My brother and I have been bouncing all over the internet looking for forums, chats, discussions, and information about siblings and twins. David and I are fraternal twins. We'll be 24 in February. Ever since we were 14 or 15 years old we both knew we had a bond and feelings that were much deeper than just brother and sister twins. As we got older we realized that we were in love with each other. Okay, so I'm 17 minutes older than he is, but there are no power dynamics going on here. No one is forcing the other to have these feelings. Imagine being in love with someone and being told you can't be with them... Both of us are fully aware of the problems involved with children in these situations and yes, we are being VERY careful. Our friends had seen this coming on for a long time, maybe even before we truly realized it ourselves. The issue we're dealing with right now is talking to mom about this. We lost our dad in Afghanistan in 2010. We were brought up in a touchy feely family environment full of love and were taught not to judge people the way I'm seeing many posts here are doing.
After seeing this post, on our search of the net, I had to respond and at least tell our story.
I'm sorry if I'm rufflfing a lot of feathers here, but when we were searching the internet we came across this post and I had to respond.
24 is an adult, so do you. As long as it's not some Flowers in the Attic abuse situation.