Why is it....

[CRoyal]

Karma G:

catch being.. I have high expecations..

 

[Lugnut]

Karma G:

catch being.. I have high expecations..

Sorry couldn't resist!

 

[CRoyal]

Sorry couldn't resist!

bwahaha..
Catch being, I can't spell....

 

[sockgirl77]

Well as you probably already know I am kicking myself in the butt for not having that "plan B" ............I guess I should keep holding on until I get my sh!t straight. The story of my life!!! haha

Is the "plan B" referring to having a man to run to? Why not just be a single mom and take care of your child? Be independent. Trust me, you'll feel loads better about yourself.

 

[C-Murda]

Well as you probably already know I am kicking myself in the butt for not having that "plan B" ............I guess I should keep holding on until I get my sh!t straight. The story of my life!!! haha

You know I'm here for you http://forums.somd.com/members/plan-b.html

 

[aps45819]

Every girl wants that fairy tale relationship, where the guy just picks her up off her foot and she never worries about anything again.....

:fixed:

 

[onebdzee]

Every girl wants that fairy tale relationship, where the guy just picks her up off her feet and she never worries about anything again.

Every girl might want that....but, most woman don't.

 

[SouthernMdRocks]

when I tell a guy that I'm a single mom, they disappear off the face of the earth?

That's a good thing!!! It weeds them out fast...

 

[tommyjones]

when I tell a guy that I'm a single mom, they disappear off the face of the earth?

Because guys hear
'I want you to meet my mistake, robbie, he is living and breathing proof that i banged some random guy (whose unit is bigger than yous) and i garuntee that you will be in for more headaches with this kid then you can imagine. Not to mention he will always hate you."

 

[missperky]

It's baggage and depends on the age group.. Younger men tend to aim for women who don't have kids.. for a relationship at least.

Older men who maybe have kids of their own, gone through a divorce, etc will be less likely to run off..

 

[aps45819]

Not to mention he will always hate you."

At least you know where your stand with you own kids, one minute you're a god and they love you, the next you're idiot and they hate you.

 

[yankee44]

Yeah I mean, thank God for my parents really. Thats 99.9% of the reason why I moved back to Va Beach. They have always taken care of me, and now their grandchild. I am going to try and do the right thing, although it might be hard its worth doing for my daughter.

Sounds like it is time to grow up and take care of yourself and child instead of trying to find someonelse to do it for you

 

[SouthernMdRocks]

Because guys hear
'I want you to meet my mistake, robbie, he is living and breathing proof that i banged some random guy (whose unit is bigger than yous) and i garuntee that you will be in for more headaches with this kid then you can imagine. Not to mention he will always hate you."

Hmmm, that's a narrow-minded take on it!!

 

[nitwhit3286]

Is the "plan B" referring to having a man to run to? Why not just be a single mom and take care of your child? Be independent. Trust me, you'll feel loads better about yourself.

thats what I meant when I said plan B.....a college education, money saved up.....thats what I meant in reference to plan B

 

[sockgirl77]

thats what I meant when I said plan B.....a college education, money saved up.....thats what I meant in reference to plan B

Nitty darling, do like the rest of us do. Leave the one you are unhappy with. Get a job. Get on your own feet. Raise your child. You only have one child. It is possible to ge a college education. Hell, as a single mom you can get grants to help you pay for it. And not meaning this to be shiatty but I am sure that your daddy will help you pay for school.

 

[nitwhit3286]

Nitty darling, do like the rest of us do. Leave the one you are unhappy with. Get a job. Get on your own feet. Raise your child. You only have one child. It is possible to ge a college education. Hell, as a single mom you can get grants to help you pay for it. And not meaning this to be shiatty but I am sure that your daddy will help you pay for school.

all of what you say it true....god knows I don't have motivation like I used to....I need a big ole kick in the butt!

 

[sockgirl77]

all of what you say it true....god knows I don't have motivation like I used to....I need a big ole dick in the butt!

 

[fedex]

all of what you say it true....god knows I don't have motivation like I used to....I need a big ole dick in the butt!

fixed

 

[LordStanley]

fixed

she already had that.... Its called the 15" meat hammer

 

[SouthernMdRocks]

Nitty darling, do like the rest of us do. Leave the one you are unhappy with. Get a job. Get on your own feet. Raise your child. You only have one child. It is possible to ge a college education. Hell, as a single mom you can get grants to help you pay for it. And not meaning this to be shiatty but I am sure that your daddy will help you pay for school.

That's the way to do it. There are several grants out there to help single parents out.