Roberta
OLD WISE ONE
pixiegirl said:You had babies you couldn't take care of too?
Nope, did it all by myself. At times I worked 3 jobs.
pixiegirl said:You had babies you couldn't take care of too?
pixiegirl said:I don't have any food stamps for you but here are some .
vraiblonde said:I took issue with your "choices" comment, not your "temporary" comment.
pixiegirl said:Long time ago... My first post to Jen said specifically that it did not pertain to her mother as I'm sure it was a different time.
Roberta said:Someone bumped your " I won" thread. So what happened to bebe #2's daddy? You are so quick to judge people
Now you are tied up with a man with SIX CHILDREN.....
"Two children is enough children. I personally think that people that have a buttload of kids need to have their heads examined."
I think you need to STFU, grow up and get over yourself.
pixiegirl said:I left baby daddy #2 because he was a poor companion. He's a much better friend and a much more tolerant father now.
Yes I am with a man who has six children. Tied up??? I'm not married to him. Those children didn't chose their mother.
And let me let you in on a little something... I don't "judge" people. I give my opinion. That's all it is. If you're offended by my opinion that's YOUR problem not mine.
Redskinsmama said:baby daddy #2? sounds like you're the one making bad decisions around here, but that's just MY opinion. stop procreating.
pixiegirl said:I got fixed after baby #2. I have healthy well taken care of children one of which I'll never see any type of support for. See, I was smart enough to stop having children before I had so many I couldn't afford to feed them.
And two babies daddies is NOT a big deal but you can try to grasp that straw if you want to. I'd venture to say that half the board mommas either have multiple babies daddies OR in the least are not with their babies daddy. Divorce happens; a lot.
Roberta said:But then you came back and attacked.
Did you read that I said it was not directed at your mother as I'm sure that was a different time? 99% of the time bad luck is a result of poor choices. Period. Your mother obviously chose a poor mate, is this Joetaxpayers fault or responsibility? And before you get your panties in a bunch over THAT statement go read my reply to Vrai. I did the same.
I hope your high horse bites you in the a**.
pixiegirl said:You are a donkey who obviously can't read. I take personal responsibility for ALL the hardships I've faced. It wasn't "bad luck" it was bad decisions on MY part. I also bear a great deal of guilt for certain things that have happened to my oldest son at the hands of his bio father. He didn't get to chose his father I did that. The ONE thing I've learned from all my experiences is that whenever something has sucked in my life it's usually my own damn fault. And you forgot to notice the 99%, yes sometimes $hitty things happen that we have no control over but most of the time we can trace it back to something we should have done differently.
I'm not on any type of high horse. I hold the opinion that people should be responsible for themselves and that true bad luck is a rarity. My mother often tells me that the rest of the world isn't like me; it's easier to blame someone else than to take responsibility yourself. This is true. This is the standard that I hold myself to and it's my opinion that other people should as well. People are individuals and I understand that a blanket opinion is not always right but I believe in most cases it is. I don't judge people as a whole. I try not to judge at all. But I won't change my opinion because you or anyone else doesn't like it.
Roberta said:Well STFU then.
jenbengen said:Again, let's not ASSUME all people on food stamps buy expensive food and try not to make it go as far as they can. Quit stereotyping. There are people that abuse every system out there, but not EVEYRBODY does that.
Gwydion said:I wasn't generalizing at all. I am saying that people that are on food stamps shouldn't be eating steaks, which is why a $21 a week is plenty to live off of. /applaud the food stamper's are making it stretch. Now just get off using them for good.
Roberta said:SNIP
"Two children is enough children. I personally think that people that have a buttload of kids need to have their heads examined."
I think you need to STFU, grow up and get over yourself.
RadioPatrol said:and what is wrong with a big family ? WTF do you care ? as long the parents provide a good home and take care of them where is it any of your business how many children someone wants to take the responsibility to raise ........
I am not referring to people churning out babies for more state money ......