FINANCING the ENGAGEMENT RING...

[sockgirl77]

Depends on who broke it off. :shrug:

No. It is considered a gift with intention. I know there is a thread about this somewhere. If you marry the dude you get to keep it. If you don't then you don't. However, I got seperated before the ring was paid off so I gave it back so that he did not have to keep making payments on it. I am such a nice person.

 

[pixiegirl]

Depends on who broke it off. :shrug:

I disagree... I think it depends on for what reason it was called off. For example if I walked in on my fiance and brother in bed together I'd certainly call off the engagement but would keep the ring since he was a dirty bastard and was cheating. If the split was decent no matter who called it off the ring should be returned.

 

[aps45819]

does it?


if he called it off, she should give the ring back?

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Yes

 

[Nickel]

if I walked in on my fiance and brother in bed together

Honey, you'd have deeper issues than what to do with the ring.

 

[Qurious]

No. It is considered a gift with intention. I know there is a thread about this somewhere. If you marry the dude you get to keep it. If you don't then you don't. However, I got seperated before the ring was paid off so I gave it back so that he did not have to keep making payments on it. I am such a nice person.

Even if you gave it back, if it was financed he still has to make payments...

the bank doesn't care if the engagement is off

 

[itsbob]

You should see the car now....the back window is broken out and I have packing tape covering it all up, so now I'm looking really smooth......

That was cool of you letting Doug post your ER pictures from last week-end..

 

[sockgirl77]

Even if you gave it back, if it was financed he still has to make payments...

the bank doesn't care if the engagement is off

Engagement rings usually have a 90 day return period. I was given the ring after my original one was stolen. :shrug:

 

[smoothmarine187]

That was cool of you letting Doug post your ER pictures from last week-end..

 

[migtig]

does it?


if he called it off, she should give the ring back?

shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

If he calls it off, it's her ring. If she calls it off it's his.

However, there are varying circumstances that can change the outcome.

When my ex and I divorced, I gave him back the engagement ring since it had been in his family for generations, though technically it was mine.

 

[Wickedwrench]

Uhhhhhhhhhhh No.


Your thoughts?

Don't buy one in the first place.:shrug:

 

[Ehesef]

If he calls it off, it's her ring. If she calls it off it's his.

However, there are varying circumstances that can change the outcome.

When my ex and I divorced, I gave him back the engagement ring since it had been in his family for generations, though technically it was mine.

That was a very decent thing to do. I'd probably do the same.

 

[Qurious]

I don't see anything wrong with financing an engagement ring. I'm going to have and wear this ring every day for the rest of my life, shouldn't I love it? My engagement ring has a matching wedding band. He could have paid cash for just the engagement ring, but it was be cheaper in the long run to buy the set and pay it off in a year with no interest.

what if the engagement is called off? what happens to the ring?

uh oh.

03-20-2007 11:28 AM if he is smart he will call it off.

 

[Pete]

If he calls it off, it's her ring. If she calls it off it's his.

However, there are varying circumstances that can change the outcome.

When my ex and I divorced, I gave him back the engagement ring since it had been in his family for generations, though technically it was mine.

If he calls it off and she keeps the ring does she start making the payments?

 

[Ehesef]

uh oh.

 

[BadGirl]

Sorry, I meant Gumbo, giving Gumbo permission to post your ER photos...

http://forums.somd.com/showthread.php?t=97157

(itsbob)

 

[Dougstermd]

R u married?

Was your ring financed? You dont see a problem with this?

I finaced the ring I bought when I got married it was about $1600 in 1991 and I was making about $8 an hour I do not see any problem with that. WTF you expecting a REPOP man to come and get it???