Tina2001aniT
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Nickel said:IMO, the tell-tale sign is when they accuse you of doing the very thing they are doing. Just trying to take the heat off themselves
Cheating !
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Somebody STOP me! I'm being entirely too confessional tonight.pvineswinger said:
A friend of mine kind of gave me the heads up in a roundabout sorta way. I found out for sure when mine came home from a 3 week travel and was all cranky and barky with me. I said, "What's your problem? You boink _____ when you were on travel and now you feel guilty?" The look on his face....
But that's okay because Larry and I are pretty happy and, if it weren't for the ex's whathaveyou, we wouldn't be married now. One door closes, another door opens.
It's not the actual act of sex with another person - it's the cheating. I have friends who have an "open marriage" and they're some of the happiest people I know. But they're honest with each other - it's not this deceitful sneaking around thing that is just so destructive to the trust.2ndAmendment said:
Nickel
curiouser and curiouser
I don't know if I'd consider an open marriage cheating. I don't agree with it, but then again, I'm a romantic at heart, and wouldn't be happy in that situation. Some people, are, and if that's their prerogative then so be it. Like you said, "cheating" is the low-down-behind-your-back stuff.vraiblonde said:
I'm out of here. I will get into the Bible and I am sure no one wants to go there but me. Bye.vraiblonde said:
Wickedwrench
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Agreed. Trust is the most important part of any good relationship.2ndAmendment said:
Chasey_Lane
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At this point in my life, I don't know that I would give him the satisfaction of him knowing he hurt me. I would brush it off and move on.crabcake said:Yea, I wanna know. It's a betrayal, and what you think you have with that person is nothing more than alie that I don't need to waste my time on any longer. Also, if I found out from other than my s/o, he could be assured a long, painful, miserable suffering experience only to be compared to having his kahunas scorched with a blow-torch.
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HollowSoul
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been there......done that.......i wanna know so i can kick her to the curb
Chasey_Lane
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Go on.huntr1 said:Gee, this sounds familiar. Where have I heard EXACTLY this statement before????
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Kain99
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Absolutely and totally true.... Married to a guy who accuses you of cheating for 8 years and BINGO! Ya finally catch on.Nickel said:IMO, the tell-tale sign is when they accuse you of doing the very thing they are doing. Just trying to take the heat off themselves
Wickedwrench
Stubborn and opinionated
The seven year itch can happen at any time. When it comes time to accuse the accuser is when shiat hits the fan.Kain99 said:Absolutely and totally true.... Married to a guy who accuses you of cheating for 8 years and BINGO! Ya finally catch on.