Breast Cancer Diagnosis

dachsom

dachsom

New Member
Hello all. I just found out that I have cancer in both breasts. It is so hard to believe this is happening. It is also partly my fault that it is so extensive. I stopped getting mammograms about 10 years ago even though my mom died from it at age 44. I always had an excuse not to get one done. I always did a monthly exam though. I was looking for a bump or a lump. I found out yesterday that not all tumors are round and bumpy. They can be elongated and flat.

On Sunday I woke up to a little twinge of pain on the left side. By Tuesday, the pain was unbearable and radiating to my back. I went to the doctor that afternoon where she showed me the proper way to do a self exam. I could then feel the abnormalities.

I just wanted to encourage everyone to get their mammograms and do their monthly exams. I don't know what is in store for me in the future, but I know it is going to be a long road.

I would also like to hear from those who have been through this themselves so I know what lies ahead.

I need all the prayers I can get that is why I started this thread so that I can get lots of them. Thanks for reading my post.
 
PrepH4U

PrepH4U

New Member
dachsom said:
Hello all. I just found out that I have cancer in both breasts. It is so hard to believe this is happening. It is also partly my fault that it is so extensive. I stopped getting mammograms about 10 years ago even though my mom died from it at age 44. I always had an excuse not to get one done. I always did a monthly exam though. I was looking for a bump or a lump. I found out yesterday that not all tumors are round and bumpy. They can be elongated and flat.

On Sunday I woke up to a little twinge of pain on the left side. By Tuesday, the pain was unbearable and radiating to my back. I went to the doctor that afternoon where she showed me the proper way to do a self exam. I could then feel the abnormalities.

I just wanted to encourage everyone to get their mammograms and do their monthly exams. I don't know what is in store for me in the future, but I know it is going to be a long road.

I would also like to hear from those who have been through this themselves so I know what lies ahead.

I need all the prayers I can get that is why I started this thread so that I can get lots of them. Thanks for reading my post.
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Aerogal

Aerogal

USMC 1983-1995
Have faith and know I have you in my prayers. I had a recent scare myself, but I am fortunate to have only had benign calcifications. I have gotten mg's since I was in my 30's. My mother also had cancer but she survived quite well, and so can you.:huggy:
 
twinoaks207

twinoaks207

Having Fun!
:huggy:

Hang in there -- we are all sending many prayers your way. Just had my own scare after skipping a mammogram for almost 3 years. Take care of yourself and focus on the positives in your life. You can beat this!!
 
SoccerMom2

SoccerMom2

New Member
dachsom said:
Hello all. I just found out that I have cancer in both breasts. It is so hard to believe this is happening. It is also partly my fault that it is so extensive. I stopped getting mammograms about 10 years ago even though my mom died from it at age 44. I always had an excuse not to get one done. I always did a monthly exam though. I was looking for a bump or a lump. I found out yesterday that not all tumors are round and bumpy. They can be elongated and flat.

On Sunday I woke up to a little twinge of pain on the left side. By Tuesday, the pain was unbearable and radiating to my back. I went to the doctor that afternoon where she showed me the proper way to do a self exam. I could then feel the abnormalities.

I just wanted to encourage everyone to get their mammograms and do their monthly exams. I don't know what is in store for me in the future, but I know it is going to be a long road.

I would also like to hear from those who have been through this themselves so I know what lies ahead.

I need all the prayers I can get that is why I started this thread so that I can get lots of them. Thanks for reading my post.
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Wow, I am so sorry to hear. My thoguhts are with you and your family.
 
dachsom

dachsom

New Member
Thanks to everyone for the thoughts and prayers. I am trying to keep a positive attitude but it is hard to do when there is no support system in place. Although I live with my ex-husband, I can't count on his help. My son and his wife live here also and they said they would help me when I need it. I have an older brother in WV, but he is too busy chasing "Big Foot". I emailed him (couldn't reach by phone) and told him the situation and he still hasn't responded. It would be great if the above mentioned persons would be there for me but I am prepared to beat this with or without their help.

Even though you all don't know me, you still send prayers and thoughts my way. It means a lot to me. OK, gotta quit now. The Percocet is making me ramble.
 
Pushrod

Pushrod

Patriot
dachsom said:
Hello all. I just found out that I have cancer in both breasts. It is so hard to believe this is happening. It is also partly my fault that it is so extensive. I stopped getting mammograms about 10 years ago even though my mom died from it at age 44. I always had an excuse not to get one done. I always did a monthly exam though. I was looking for a bump or a lump. I found out yesterday that not all tumors are round and bumpy. They can be elongated and flat.

On Sunday I woke up to a little twinge of pain on the left side. By Tuesday, the pain was unbearable and radiating to my back. I went to the doctor that afternoon where she showed me the proper way to do a self exam. I could then feel the abnormalities.

I just wanted to encourage everyone to get their mammograms and do their monthly exams. I don't know what is in store for me in the future, but I know it is going to be a long road.

I would also like to hear from those who have been through this themselves so I know what lies ahead.

I need all the prayers I can get that is why I started this thread so that I can get lots of them. Thanks for reading my post.
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My prayers and best wishes to your speedy recovery.
Did they tell you what stage the cancer was in? My mother just finished her treatment for BC. She has yet to have reconstructive surgery, which I think will be scheduled late in the year. She still has the tubes in where they injected the chemo drugs. Her experience was that the chemo was rough, but not as rough as she thought it was going to be. I guess her hair loss was the hardest part at first, but at least it does grow back.
If you are working, make sure you apply for FMLA as soon as possible.
 
belvak

belvak

Happy Camper
dachsom said:
Thanks to everyone for the thoughts and prayers. I am trying to keep a positive attitude but it is hard to do when there is no support system in place. Although I live with my ex-husband, I can't count on his help. My son and his wife live here also and they said they would help me when I need it. I have an older brother in WV, but he is too busy chasing "Big Foot". I emailed him (couldn't reach by phone) and told him the situation and he still hasn't responded. It would be great if the above mentioned persons would be there for me but I am prepared to beat this with or without their help.

Even though you all don't know me, you still send prayers and thoughts my way. It means a lot to me. OK, gotta quit now. The Percocet is making me ramble.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you too! I had a little scare when I had my mammo this year, but it turned out normal after all. I'm sorry you aren't getting the level of support you would like from your family. Please try to remember that they may take some time to "get used" to the idea and adjust too. Hopefully, they will be there for you! In the meantime, you may want to check out this link, if you haven't already...

Other Southern Maryland Cancer Support Groups
 
cattitude

cattitude

My Sweetest Boy
Chasey_Lane said:
Hang in there and stay positive. :huggy:
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Hope everything goes well with your treatments :huggy:

For support, I would suggest finding a local breast cancer support group. Women who have experienced the same thing can be a wealth of knowledge and courage/support in a time of what must be very frightening and confusing for you.
 
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Roxie04

Roxie04

New Member
Sending prayers your way. Cancer treatments have come a looooong way over the years. My aunt was diagnosed with it in her 30's. That was about 14 years ago and she has been cancer free for many years now.
 
migtig

migtig

aka Mrs. Giant
:huggy: :flowers: Prayers sent. I'd definitely check out the links everybody has supplied for you. Hopefully there's a support group that you like and feel welcomed into. It appears there were several on the link belvak supplied.
 
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