Cheating !

[Chasey_Lane]

seven year itch

They have creams for that. :shrug:

 

[Nanny Pam]

I would want to know. Then I could tell him how stupid he was for giving up the best wife any man could hope for. Then kick his butt out!


I wouldn't want anyone's elses STD's either.

 

[Wickedwrench]

They have creams for that. :shrug:

Oh no they don't. If they did I'd have made my other half take a bath in that shiat.

 

[Chain729]

What you don't know DOES hurt you; because whether you "know" or just think you do, you can tell.
Women especially have the "intuition" and we can tell when something is wrong.
Usually the a$$holes try to make us think, WE are doing something wrong.

Forgive me for going off-topic, this is just one of my pet-peeves.

Please do not confuse popular belief with fact. Statistically speaking, only 17-30% of the population use/have intuition, and its evenly split between male and female. Feel free to have a chat with my buddy google about Jung's theory on personality; which happens to be widely accepted in psychology.

BTW, you can't always tell by feeling the person out- and for the record, intuition won't help you as much as you think.

 

[HollowSoul]

Forgive me for going off-topic, this is just one of my pet-peeves.

Please do not confuse popular belief with fact. Statistically speaking, only 17-30% of the population use/have intuition, and its evenly split between male and female. Feel free to have a chat with my buddy google about Jung's theory on personality; which happens to be widely accepted in psychology.

BTW, you can't always tell by feeling the person out- and for the record, intuition won't help you as much as you think.

what she was meaning to say is that women have the ability to tell when something is wrong with their man.....not necessarily intuition, they are just more in tune with the "vibes" us guys give off when we are f'n up.
if i got it wrong....lemme know PV

 

[pvineswinger]

what she was meaning to say is that women have the ability to tell when something is wrong with their man.....not necessarily intuition, they are just more in tune with the "vibes" us guys give off when we are f'n up.
if i got it wrong....lemme know PV

nope- i think we are "in tune" HS.

 

[Chain729]

what she was meaning to say is that women have the ability to tell when something is wrong with their man.....not necessarily intuition, they are just more in tune with the "vibes" us guys give off when we are f'n up.
if i got it wrong....lemme know PV

Understood. Thanks for the explanation.

PV, I think you meant to use "feeling" instead of "intuition."

 

[Shakezula]

When it comes time to accuse the accuser is when shiat hits the fan.

Why, oh why, did no one tell me this a few years ago... I was with someone who accused me almost every day, literally FOR A YEAR. and there i was thinking i was doing something wrong to make them feel that way...

 

[pixiegirl]

Why, oh why, did no one tell me this a few years ago... I was with someone who accused me almost every day, literally FOR A YEAR. and there i was thinking i was doing something wrong to make them feel that way...

If you were smart you'd of known. That being said, if you were smart you wouldn't be a democrat.

 

[janey83]

Obviously nobody has hit it very well

lol, I meant that as a generality

 

[pvineswinger]

Somebody STOP me! I'm being entirely too confessional tonight.

A friend of mine kind of gave me the heads up in a roundabout sorta way. I found out for sure when mine came home from a 3 week travel and was all cranky and barky with me. I said, "What's your problem? You boink _____ when you were on travel and now you feel guilty?" The look on his face....

But that's okay because Larry and I are pretty happy and, if it weren't for the ex's whathaveyou, we wouldn't be married now. One door closes, another door opens.

If you never experience the bad, you won't appreciate the good.

 

[pvineswinger]

Understood. Thanks for the explanation.

PV, I think you meant to use "feeling" instead of "intuition."

Yeah I guess, but people most commonly refer to it as "women's intuition."
Didn't mean to sound so cliche.

 

[Chain729]

Yeah I guess, but people most commonly refer to it as "women's intuition."
Didn't mean to sound so cliche.

Not a problem, cliches in and of themselves don't bother me (even I enjoy cliches once in awhile ). What bothers me is when people accept something as truth because it is widely believed, rather than because it is true.

 

[pvineswinger]

Not a problem, cliches in and of themselves don't bother me (even I enjoy cliches once in awhile ). What bothers me is when people accept something as truth because it is widely believed, rather than because it is true.

I believed it was true, because I felt it- not because it's widely believed.
I just had that "gut" feeling, you know?

 

[gumbo]

I believed it was true, because I felt it- not because it's widely believed.
I just had that "gut" feeling, you know?

YEA INTUITION you had to right the first time

Intuition is knowing something but you know you don't know it.

Gut feeling

Intuition will drive you crazy among Liar's
And the person lying will feed on it and
try to make it out that you are crazy

 

[pvineswinger]

YEA INTUITION you had to right the first time

Intuition is knowing something but you know you don't know it.

Gut feeling

Intuition will drive you crazy among Liar's
And the person lying will feed on it and
try to make it out that you are crazy

Yeah- that's what I meant...
I'm not crazy, well not TOTALLY crazy...

 

[HORUS]

I see that a lot of women what to be told when there man is cheating. I think the problem with this is that simply "knowing" that he is wont answer that questions as to why. And even if you were to ask "why" you'd never reaaly accept the answer as being the truth.
Speaking from my own experience having had been cheated on by my EX-wife. I received an answer to "why" when I found out that she did. As a result I began thinking of myself as flawed.
It wasn't that I was emotionally weak to allow myself to think like that. It's just that I seemed to have more invested into making that relationship work then she did. By cheating she striped everything away from the relationship including my self worth.
Cheaters are nothing more than Thieves and cowards(and a bunch of other things I dare not mention on this public forum). In my opinion, I'd rather not know how stupid someone thought I was by them bragging about it to me. I'd just rather they leave the country and never let me find out.

 

[Chain729]

YEA INTUITION you had to right the first time

Intuition is knowing something but you know you don't know it.

Gut feeling

Intuition will drive you crazy among Liar's
And the person lying will feed on it and
try to make it out that you are crazy

Please know what you're talking about, before trying to correct me. I've devoted quite a bit of time studying personality theories and how and why people think what they do. The links below have been cross-referenced more than most would ever care to and have been proven to be valid. Feel free to jump to development levels 4 and 5 for each trait.

http://tap3x.net/ENSEMBLE/N.html#1
http://tap3x.net/ENSEMBLE/F.html#2

 

[Christy]

It's not the actual act of sex with another person - it's the cheating. I have friends who have an "open marriage" and they're some of the happiest people I know. But they're honest with each other - it's not this deceitful sneaking around thing that is just so destructive to the trust.

I know we've had this conversation over and over (I've been here way to many years ), but I think I'd be more pissed off if Steve had a close female friend who he confided in rather than me. :shrug:

 

[SmallTown]

I see that a lot of women what to be told when there man is cheating. I think the problem with this is that simply "knowing" that he is wont answer that questions as to why. And even if you were to ask "why" you'd never reaaly accept the answer as being the truth.
Speaking from my own experience having had been cheated on by my EX-wife. I received an answer to "why" when I found out that she did. As a result I began thinking of myself as flawed.
It wasn't that I was emotionally weak to allow myself to think like that. It's just that I seemed to have more invested into making that relationship work then she did. By cheating she striped everything away from the relationship including my self worth.
Cheaters are nothing more than Thieves and cowards(and a bunch of other things I dare not mention on this public forum). In my opinion, I'd rather not know how stupid someone thought I was by them bragging about it to me. I'd just rather they leave the country and never let me find out.