For some it works quite well,
And most think that, when they get married.
What a crock that is sometimes.. Hey,I'll just stay in this dysfunctional relationship because that's the way it's meant to be, or even better, Let's just stay in this dysfunctional relationship because of the kids.
It's better to come from or leave a dysfunctional relationship than it is to stay in one.
But it's all good until..... Half of that couple wants a divorce..
It just shows you have made bad life choices. You were never married just shacked up and had kids. I feel sorry for the kids.
It's not boring unless you like to #### around and splitting up half of what you have. Ive been married for 40 years...never boring or dull, challenging at times. Divorce means you really have nothing financially or emotionally, especially more than once.
I can understand once but after that your right to marriage should be revoked
I had a friend who wanted me to be best man at his fourth wedding. Turned him down. I said if he really loved her, the last thing he should do is marry her. He got pissed and eventually the engagement broke up when she caught him cheating during the engagement
Just shacked up and had kids you say,, That's a tall pillar your standing on....
I'm guessing you missed that word " Sometimes "
And I only have one child, I was 42 when he was born. At that time about 15 years into my second marriage.. yep we were just shacking up....
I'll say it again , when half of the relationship wants a divorce, there's not a ####ing thing the other half of that relationship can do about it.You can talk, cry, beg, plead , try to deal, ..And if the other half doesn't want to stay married , you will just get a court date in the mail......