If I may ...
Then how do you explain the fact that the vast majority of us don't fail?
Because many have, and do, follow proper ethnics and morals and do work hard. You, and others, do not take on unnecessary debt, buy unnecessary things. You, we, many, were raised by those that experienced the Great Depression, or were raised by parents who were raised by parents from the Great Depression passing on wise council. You and others were told to live within your means. Vanity, (keeping up with the Jones'), is easily fulfilled in a fiat debt based money system. The current system is designed, along with Madison Avenue advertising corporations, to lull people into buying things they don't need. Now we also have "influencers" making people 'want'. Corporations have risen to control nearly everything and answer only to Wall Street and their shareholders; Profits flow to them instead of employees.
This is not to say others failed because they lacked proper ethnics, morals and didn't work hard. But many business sectors, even individual businesses, (suddenly their bank line of credit is closed, or their loans recalled, or loan application suddenly declined, stocks sold short to destroy, etc.), are targeted to be either winners to losers, or losers to winners, by the power brokers in the financial sector. They pick who wins and loses so they can profit from both sides of the equation. The people working for those business lose as well, many having to start all over by competing with others in whatever sector they work in, often times against a younger and cheaper workforce. Tie into this the ever increasing costs of doing business, cost of goods sold, taxes, regulatory burdens, etc., and labor being the largest line item in most business budgets ... you can see why many people fail through no fault of their own. They trusted, or simply on blind faith, their employer would always be there, their job safe as long as they performed equal to, or above, the standards set. And many employers would still be there if not for outside forces beyond their control. So now that unemployed person, looking for comparable work, can't pay their mortgage, or rent, after a couple months, savings running out, and the financial downward spiral begins.
Unincorporated, non-stock traded businesses, (think small businesses and mom and pops), have an even harder time of things and are much more sensitive to market forces, inflation, supply disruptions, and many other things beyond their control. Here, often the first thing to go is an employee. Even after accounting that the owner has already been sacrificing their own pay before letting someone go.
But even, as you might agree, those of us that have not failed, find it harder, and is getting harder, to maintain the level we have. This is a simplistic view I'm relaying. There are far more machinations that contribute overall to the dysfunction that is our economy. However, you being self-employed, as others here are as well, began to feel, have felt, or always felt, something was askew, (you just couldn't quite put your finger on it), after you started your business and operated it for a while. Instinctively, as an unconscious act of self preservation, you did not take on questionable or unnecessary risks. You questioned, every-thing. You were always looking for ways to reduce costs. You operated in such as way as to limit yourself to unforeseen problems, and survive, by not spending on unnecessary or frivolous things. You, made sacrifices. You saved as much as you could. (Of course we do treat ourselves to things from time to time, rewarding ourselves, enjoying the fruits of our labor, this is not to what I refer).
Anyway, in a nut shell, that's why many don't fail, in addition to just being plain lucky, or, taking advantage of the "system" by understanding its mechanisms. But that's also not to say that many are not deep in debt to maintain themselves, there are many. They haven't failed, but have set themselves up for future failure. What you seeing also are illusions of non-failure. Ever heard the term, "house poor"? Now add car poor, and all other of life's accoutrements on credit, poor. These people do not have much money left at the end of the month, they are "living the life", but you will never know they are really, poor, until you see them fail.
In a true stable monetary system, money earned retains its purchasing power; It is your store of labor for a given day, your property. If bacon is selling for $0.13lb today, then when you retire after working for 50 years with your life savings, being frugal during your productive years, with everything being relative, (population growth, farm growth, same consumption trends, etc), 50 years later that bacon should still be, more or less, selling for $0.13lb.
Long-Term effects of monetary expansion on US Median House Prices after Nixon detached, severed, the dollar from gold. (End of the Bretton Woods agreement and the beginning of the Petrodollar).
1971: $ 25,200 (50 years ago.)
1981: $ 68,900 (40 years ago.) 2.7x increase from 1971.
1991: $120,000 (30 years ago.) 1.7x increase from 1981.
2001: $175,200 (20 years ago.) 1.5x increase from 1991.
2011: $227,200 (10 years ago.) 1.3x increase from 2001.
2021: $360,000 (today) 1.6x increase from 2011.
Data from Census.gov New Residential Sales report.
Overall: The Dollar has lost 92% of its purchasing power vs. Median House. (Size and quality of house may not be the same but still a useful comparison.) Yet another data point for the “Slow-Motion Hyperinflation” (perpetual devaluation) caused by the Fed translating “stable prices” into “steady inflation”.
Found this ... not sure of its authenticity, but it explains a lot of what is happening.
Edward Mandell House had this to say in a private meeting with Woodrow Wilson (President) [1913-1921] - This is from the minutes of a meeting in the white house that included President Woodrow Wilson and his top adviser Colonel Edward Mandell House, before the Federal Reserve Act or the 16th Amendment (the income tax amendment) were passed and ratified.
“[Very] soon, every American will be required to register their biological property in a National system designed to keep track of the people and that will operate under the ancient system of pledging. By such methodology, we can compel people to submit to our agenda, which will affect our security as a charge-back for our fiat paper currency. Every American will be forced to register or suffer not being able to work and earn a living. They will be our chattel, and we will hold the security interest over them forever, by operation of the law merchant under the scheme of secured transactions. Americans, by unknowingly or unwittingly delivering the bills of lading to us will be rendered bankrupt and insolvent, forever to remain economic slaves through taxation, secured by their pledges. They will be stripped of their rights and given a commercial value designed to make us a profit and they will be non the wiser, for not one man in a million could ever figure our plans and, if by accident one or two would figure it out, we have in our arsenal plausible deniability. After all, this is the only logical way to fund government, by floating liens and debt to the registrants in the form of benefits and privileges. This will inevitably reap to us huge profits beyond our wildest expectations and leave every American a contributor or to this fraud which we will call “Social Insurance.” Without realizing it, every American will insure us for any loss we may incur and in this manner; every American will unknowingly be our servant, however begrudgingly. The people will become helpless and without any hope for their redemption and, we will employ the high office of the President of our dummy corporation to foment this plot against America.”
Whew. I do believe this is my longest post thus far. Hope I didn't bore you.