Females with no female friends

[playerhater]

Women are just so jealous of each other, and if they get around your man you feel threatened. Don't let a beautiful lady walk in the club or wherever all dressed and looking sexy as heck, all the dudes are trying to peep at her, wether they are with their lady or not. I think women are about competition that is why yall can't have too many lady friends. They don't want that girl friend hanging around their man because insecurity that she is finer than you. Its just in a ladies nature to yack about almost anything. Women care about most everything and men don't. I choose to have very little close friends, and I have some I would trust with my life. Women are really threatended by other women by looks, popularity or just being noticed.

 

[AmericanMom]

There has been a new girl at school that moved here from over seas, her dad is in the Navy. So far I haven't seen her make friends with any of the girls in class, and she eats lunch with a few guys. :shrug:

Besides that, it seems all the girls I know have at least one close friend that is also a girl. :shrug:

 

[playerhater]

There has been a new girl at school that moved here from over seas, her dad is in the Navy. So far I haven't seen her make friends with any of the girls in class, and she eats lunch with a few guys. :shrug:

Besides that, it seems all the girls I know have at least one close friend that is also a girl. :shrug:

Of course the guys are going to get with her first and its not for her good conversation.

 

[AmericanMom]

Of course the guys are going to get with her first and its not for her good conversation.

Well D'uh.

 

[playerhater]

Well D'uh.

Women are player haters against women. Its sad men want to talk to the panties first, just in our nature, and if its good we might want to conversate afterwards, crazy huh. About the friends thing, can you really have a close relationship with someone you did the dirty deed with no matter how many times. Its awkward, especially when the other sees you out in town with someone else. There is nothing you can say but I am sure we say a lot to ourselves good and bad.

 

[AmericanMom]

Women are player haters against women. Its sad men want to talk to the panties first, just in our nature, and if its good we might want to conversate afterwards, crazy huh. About the friends thing, can you really have a close relationship with someone you did the dirty deed with no matter how many times. Its awkward, especially when the other sees you out in town with someone else. There is nothing you can say but I am sure we say a lot to ourselves good and bad.

Woot

mayb she isn`t the type of female u r lookin 4? i can c Y.

WTF are you talking about?

 

[playerhater]

Woot



WTF are you talking about?

Lance even through me off with his comment LOL, I was like what is this dude trying to say.

 

[AmericanMom]

Lance even through me off with his comment LOL, I was like what is this dude trying to say.

And this is why we avoid creepy old men at the store that try to talk to us Can you imagine hearing that in person?

 

[playerhater]

I think the best friend anyone can have is one who you grew up with when you were little till adult hood. They becomse like your brother or sister. Some of us might hate our brotheres and sisters though. Men can't make lady friends when there are in a relationship. It would jsut be a hi and bye, oh hun this is Amber. Your ladies RED light goes of right away. NOT GOOD.

 

[playerhater]

And this is why we avoid creepy old men at the store that try to talk to us Can you imagine hearing that in person?

Lance is probably younger than you.

 

[AmericanMom]

Lance is probably younger than you.

He talks NOTHING like my little brother.

 

[ItalianScallion]

Well my reason is that women are so full of drama. I mean, one minute they are your friend and then the next they are running their mouths about you to other women. Then those women turn around and pass it on. " omg, guess what so and so said about so and so". Drama drama drama.
Me, I do not care what other women think of me. Those that run their mouths about other people are insecure about something.
Oh and women tend to get their feelings hurt easy. No sense of humor. Most of them anyway. Cry me a river.

While this is SOO true, most of the women I've seen down here hang out with other women. Rarely does a woman come into a restaurant alone unless she is waiting for someone. (What's wrong with you ladies? Is it shameful to come out by yourself? How the heck are we supposed to meet you if you only go to work then go home??)

