Females with no female friends

[Dye Tied]

Never trust a woman who has no female friends.

And, by that token, never trust a guy who has no male friends.

If your gender-mates do not like you and don't want to hang around with you, there's a reason for that. And vice versa - if you only want to hang out with the opposite sex, you have something wrong with you.

I love my girls and couldn't have lived without them these last few years.

I love my girls, from a few years to decades of friendship. I can't imagine life without female friends.
Same with my guy friends but I don't think they bond like we do. But a man with no male friends is as strange as a women with no chick friends.

 

[RoseRed]

I love my girls, from a few years to decades of friendship. I can't imagine life without female friends.
Same with my guy friends but I don't think they bond like we do. But a man with no male friends is as strange as a women with no chick friends.

Bravo!

 

[vraiblonde]

Distance and family obligations can make maintaining a relationship difficult.

Not buying. I had a husband and two kids, and still had good close girlfriends. And when my ex was in the military and we moved around, I still had good close girlfriends wherever we went - ones that I stay in contact with to this day. I also keep in touch with my BFF from high school and see her once or twice a year when I go back home. We pick up right where we left off - Chops and Mango, back in action

So letting distance and family obligations preclude you from having good close friends is an excuse.

Besides, I think we're talking about women who have friends, but they're all guys. Women with all men friends and no female friends are predator chicks who like being the only hen in the rooster house. Typically with insecurity baggage, which is why they can't hack the perceived "competition" of having another woman around.

 

[doubtfull24]

Lately, this topic has come up for discussion several times. I've known a few guys that have dated women, who had no female friends.
It's very hard to like those women because they are always looking at you like you are the competition, gonna steal their man and they cannot communicate with you because you are the enemy.

Have you known women like this, that feel threatened by other women? That have no female friends and cannot establish a chick bond?

What's your take on this kind of female and why they have no female friends?

Were you trying to make friends with these girls? Did you meet them because you were friends with their boyfriend or did you meet them on your own? I can't speak for anyone but myself but LET'S JUST SAY you were friends with my fiance before we met and he introduced us I wouldn't feel threatened by you or your friendship with him doesn't mean I'd want to be your friend that would depend on your personality and if we had anything in common .However if you are my fiance's ex and he introduces us I wouldn't want to be friends with you not because I am threatened by you but because that would be to uncomfortable for me. I don't think it's fair to assume all girls who don't have a lot of girl friends have no friends because they are afraid you'll try and steal their man.Not that you do.I know for me personally I don't really go out much so it's been hard to make friends. I'm not the type of person to just walk up to someone and start a conversation with them. I wish I had more friends. I don't have the money to go visit my friends back home or I would I haven't even been able to go back just to visit my family...

 

[libertytyranny]

I don't particularly like females. I have probably three or four female friends that I love and trust and they got that way because they don't particularly like females either..but I am still extremely wary of other females. Perhaps it is my age...but my experience has always been that females hanging around your man is BAD news...even if nothing "bad" happens..I have had other females become jealous of me and try to badmouth me to boyfriends..even when I have barely spoken two words to them...I can only imagine that it is because they are threatened or something..but I refuse to think it is too much to ask to change your relationship a bit..it is disrespectful to me to be calling or texting pictures to my bf at 2am..no matter how long you have been friends. I can only hope that when I get older...the females will mature and that sort of thing will stop...many my age are still in high school mode...so I try to be the more mature party and cut them a break.

 

[Dye Tied]

Were you trying to make friends with these girls? Did you meet them because you were friends with their boyfriend or did you meet them on your own? I can't speak for anyone but myself but LET'S JUST SAY you were friends with my fiance before we met and he introduced us I wouldn't feel threatened by you or your friendship with him doesn't mean I'd want to be your friend that would depend on your personality and if we had anything in common .However if you are my fiance's ex and he introduces us I wouldn't want to be friends with you not because I am threatened by you but because that would be to uncomfortable for me. I don't think it's fair to assume all girls who don't have a lot of girl friends have no friends because they are afraid you'll try and steal their man.Not that you do.I know for me personally I don't really go out much so it's been hard to make friends. I'm not the type of person to just walk up to someone and start a conversation with them. I wish I had more friends. I don't have the money to go visit my friends back home or I would I haven't even been able to go back just to visit my family...

