You just need to get out more!
I work out in the real world, and I've had jobs in corporate companies, blue collar businesses, non-profit businesses, and have worked with attorneys, judges, government employees, and I've been in the sales / customer service field for 30 of the 40+ years I've worked. I am probably out and out in the community on a social level more than most people, since I go listen to live music in our area all the time. ALL genres of music, so I meet a LOT of people. From all walks of life.
There may be women who are miserable and nasty (like those whiny women in the videos) in their lives. I don't know them, and I also think that the videos that get posted here are misogynistic in nature. Not all women are like those depicted in them. The poster has a pretty myopic view of woman, which is pretty evident by the posts he makes about women.