"5 Reasons Why Marriage Doesn't Work Anymore"

Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
lucky_bee said:
38...I was 26 then? That was pushing it. :lol:
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At 26, yeah, I'd agree. Once you get into YOUR 30's, a 12 year spread isn't such a big deal. Back then, at 26, I'm sure he was exciting and worldy to you. Now, in your 30's, you can see how little he really knew. Plus, you're still strong enough to push my wheelchair, help me off and on the bike, get my teeth...
 
Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
JeJeTe said:
I was 27-28 and dating a 44 year old. Needless to say it didnt' work out.
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What does that mean? No fun? Bad experience? Was the goal marriage? Were you gad you did it? :popcorn:

I think I could date a 60 year old which would be 9 years older me. Somewhere in there is a balance of age gap but that's gotta be a very case by case thing.
 
JeJeTe

JeJeTe

Happiness
Larry Gude said:
What does that mean? No fun? Bad experience? Was the goal marriage? Were you gad you did it? :popcorn:

I think I could date a 60 year old which would be 9 years older me. Somewhere in there is a balance of age gap but that's gotta be a very case by case thing.
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I think we had different goals. I'm glad I did it because I learned a lot of things and I think he pushed me out of my comfort zone a bit. I'm sorry I spent so much time thinking he'd come around to my way of thinking.
 
lucky_bee

lucky_bee

RBF expert
Larry Gude said:
At 26, yeah, I'd agree. Once you get into YOUR 30's, a 12 year spread isn't such a big deal. Back then, at 26, I'm sure he was exciting and worldy to you. Now, in your 30's, you can see how little he really knew. Plus, you're still strong enough to push my wheelchair, help me off and on the bike, get my teeth...
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I could see how it'd come across like that but age only came into play when we argued about Top Gun or music. I think we worked, until we didn't, becauseee I kept him in his place. He was exciting, but the trick is to never let them know that! And god help me, if I ever fall for a man bc he's "worldly", LibertyTyranny I give you permission to smack me in the head with a globe :killingme
 
Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
lucky_bee said:
I could see how it'd come across like that but age only came into play when we argued about Top Gun or music. I think we worked, until we didn't, becauseee I kept him in his place. He was exciting, but the trick is to never let them know that! And god help me, if I ever fall for a man bc he's "worldly", LibertyTyranny I give you permission to smack me in the head with a globe :killingme
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'Worldly' can mean a lot of things. Some people are 'worldly', been there, seen that, done that, and really don't seem like they got much out of it. Some folks have hardly been anywhere or done much of anything and yet are pretty wise and thoughtful in ways one might ascribe to being 'worldly'. I shouldn't have used 'worldly' in reference to a pilot. Pilots live inside their own little world. :evil:
 
Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
lucky_bee said:
I could see how it'd come across like that but age only came into play when we argued about Top Gun or music. I think we worked, until we didn't, becauseee I kept him in his place. He was exciting, but the trick is to never let them know that! And god help me, if I ever fall for a man bc he's "worldly", LibertyTyranny I give you permission to smack me in the head with a globe :killingme
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So, what was 'his' place? What does that mean? :popcorn:
 
lucky_bee

lucky_bee

RBF expert
Larry Gude said:
So, what was 'his' place? What does that mean? :popcorn:
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:whip:




:lol: the last thing I wanted was for him to get a big head thinking he was a big shot bc he bagged someone 12 years his junior. He wasn't really that type but I think, like most guys, secretly love it when you're mean to them :evil: keeps them on their toes.
 
JeJeTe

JeJeTe

Happiness
Beta said:
If Top Gun came out in 86 and you're older than 26, I think you must have been thought of when it came out. :coffee:


Yes! You love dem county boys. :lol:
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It didn't work with the non county person. Just proves my point. :lol: Currently working very well a county boy now.
 
Larry Gude

Larry Gude

Strung Out
lucky_bee said:
:whip:
:lol: the last thing I wanted was for him to get a big head thinking he was a big shot bc he bagged someone 12 years his junior. He wasn't really that type but I think, like most guys, secretly love it when you're mean to them :evil: keeps them on their toes.
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Not me. I like being teased, smart ass-ness, playfulness. I don't like mean. I don't like NOT knowing what you like about me or don't. I can handle disagreement just fine. I don't do well with not understanding or not knowing.
 
MMDad

MMDad

Lem Putt
Larry Gude said:
Not me. I like being teased, smart ass-ness, playfulness. I don't like mean. I don't like NOT knowing what you like about me or don't. I can handle disagreement just fine. I don't do well with not understanding or not knowing.
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Damn Larry. You're getting to be worse than Lance sniffing up all these young women. Skip the Viagra for a day.
 
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