SamSpade
Well-Known Member
This sort of thing happened to me a few times.
First time, I was depressed for a few days. Hadn't seen her in eight months, someone let me know she was getting married that day. I got over it after that; years later, it was clearly the right move.
Second time, I was kind of pissed, because she didn't really fall for the guy after me; it was before. She got with me because he wasn't interested, and she left when he showed interest. When she wanted to be "friends" after they got married, I was polite but had nothing to do with her.
The last time - it just kind of annoyed me. I had gotten over her a year before, but part of me wanted to punch them both in the nose.
I guess no matter what my other feelings might have been at the time, I still felt that it was much better they marry someone ELSE rather than for me to be married to them.
First time, I was depressed for a few days. Hadn't seen her in eight months, someone let me know she was getting married that day. I got over it after that; years later, it was clearly the right move.
Second time, I was kind of pissed, because she didn't really fall for the guy after me; it was before. She got with me because he wasn't interested, and she left when he showed interest. When she wanted to be "friends" after they got married, I was polite but had nothing to do with her.
The last time - it just kind of annoyed me. I had gotten over her a year before, but part of me wanted to punch them both in the nose.
I guess no matter what my other feelings might have been at the time, I still felt that it was much better they marry someone ELSE rather than for me to be married to them.
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