, there's no question that I somehow brought the maltreatment on myself somehow. I just don't know what I did or what I didn't do to bring it on.Pete said:Because your weekly testimonies about your lifelong victimization at the hands of your cruel parents/ extended family/bullies in school/coworkers/ convenience store clerks/ people in traffic and people who thought you were gay now sounds Montell-esque and resembles fingernails on a blackboard and every post you make oozes for sympathy because you had a hard paper route as a kid?
Rent 20 John Wayne movies and watch them all twice. Then start acting like him.Tonio said:I'm not asking for sympathy and I don't expect it. Part of is that I just need to vent about this stuff. In my mind, there's no question that I somehow brought the maltreatment on myself somehow. I just don't know what I did or what I didn't do to bring it on.
I see it like this--if I'm trying to drive nails into wood and I keep bending the nails, obviously I'm doing something wrong. Either someone can show me what I'm doing wrong, or I can figure it out for myself. The problem is, when I'm interacting with people, I have no idea what they think about my behavior. Sometimes I get clues, but no definite answers as to how I can change my behavior. I don't want to end up like my father, who can't get a post-civil-service contractor job because of his reputation as rude and crass.
As for my family, I cut them off because I refused to let them be rude and insulting to my wife and kids any longer. I had confronted my family about it and they didn't stop, so I needed to take responsibility as a husband and father and say "enough".
Pete said:Rent 20 John Wayne movies and watch them all twice. Then start acting like him.![]()
Christy said:Liar liar, pants on fire.
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Well, I did see "The Searchers," so I learned that if you pursue Natalie Wood across the desert for years, you'll find her in full makeup.Pete said:Rent 20 John Wayne movies and watch them all twice. Then start acting like him.![]()
See what you get when you are the John Wayne type Natalie Wood in full makeup.Tonio said:Well, I did see "The Searchers," so I learned that if you pursue Natalie Wood across the desert for years, you'll find her in full makeup.![]()
KainMrs. Jones said:I have great big uh...hair!![]()
I don't get your poitn about wussiness. I went through a phase in junior high where I was throwing punches at anyone who even laughed at me.Pete said:See what you get when you are the John Wayne type Natalie Wood in full makeup.A wussy would get Roseanne Barr in spandex pants and a belly shirt.
Have you seen Anger Management?Tonio said:I don't get your poitn about wussiness. I went through a phase in junior high where I was throwing punches at anyone who even laughed at me.
Nickel said:I'm tall so does that mean my pedastal is higher?![]()