1. You insist on being staunchly independent.
No one can argue with the advantages of self-sufficiency. However, some women wear that independence as a badge of honor. Maybe your self-sufficiency was hard won and came at a big price, so you tout that boldly.The trouble is, men find the staunchly independent woman unattractive.
This might surprise you, but men actually want to feel needed. Good men want to help you fix things, open jars, or build stuff. So, when you brag about how you can do everything yourself, he feels unneeded.
What are you supposed to do?
Don’t brag about your independence before the first date. Keep that amazing accomplishment under wraps initially, and let him see your softer side first. He’ll recognize your independence, but you don’t need to rub it in his face.
2. You are all business all the time.
3. You are too much soccer Mom, not enough woman.
4. You put out too much negativity and spend too much time complaining.
5. You get too wrapped up in sharing love war stories.
ed up slutty barmaid like its like, bad or something......