I am not trying to make friends with these females. I found them strange in the fact they had no female friends. You won't meet them out because they will not befriend other females.
Try asking one to go out to dinner or to hang out. The reason for that would be because they were hooked up with your male friend and you want to know them better. They don't know how to behave with a request like dinner or shopping.
There must be reasons for no female friends. And yes, the same goes for men with no dude friends.

 

[vraiblonde]

but I refuse to think it is too much to ask to change your relationship a bit..it is disrespectful to me to be calling or texting pictures to my bf at 2am..no matter how long you have been friends.

Now you're talking about something else entirely. When your male bud takes on a girlfriend, you're supposed to back off of him. Not the friendship, but the chummy chummy intimacy stuff. No more being physically flirtatious with him, and no more calling/texting at night. You include his girlfriend in your activities and befriend her if you can. To not do so is rude not only to the girlfriend, but disrespectful of your guy bud and his relationships.

It's bull#### to say, "Why should I change our friendship just because some woman's on the scene?" and predator female crap.

 

[doubtfull24]

I am not trying to make friends with these females. I found them strange in the fact they had no female friends. You won't meet them out because they will not befriend other females.
Try asking one to go out to dinner or to hang out. The reason for that would be because they were hooked up with your male friend and you want to know them better. They don't know how to behave with a request like dinner or shopping.
There must be reasons for no female friends. And yes, the same goes for men with no dude friends.

Don't take this personal but how do you know they have no female friends? How do you know they might not want to go to dinner or shopping because maybe they might not like you for some other reason than they are just threatened by you or maybe they are shy? I know I'm kinda hard to get to know at first? Just wondering ?I also feel behind every untrusting female is a male who made her that way.

 

[doubtfull24]

QUOTE=vraiblonde;4280583]Now you're talking about something else entirely. When your male bud takes on a girlfriend, you're supposed to back off of him. Not the friendship, but the chummy chummy intimacy stuff. No more being physically flirtatious with him, and no more calling/texting at night. You include his girlfriend in your activities and befriend her if you can. To not do so is rude not only to the girlfriend, but disrespectful of your guy bud and his relationships.

It's bull#### to say, "Why should I change our friendship just because some woman's on the scene?" and predator female crap.[/QUOTE]

 

[Wenchy]

Now you're talking about something else entirely. When your male bud takes on a girlfriend, you're supposed to back off of him. Not the friendship, but the chummy chummy intimacy stuff. No more being physically flirtatious with him, and no more calling/texting at night. You include his girlfriend in your activities and befriend her if you can. To not do so is rude not only to the girlfriend, but disrespectful of your guy bud and his relationships.

It's bull#### to say, "Why should I change our friendship just because some woman's on the scene?" and predator female crap.

Good grief, a 2am text? I would draw and quarter my own children if they ever sent me a 2am text picture.

I prefer my dull life, a few good girlfriends, my family, and no drama.

 

[vraiblonde]

Good grief, a 2am text? I would draw and quarter my own children if they ever sent me a 2am text picture.

I prefer my dull life, a few good girlfriends, my family, and no drama.

I think most women would realize that texting your guy bud in the middle of the night when he may be with his woman is a severe breech of protocol. And any boyfriend who wouldn't shut that down needs to be put on the road.

 

[Wenchy]

I think most women would realize that texting your guy bud in the middle of the night when he may be with his woman is a severe breech of protocol. And any boyfriend who wouldn't shut that down needs to be put on the road.

I know a vet who does house calls. Removal of the testes is very easy.

