lillymay
New Member
elaine said:You mean, I've been doing it wrong all along?
I doubt that. I'm not fronting trying to pretend I know everything but I've been told is that they don't care about that stuff. They want to be able to first and foremost talk and I mean really talk to their partner and not feel judged, etc. Alot of people don't realize that that's why people go outside the relationship. Talking and playing into their fantasies and doing things that the "wife" or "husband" won't do necessarily. Not that complicated really.