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Originally posted by vraiblonde
Nick, do you mean to tell me that in all of NYC, there isn't a single woman who isn't a greedy social climber?
I have a friend that swears there are no decent women in Southern Maryland. My suspicion with him, like you, is that you're using that as an excuse to not date. Fear of rejection? Laziness? Who knows? But I do know that plenty of poor guys, ugly guys and boring guys have a woman on their arm. So your complaints don't hold water.
And I'll tell you something else about the friend I mentioned above: He's the type that, no matter what kind of deal he gets, obsesses that he could have done better. For example, he just bought a new big screen TV. Prior to purchase, he compared a zillion different TVs at a zillion different stores. Compared a zillion different incentives - free delivery and set up, $200 rebate, free service contracts, etc, etc. Finally, after a year of this silliness, he bought a TV. But he's STILL obsessing and comparing, getting all worked up if he sees a better deal - "DAMN IT! I could have gotten free delivery AND a free service contract! "
Guys who complain about how "there are no good women" are like this. They can't commit because they're afraid the minute they do, something better will come along. So they wait and wait, price shop and compare, reject great deals - then finally die alone and unloved.
Something to think about.
Originally posted by IM4Change
He will have his cat.
And all I have are 2 stupid dogs.Originally posted by Katie
Chopper the Wonder Cat!!!
Originally posted by Pete
That I will, he is trustworthy, loyal and he licks my feet.
Originally posted by mainman
I don't think you have any effing idea what you want...
Originally posted by Vince
And all I have are 2 stupid dogs.
Originally posted by Katie
Let me just pipe in here something. There are a lot of women on this board who work 12 or 16 hours a day also. Before I met my hubby, men would find out that I was a programmer and automatically assumed I was rolling in dough. Yes I make a good salary but with that salary comes the long hours, and travel.
Then they would whine when I have to go out to California, or whereever I would need to go for a week, and then call me every freaking night whining about how mean I was for going on travel and that i need to quit my job and find one that keeps me at home.
So...BITE ME
Originally posted by vraiblonde
Nick, do you mean to tell me that in all of NYC, there isn't a single woman who isn't a greedy social climber?
I have a friend that swears there are no decent women in Southern Maryland. My suspicion with him, like you, is that you're using that as an excuse to not date. Fear of rejection? Laziness? Who knows? But I do know that plenty of poor guys, ugly guys and boring guys have a woman on their arm. So your complaints don't hold water.
And I'll tell you something else about the friend I mentioned above: He's the type that, no matter what kind of deal he gets, obsesses that he could have done better. For example, he just bought a new big screen TV. Prior to purchase, he compared a zillion different TVs at a zillion different stores. Compared a zillion different incentives - free delivery and set up, $200 rebate, free service contracts, etc, etc. Finally, after a year of this silliness, he bought a TV. But he's STILL obsessing and comparing, getting all worked up if he sees a better deal - "DAMN IT! I could have gotten free delivery AND a free service contract! "
Guys who complain about how "there are no good women" are like this. They can't commit because they're afraid the minute they do, something better will come along. So they wait and wait, price shop and compare, reject great deals - then finally die alone and unloved.
Something to think about.
Originally posted by migtig
Maybe you ought to take your self to a NYC forum instead, because so far none of the SoMD forum members have agreed with your outlook. Wouldn't you feel much better having somebody agree with you since you say ALL the women up there are like that? Or are you afraid they will say the same darn thing we are?
You have issues. You need to move past them or you will never have a healthy relationship with a woman. No matter where you live nor how much money you make.
Originally posted by mAlice
Migtig makes a good point. Why are you on a Southern Maryland forum? Why aren't you discussing this on a NJ or NY forum?
Originally posted by nickt1862
First - I don't know of similar forums up here.
Second - I might be relocating within a year to Maryland.
Third - Who knows
Originally posted by mAlice
How did you stumble across this forum?
Where do you plan to relocate to in Maryland?
Originally posted by migtig
No, you are doing that all by yourself.
if you say so
From what you say and how you say it, I don't think I would want to meet you, and I doubt my opinion would change.
whatever rocks your boat
Actually, the majority of men I meet and know are honest and direct. Otherwise I personally, would not choose to associate with them. And since I am blunt and honest, I expect the people around me (both male and female) to be the same.
that's cool
the only question would be are those people not your type (other than they being honest and direct) that you wouldn't want to associate with them?
Me neither.
Originally posted by migtig
That's Northern Maryland, not Southern. You still have the wrong board. :shrug:
http://forums.wirednewyork.com/Originally posted by nickt1862
First - I don't know of similar forums up here.
Originally posted by Sharon
http://forums.wirednewyork.com/
http://www.nybass.com/forums/index.php
http://www.skyscrapercity.com/forumdisplay.php?s=&forumid=105
http://www.nytimes.com/pages/readersopinions/index.html
http://forums.newyork.craigslist.org/?i=
http://www.syracuse.com/forums/
http://www.clubzone.com/idealbb/