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TurboK9

TurboK9

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SoMDGirl42 said:
I understand what you're saying, and as a mom I'd have a hard time too, but you will have the people saying what about the father, he goes for 4 days without seeing his baby. Let's face facts, there is no right answer.
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And I'd be the first one, haha! Seriously though... If the father didn't want visitation w/ the baby we'd all be hearing about what a neglectful dirtbag he is. My perspective on this one is that it sounds like (SOUNDS like) dad will never be able to win no matter what he does.

I have two kids, and thankfully I'm still w/ their mom... but I know a few guys who went through bad breakups and now pay the price in the form of missing their kids... They can't win for losin'. Damned if they do, and damned if they do, and damned if they do. Doesn't matter what they do, they are blocked and badmouthed at every step. Doesn't matter whether they are stand-up dads or not. I hope that isn't going to be the case here... That WOULD be damaging to the child.

Fact is the baby will do fine w/ dad, nursing or not, for three day stretches, as long as dad knows what he's doing. Allow him to be a daddy and maybe, just maybe, grandbaby will have a daddy instead of just a father.
 
pixiegirl

pixiegirl

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cattitude said:
:confused: She has kids..she didn't birth 'em but she's raising 'em.
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I have step kids myself. Its not the same as being the person that is solely responsible for choices concerning their schooling.
Cowgirl said:
It's ok, she's just ASSuming stuff. :roflmao:
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Can I offer you a nice tall glass of shut the hell up until the time that you can make some sense. By your logic, two wrongs make a right. Since I was biatchy yesterday it's ok if someone else is being biatchy today. :lmao:

You posted "UFB" in the pre-k thread yesterday. Did I come back and assume you were the product of a low income family? Nope, took as you had a distaste for what I said and didn't give it a second thought. Today this lady said some rude crap, I called her a douchebag and she went on to presume that I did so because I had a kid outside of a relationship. That presumption was inaccurate. Then here you come running in with your supergirl cape on to tell me it's ok if they said something rude because I did so myself yesterday.

Your flavor of judgemental biatch doesn't taste any better than mine, just different. :yay:
 
medicated

medicated

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It's just a bad situation all around, 2 people who were irresponsible with birth control, and now the grand parents on both sides are having to pick up the pieces. I'm just looking out for my own child( even though she is 21), and for grand-son.
 
Cowgirl

Cowgirl

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pixiegirl said:
I have step kids myself. Its not the same as being the person that is solely responsible for choices concerning their schooling.
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Our families are not at all the same,thanks for trying to compare. :roflmao:

Can I offer you a nice tall glass of shut the hell up until the time that you can make some sense. By your logic, two wrongs make a right. Since I was biatchy yesterday it's ok if someone else is being biatchy today. :lmao:
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I never said two wrongs make a right, I was simply pointing out the fact that you were being a hypocrite. :yay:

You posted "UFB" in the pre-k thread yesterday. Did I come back and assume you were the product of a low income family? Nope, took as you had a distaste for what I said and didn't give it a second thought. Today this lady said some rude crap, I called her a douchebag and she went on to presume that I did so because I had a kid outside of a relationship. That presumption was inaccurate. Then here you come running in with your supergirl cape on to tell me it's ok if they said something rude because I did so myself yesterday.
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I posted that because some of the posts in that thread were UFB. BTW, I'm not the product of a low income family.

Your flavor of judgemental biatch doesn't taste any better than mine, just different. :yay:
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You can judge all you want, but it sure is funny to see someone do the same thing to you and watch you get all bent over it. :killingme
 
pixiegirl

pixiegirl

Cleopatra Jones
Cowgirl said:
Our families are not at all the same,thanks for trying to compare. :roflmao:



I never said two wrongs make a right, I was simply pointing out the fact that you were being a hypocrite. :yay:



I posted that because some of the posts in that thread were UFB. BTW, I'm not the product of a low income family.



You can judge all you want, but it sure is funny to see someone do the same thing to you and watch you get all bent over it. :killingme
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You're right our families are not the same. Thus you judging my opinion of not wanting to put my kids into a need-based pre-k program doesn't mean squat to me.

I wasn't being a hypocrite at all. I leave that up to you. I don't get all bent and presumptuous when someone doesn't like something I say. THUS me NOT assuming you came from a low income family when you didn't like my opinion. I also wasn't judging the moral value or lack there of yesterday, only parenting styles.

If you think I'm a hypocrite or a biatch by all means put me on ignore. Don't mistake yourself for one second by thinking that you chastising me and telling me I'm a biatch is going to make me have some huge epiphany and change my biatchy mouthy ways because I assure you it ain't gonna happen. :yay: :killingme
 
PrchJrkr

PrchJrkr

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pixiegirl said:
Don't mistake yourself for one second by thinking that you chastising me and telling me I'm a biatch is going to make me have some huge epiphany and change my biatchy mouthy ways because I assure you it ain't gonna happen.
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OOH. Can I use this one? :lmao::yay:
 
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