What would you do?

sockgirl77

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guess i was too vague in my details... he invited her to go and kept pestering her to go with him - up until the moment he started the bike. she couldnt take off of work for whatever reason -- i wouldve been all over that invite and tried to encourage her... no luck though. she rattle a million excuses to everyone why she couldnt go. i think it was more about trying to give him his guy time in her own weird way. he wanted her company - why she didnt just make it happen, no clue.

That paints a whole different picture. If he wanted her to go that badly then he probably wasn't down there on the prowl.
 

Pete

Repete
Well, if his phone typically doesn't go off at 2am, and all of a sudden it does, and she checked it, perhaps there was a reason AND THERE WAS!!! It's not her, it's him!! Again, let me reiterate, THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO REASON FOR HIM TO PASS HIS PHONE NUMBER TO A WOMAN WHEN HE IS IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP UNLESS THERE ARE OTHER ISSUES GOING ON!!!

NOT ALL MEN LIE... YEAH RIGHT!!! :killingme THEY ALL JUST DON'T TELL THE TRUTH!! :killingme

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Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
guess i was too vague in my details... he invited her to go and kept pestering her to go with him - up until the moment he started the bike. she couldnt take off of work for whatever reason -- i wouldve been all over that invite and tried to encourage her... no luck though. she rattle a million excuses to everyone why she couldnt go. i think it was more about trying to give him his guy time in her own weird way. he wanted her company - why she didnt just make it happen, no clue.

Well, that part of it is irrelevant. She couldn't go and thats it. Some people can't just take off and go to bike week at the drop of a hat. The point is...if this is a "COMMITTED" relationship, she trusted him to hang w/guys and have a good time. If he passed out his number to some FEMALE, then who's fault is that? It's not hers, it's his. She trusted him!! DON'T BLAME HER.
 

sockgirl77

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Well, that part of it is irrelevant. She couldn't go and thats it. Some people can't just take off and go to bike week at the drop of a hat. The point is...if this is a "COMMITTED" relationship, she trusted him to hang w/guys and have a good time. If he passed out his number to some FEMALE, then who's fault is that? It's not hers, it's his. She trusted him!! DON'T BLAME HER.

YO Dumbass...she said that he had been asking her to go for awhile. Now, I come across as a bitter biatch towards men on a daily basis, but you're putting me to shame.
 

lovinmaryland

Well-Known Member
Well, if his phone typically doesn't go off at 2am, and all of a sudden it does, and she checked it, perhaps there was a reason AND THERE WAS!!! It's not her, it's him!! Again, let me reiterate, THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO REASON FOR HIM TO PASS HIS PHONE NUMBER TO A WOMAN WHEN HE IS IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP UNLESS THERE ARE OTHER ISSUES GOING ON!!!

NOT ALL MEN LIE... YEAH RIGHT!!! :killingme THEY ALL JUST DON'T TELL THE TRUTH!! :killingme

So what if you are in a committed relationship w/ someone you cant have platonic friends :confused:

Would you check your mans cell or would you hand it to him to check? Unless I was given permission I wouldnt check it :shrug:
 

Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
What a sad lonely life you must lead.

Actually, no, because this just reminds me of the crap I don't miss in a relationship!! My life is uncomplicated. I don't have these problems anymore. I don't have to worry about a boyfriend cheating on me or lying to me or telling me some load of crap only to find him with whomever later down the road. After so long, I just got tired of it.
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
Actually, no, because this just reminds me of the crap I don't miss in a relationship!! My life is uncomplicated. I don't have these problems anymore. I don't have to worry about a boyfriend cheating on me or lying to me or telling me some load of crap only to find him with whomever later down the road. After so long, I just got tired of it.

Perhaps you should register for How To Satisfy Your Man 101. :yay:
 

Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
So what if you are in a committed relationship w/ someone you cant have platonic friends :confused:

Would you check your mans cell or would you hand it to him to check? Unless I was given permission I wouldnt check it :shrug:

When I was younger, I had "platonic" friends of the opposite sex. As I have grown older, unless a boyfriend and I share the same friends, I think I would probably have to respect him to "throw away the little black book" and totally commit to him in order to see where the relationship is really gonna go. I would hope he would do the same.

The phone, I don't know. I think I would hand him the phone for him to check it but if it were to continue frequently, I would check it myself.
 
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Let the record reflect that this tread has absolutely nothing to do with me :angel:
 

MMDad

Lem Putt
Actually, no, because this just reminds me of the crap I don't miss in a relationship!! My life is uncomplicated. I don't have these problems anymore. I don't have to worry about a boyfriend cheating on me or lying to me or telling me some load of crap only to find him with whomever later down the road. After so long, I just got tired of it.
It's easier to blame all men than to admit your own part in the relationship, isn't it?
 

sockgirl77

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When I was younger, I had "platonic" friends of the opposite sex. As I have grown older, unless a boyfriend and I share the same friends, I think I would probably have to respect him to "throw away the little black book" and totally commit to him in order to see where the relationship is really gonna go. I would hope he would do the same.

The phone, I don't know. I think I would hand him the phone for him to check it but if it were to continue frequently, I would check it myself.

So, you'd give up your friends for a man? Black book? We're talking platonic here, not sexual.

I shoot pool for fun. I will always have a cell phone full of guys' numbers that I like to shoot with. If I hook up with someone and he has issues with me keeping the numbers, he can kiss my ass good bye. I'd rather have male friends than girl friends. I have more in common with men. I love sports and love to shoot pool. I'm not girly so I tend not to hang out with alot of women.
 
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I'm not concerned about that. I don't have a problem in that area. If that is what the entire relationship is based on, then he's worth my time anyway.

I think you intended on sneakin a "not" in there somewhere
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
I'm not concerned about that. I don't have a problem in that area. If that is what the entire relationship is based on, then he's worth my time anyway.

If you were keeping them satisfied they wouldn't be cheating. You said that you had multiple men cheat on you. I'm just saying...
 

lovinmaryland

Well-Known Member
When I was younger, I had "platonic" friends of the opposite sex. As I have grown older, unless a boyfriend and I share the same friends, I think I would probably have to respect him to "throw away the little black book" and totally commit to him in order to see where the relationship is really gonna go. I would hope he would do the same.

I dont keep platonic friends in a "little black book" :shrug: If a man I was dating had a problem w/ the fact that I have male friends who I hang out w/ talk w/ go out to dinner w/ (as friends) well then we wouldnt be in a relationship very long.

If you were keeping them satisfied they wouldn't be cheating. You said that you had multiple men cheat on you. I'm just saying...

DAMN...OUCH!!!
 
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