Cheating !

tell or not to tell

  • women yes tell

    Votes: 35 44.9%
  • women I don't wanna no

    Votes: 8 10.3%
  • men yes tell

    Votes: 21 26.9%
  • men I don't wanna no

    Votes: 14 17.9%

  • Total voters
    78

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
Patron
pvineswinger said:
What you don't know DOES hurt you; because whether you "know" or just think you do, you can tell.
There's that and also my personal former situation where everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, knew....but me. I was the only retard in Southern Maryland that didn't know my ex was boinking his co-worker. That ticked me off a LOT more than the actual cheating.
 

KCM

Right Where I Belong
vraiblonde said:
There's that and also my personal former situation where everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, knew....but me. I was the only retard in Southern Maryland that didn't know my ex was boinking his co-worker. That ticked me off a LOT more than the actual cheating.
My ex was doing his co-worker too. The bad part of it was a good deal of our friends worked at the same place as my ex. So all our friends knew but me. That was worse then actually finding out....no one had the guts to tell me.
 

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
vraiblonde said:
There's that and also my personal former situation where everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, knew....but me. I was the only retard in Southern Maryland that didn't know my ex was boinking his co-worker. That ticked me off a LOT more than the actual cheating.
:yeahthat: I totally agree. That definitely hurts worse...also tells you who your friends are. :ohwell:
 

Tina2001aniT

New Member
This is kinda :offtopic: but.....

If you are in a relationship where you are totally happy and in love and all that jazz, is it possible to cheat? Or if you were oh so happy and in love would you never go through with the temptation...........My theory is that if you do cheat then you must not be as "happy in love" as you think........just curious what the rest of you guys and girls think....
 
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pvineswinger

Swinging on Vines
vraiblonde said:
There's that and also my personal former situation where everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, knew....but me. I was the only retard in Southern Maryland that didn't know my ex was boinking his co-worker. That ticked me off a LOT more than the actual cheating.
I did know, and I asked about it- he lied- and then I found out later that he lied- and I was more pissed about the lie.
The AZZ acted like I was being stupid when I "thought" (knew) he was cheating.
 
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geminigrl

Guest
Tina2001aniT said:
This is kinda :eek:ff topic: but.....

If you are in a relationship where you are totally happy and in love and all that jazz, is it possible to cheat? Or if you were oh so happy and in love would you never go through with the temptation...........My theory is that if you do cheat then you must not be as "happy in love" as you think........just curious what the rest of you guys and girls think....
I think some people cheat because they are unhappy and then there are some who cheat just because they can. If that makes any sense. :shrug:
 

JabbaJawz

Be about it
Tina2001aniT said:
This is kinda :eek:ff topic: but.....

If you are in a relationship where you are totally happy and in love and all that jazz, is it possible to cheat? Or if you were oh so happy and in love would you never go through with the temptation...........My theory is that if you do cheat then you must not be as "happy in love" as you think........just curious what the rest of you guys and girls think....

Cheating is definitely capable of happily married people. I've seen it over and over again. Some just have a hard time with monogamy, others just want to have fun on the side but are very content and happy with their home life. Not that it makes it right, but it surely happens and I'd say it's possible for one person in a happy couple to do it.
 

Wickedwrench

Stubborn and opinionated
vraiblonde said:
There's that and also my personal former situation where everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, knew....but me. I was the only retard in Southern Maryland that didn't know my ex was boinking his co-worker. That ticked me off a LOT more than the actual cheating.
My situation exactly. You don't find out a lot of things until the crying is over, then you wish you never found out.
 

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
pvineswinger said:
I did know, and I asked about it- he lied- and then I found out later that he lied- and I was more pissed about the lie.
The AZZ acted like I was being stupid when I "thought" (knew) he was cheating.
IMO, the tell-tale sign is when they accuse you of doing the very thing they are doing. Just trying to take the heat off themselves :ohwell:
 

2ndAmendment

Just a forgiven sinner
PREMO Member
JabbaJawz said:
Cheating is definitely capable of happily married people. I've seen it over and over again. Some just have a hard time with monogamy, others just want to have fun on the side but are very content and happy with their home life. Not that it makes it right, but it surely happens and I'd say it's possible for one person in a happy couple to do it.
In my opinion, it won't be a happy marriage for very long.
 

Pete

Repete
JabbaJawz said:
Cheating is definitely capable of happily married people. I've seen it over and over again. Some just have a hard time with monogamy, others just want to have fun on the side but are very content and happy with their home life. Not that it makes it right, but it surely happens and I'd say it's possible for one person in a happy couple to do it.
Could you stop being so flipping obvious!! Hell the whole forum can see you have it bad for me. :rolleyes:
 
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