 

[doubtfull24]

QUOTE=Wenchy;4280621]I know a vet who does house calls. Removal of the testes is very easy.[/QUOTE]



However I wouldn't wish that on any man except maybe a pedophile ...

 

[TurboK9]

Sounds like that's why they don't have women friends, no one wants to deal with them.

I thought it was cuz they was whores... Oh well, so much for a fun Saturday night...

 

[Dye Tied]

Don't take this personal but how do you know they have no female friends? How do you know they might not want to go to dinner or shopping because maybe they might not like you for some other reason than they are just threatened by you or maybe they are shy? I know I'm kinda hard to get to know at first? Just wondering ?I also feel behind every untrusting female is a male who made her that way.

Easy. This county is small and people know other people. Or your male/female friend brings their friend around a few times and you figure it out by talking and observing. Or the person just plain tells you this is the first time they had same gender friends.

 

[christy217]

Interesting Thread

I think there are a lot of dynamics that can be explored as to why someone may or may not have friends, regardless of gender, but because this is female specific, I've known a few. I say to each their own, but I see where the poster is coming from.....I am from this area, the very close friends I grew up with moved away to college and never came back, I made another close friend and she moved to FL a few years back because her hubby is in the military-but we've visited each other since. However, I have friends of both genders, but I do like my alone time too, who doesn't.

Wait-does my opinion count? I'm a lesbian! Just kidding! (Not on the lesbian part but my opinion)

Cheers everyone!

 

[betty99]

I think most women would realize that texting your guy bud in the middle of the night when he may be with his woman is a severe breech of protocol. And any boyfriend who wouldn't shut that down needs to be put on the road.

I have many female friends around the country from my time in Florida, college, etc. When I came home to So. MD, I made a few friends and began dating a local guy. Most of the women around him were hideous people. Scheming, flirtatious, deliberately touchy and inflammatory. Texts at 2 a.m. I would even walk away and leave them to talk to him to show that I was not worried, but I certainly didn't want to be friends with them. I thought a large percentage of the women around here were desperate, man-stealing attempting hoes... because that was the kind of women I was seeing. Stepped away from that scene and found some great women around here. I'm just saying, it's not insecurity if the behavior these women exhibit is over the line.

LT, it doesn't change with age... nasty people are still nasty people.

 

[JLS]

I know I'm gonna get alotta flack for saying it.. but I do have girl - friends but am only close to a select few.. but there are alotta women that a) are 2 faced and if u tell them something in confidence they go back and tell half the planet b) stab u in the back and lie to ur face and c) very judgemental about things u say or do..

Lately, this topic has come up for discussion several times. I've known a few guys that have dated women, who had no female friends.
It's very hard to like those women because they are always looking at you like you are the competition, gonna steal their man and they cannot communicate with you because you are the enemy.

Have you known women like this, that feel threatened by other women? That have no female friends and cannot establish a chick bond?

What's your take on this kind of female and why they have no female friends?

 

[libertytyranny]

I have many female friends around the country from my time in Florida, college, etc. When I came home to So. MD, I made a few friends and began dating a local guy. Most of the women around him were hideous people. Scheming, flirtatious, deliberately touchy and inflammatory. Texts at 2 a.m. I would even walk away and leave them to talk to him to show that I was not worried, but I certainly didn't want to be friends with them. I thought a large percentage of the women around here were desperate, man-stealing attempting hoes... because that was the kind of women I was seeing. Stepped away from that scene and found some great women around here. I'm just saying, it's not insecurity if the behavior these women exhibit is over the line.

LT, it doesn't change with age... nasty people are still nasty people.

I would agree. I have no problem though, picking up the phone and letting someone know their behavior is innapropriate..however politely I do it..that always pretty much ends our chances of being friends..and I am fine with that...I have met a few bfs through good friends..but never the other way around.

 

[vraiblonde]

very judgemental about things u say or do..

What's wrong with that? If you do something careless or downright mean, others have a right to form an opinion of you based on your behavior.