I go to lots of places, (CIP, Red Robin, Gilligans to name a few) mostly for lunch, and they usually sit close enough for me to hear them talking. They'll almost always say something to me (cause I DO make eye contact and smile a lot) and other times I'll say something to them but I often lose interest fast because they usually start texting, complaining or talking about work! (What the heck do people need to text every 3 minutes for???!!!) So are they shy or socially inept? :shrug: Maybe this is why some of them don't have a lot of female friends.

 

[Nonno]

They'll almost always say something to me (cause I DO make eye contact and smile a lot) and other times I'll say something to them but I often lose interest fast because they usually start texting,

Perhaps you should explore further the wonder of their resorting to texting in response to your remarks.

 

[migtig]

Perhaps you should explore further the wonder of their resorting to texting in response to your remarks.

Sorry but If I'm talking to somebody and enjoying the conversation, I'll ignore my phone. Regardless of gender. But if the conversation is uncomfortable or weirding me out, I'll pull out my phone, even if it's just to play a video game, in order to ignore the person.

As for everybody blaming everything on drama or women hating on other women. I find that .

In this area, and other transient areas that I've lived in before, and is true for both male and female, either people are from here and know each other and are related to each other, or they aren't. In the latter case, those people tend to be more limited and even more selective about their social circles due to location circumstances.

If I make friends with someone and think I like them, I try to get to know them better. Sometimes in that process of developing an adult relationship, I discover that maybe we don't have that many common interests and let the friendship development lapse. No skin off my nose.

I'm not a social butterfly, but I'd rather hang around with just a few people that I know, like and have common interests with, than hang out with a gaggle of people just to have "friends" that amount to no more than social aquaintances.

Of course I'm lucky in that for the most part, I do like my husband's girlfriends. But if I didn't feel a common bond of some sort, I doubt I'd want to waste my time hanging out. Just because somebody knows my husband, isn't a good enough reason to be friends, go shopping, have dinner et.al. :shrug:

 

[Libertarian]

What's your take on this kind of female and why they have no female friends?

My wife is a very likeable person, but has had no close female friends since long before I met her. She says the reason for this is because females are "too catty" for her, and she has been betrayed too many times before by females that she thought were her close friends.

Whether my wife's take on this is true or not, I don't know. I do, however, know that our daughter's best friends are constantly changing, and some girls that are her friends one day are stabbing her in the back and getting other friends to turn against her the next. I attribute this to our daughter's age (teen), but my wife says most women are like that for their whole lives.

I stay out of it.

 

[Libertarian]

Perhaps you should explore further the wonder of their resorting to texting in response to your remarks.

I never thought I would agree with you, Nonno, but I think you nailed that one. When a girl or woman pulls out a phone and starts texting while you are talking to her, it is because she is trying to blow you off or otherwise politely tell you she is not interested in you. (I know it is hard to believe that an Itallion Stallion of a Harley rider that "smiles and makes eye contact" would get turned down, but it does happen from time to time.)

 

[Pete]

I never thought I would agree with you, Nonno, but I think you nailed that one. When a girl or woman pulls out a phone and starts texting while you are talking to her, it is because she is trying to blow you off or otherwise politely tell you she is not interested in you. (I know it is hard to believe that an Itallion Stallion of a Harley rider that "smiles and makes eye contact" would get turned down, but it does happen from time to time.)

Or maybe she is just plain rude. :shrug: It happens.

 

[Christy]

Or maybe she is just plain rude. :shrug: It happens.

Not rude. It's a bonafide addiction.

Soooooo shiny!

 

[RoseRed]

Not rude. It's a bonafide addiction.

Soooooo shiny!

 

[Christy]

Rarely does a woman come into a restaurant alone unless she is waiting for someone. (What's wrong with you ladies? Is it shameful to come out by yourself? How the heck are we supposed to meet you if you only go to work then go home??)

Maybe it's because we don't want to be approached by some creeptastic guy circling about like a buzzard to road kill. Men have a tendency to think that if a woman is alone they want some man to come talk to them.

I prefer to travel in packs for this very reason.