Yeah, well, go give them a hug and kiss from me. It's refreshing to see parents who actually love their adult children and look out for them, instead of hiding behind that "they're adults, it's their decision, there's nothing I can do" bull####.
Forgiving A Cheater
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Yeah, well, go give them a hug and kiss from me. It's refreshing to see parents who actually love their adult children and look out for them, instead of hiding behind that "they're adults, it's their decision, there's nothing I can do" bull####.
FemmePrincess
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Snap out of it!!! Get your kids and you away from him.Find a stable situation for you and especially your kids. There are
good men out there (as Im told anyway) Life is to short for this crap!!!
shygirlmd
New Member
If he's as bad as you and apparently your parents think, she is suffering being subjected to that drama. If he will blow up at you for confronting him about cheating, who's to say he won't blow up at her too? She's 2 and is aware of more than you think.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
No...
...it was obvious. I just wanted to hear you say it. Living with mommy and daddy, with your hubby, is either a short term solution to a short term problem or a sign of immaturity on both your parts. I suggest you quit playing adult until you can at least do it for real.
...it was obvious. I just wanted to hear you say it. Living with mommy and daddy, with your hubby, is either a short term solution to a short term problem or a sign of immaturity on both your parts. I suggest you quit playing adult until you can at least do it for real.
But your 2 year old is going to see his violent behavior and it's going to do more harm than good to her. I know you're trying to protect her from not having her father in her life, but is a violent man who breaks things around the house in a fit of rage a good environment for a 2 year old (or even a child that's older)? Do what's best for you and your daughter and RUN...
Larry Gude
Strung Out
You're not helping.
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toppick08
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Find a stable situation for you and especially your kids. There are
good men out there (as Im told anyway) Life is to short for this crap!!!
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Larry Gude
Strung Out
I don't live with my parents! My mom owns two homes and I pay the mortgage on one of them.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Then...
...why did you say 'landlord' threw him out? If it's your house, you're free to have all the abusive men around you like, yes?
...why did you say 'landlord' threw him out? If it's your house, you're free to have all the abusive men around you like, yes?
camily
Peace
Not true,
whome20603
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You're wondering if your husband that you don't use condoms with who has condoms in his wallet along with a secret number and phone call is cheating...again?? I think you know the answer to this. I'm sorry and know all to well what you're going through. Do not be blinded by what you think is love. I mean, I'm sure he loves you...you are the mother of his child but he doesn't love you enough if he keeps cheating on you. I guess, because you know the answer to your question, your question should actually be: "Is he worth my happiness and am I willing to continue to allow this to happen?" Because, you know you're not happy (you're looking through his wallet and phone) and he's only doing this because you allow him to do so. Put a stop to it and make yourself happy. Make you and your child #1.
Good luck.
Good luck.
I guess because I pay HER mortgage - the house is in her name, so technically she's my landlord. Obviously it runs a little deeper to say that she said he had to go and I let him. . . .
shygirlmd
New Member
Yes, there are exceptions but usually it's true. Would you not agree? There has to be something in the marriage/relationship that makes the other person look outside. If the couple can work out their problems, then there's no temptation to look for someone else.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
I have...
...a house you can rent AND keep him around. I need two months deposit though and proof of insurance.
What would your dad say to all of this nonsense if he were to post in this thread?
Would he say you are a spoiled brat who needs to tend to your business?
Has he disliked this guy for a long time and you knew better?
What would you tell your daughter if she was in your shoes right now?
I'm not trying to be a prick. It comes naturally. It's just maybe you could use a cold shower?
...a house you can rent AND keep him around. I need two months deposit though and proof of insurance.
What would your dad say to all of this nonsense if he were to post in this thread?
Would he say you are a spoiled brat who needs to tend to your business?
Has he disliked this guy for a long time and you knew better?
What would you tell your daughter if she was in your shoes right now?
I'm not trying to be a prick. It comes naturally. It's just maybe you could use a cold shower?
camily
Peace
Obviously you are not an MPD. I'll fill you in on the details another time. Or you can search old threads. I love my husband and it's worth trying to save your marriage. Especially if you have kids. THEY deserve for you to try your best to save your marriage.
a house you can rent AND keep him around. I need two months deposit though and proof of insurance.
What would your dad say to all of this nonsense if he were to post in this thread? Well, my dad has never been a strong factor in my life so it would be difficult to speak for him. He respects my opinions, although, if he knew that my husband was cheating on me, he'd likely want to kill him.
Would he say you are a spoiled brat who needs to tend to your business? My dad would not call me spoiled at all actually! I'm actually pretty level headed when it comes to most things - just sometimes it's easier to give an opinion when you're outisde the circle looknig in, opposed to being in the middle of it.
Has he disliked this guy for a long time and you knew better? Could be!? I don't know!
What would you tell your daughter if she was in your shoes right now? I'd tell her to run - run fast away from this man. But, unlike my own mother, I'd like to think I'd respect her enough to make that decision on her own. Hard to say - she's only 2!
I'm not trying to be a prick. It comes naturally. It's just maybe you could use a cold shower? Perhaps.
What would your dad say to all of this nonsense if he were to post in this thread? Well, my dad has never been a strong factor in my life so it would be difficult to speak for him. He respects my opinions, although, if he knew that my husband was cheating on me, he'd likely want to kill him.
Would he say you are a spoiled brat who needs to tend to your business? My dad would not call me spoiled at all actually! I'm actually pretty level headed when it comes to most things - just sometimes it's easier to give an opinion when you're outisde the circle looknig in, opposed to being in the middle of it.
Has he disliked this guy for a long time and you knew better? Could be!? I don't know!
What would you tell your daughter if she was in your shoes right now? I'd tell her to run - run fast away from this man. But, unlike my own mother, I'd like to think I'd respect her enough to make that decision on her own. Hard to say - she's only 2!
I'm not trying to be a prick. It comes naturally. It's just maybe you could use a cold shower? Perhaps.
