Gay adoptions
- Thread starter Uncle Rico
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Uh, that is not true. Yes, homosexual men are more likely to molest a *boy* child than a hetero man, but it is fairly common for girls to have at least one molester in their past, and that molester is almost exclusively a hetero man and not a homosexual.
And a homosexual man is no more likely to be sexually attracted to his son than his hetero counterpart will be attracted to a daughter. I don't even know what makes people say dumb stuff like this, because there is no evidence of it.
STAYATHOMEMAMA3
New Member
Could not have said it better myself, My mind was TRULY made up after watching that HBO special with the cruise with Rosie O'Donnell, I cant stand her, but the special was a real eye opener, These people(gay couples) showed the most adoration for their kids, and did not care where or what background they came from they just wanted a child to love and share their life with, it really was quite touching!! More power to them
morningbell
hmmmmmm
Are you a closet gay?
morningbell
hmmmmmm
Roughly 33% of girls and 14% of boys are molested before the age of 18, according to the U.S. Justice Department.
Child Molestation Statistics
* Three out of four children who were victimized were female.
* Nearly two-thirds of convicted child molesters and/or offenders were or had been married.
Sex Offender Statistics - Child Molester Statistics
BuddyLee
Football addict
I didn't realize the numbers were so high for girls. Appauling.
bcp
In My Opinion
I think its appauling anyway you look at it.
I see no reason to open children up to more chance of molestation just to get them out of the system.
I also dont see why the waiting list and the cost is so high to adopt. You make it easier and less expensive and you would have a whole lot less kids waiting.
Do a background check on the parents to be, and move on.
morningbell
hmmmmmm
Regardless of what you or I think- little Johnny/Susie are going to get the snot beat out of them from 3rd grade on because they have a daddy and a daddy/mommy and a mommy vs a mommy and daddy.
So no- but not because of the parental aspect. Kids will be kids and kids can be mean so why subject one to daily beatings.
ps Hi from a newbie!
Kids are taught adversity in school. Your family is not going to be the same as little Johnny or Susie's family. Its not the 50s anymore, and the nuclear family is not the norm.
Pasofever
Does my butt look big?
One of my best friends is a gay man in a relationship. He and his partner adopted 2 children from a Russian orphanage..the stories of the orphanage is terrible. 50 degrees in there..no baths for kids or diapers etc..Anyway this kids are HAPPY HAPPY...and I feel they are in the best of hands I say yes.
Highlander
ONE NATION UNDER GOD
That's where it bothers me. I try to picture myself with two daddies or two mommies. I am thankful that I was not raised in that environment. When I was growing up, none of this would have ever been an issue. Homos were and still are living a perverted unnatural lifestyle. That's not healthy for children to be exposed to. I don't want to hear the argument that it's between two consenting adults. That doesn't make it any less perverted.
I also can't understand how homos are calling themselves christian and are going to church. I can only assume they've edited the bible to suit their needs. The priest in our old church used to preach against the gays on a regular basis. There was never one person in church who did not agree with him.
My kids will only see society deteriorate even more in their lifetimes. Thankfully they have a good foundation and are off to a great start.
Geek
New Member
bcp
In My Opinion
explain this.
are you saying that a good family with mother and father is not the norm anymore?
You're going to burst his bubble with facts.
If you'd grown up in that family it would seem normal. If they're good parents and teach responsibility more than likely the kid will grow up that way, wether it was M/M, F/F, or M/F.
morningbell
hmmmmmm
Why is it not healthy?
Its what happens behind closed doors. When two people love eachother and express it in a sexual manner they do so in private, why is this an issue? Do you have sexual relations in front of your kids? I sure hope not.
What about preists molesting young boys? You know for so long since the begining of recorded history, homosexuality has been documented. Some human lives were also reserved for just that, to be sexual slaves to others, in Persia, Italy as well as Greece and Japan it was young boys to serve as women for men of nobile stature. It was not uncommon in bathhouses in Venice, Florence, Greece and Rome. A large part of many countries militaries throughout history went gay (i.e. close quarters with other men). Homosexualisty is even prevelent in Iran and other middle eastern Muslim dominated countries, they don't admit it because apperently its punishable by death. Lordy Byron, Richard Francis Burton, John Cleland, Thomas Cannon and others wrote about it in Eurpoe.....
Throughout history there have been acceptance and backlash of same sex relations. You're just going to have to get used to it, the gay population is simply not going to go away.
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morningbell
hmmmmmm
Oh, no its normal. What I meant, its just more common to see one mother, one father families, extended families with cousins and aunts/uncles living under one roof, step dads, step moms, even friends living together. The definition of families has been changed to suit certain situations. You may be raised by your aunt and uncle or your brother or sister.
bcp
In My Opinion
and I suggest the gay population get used to being looked down on.
there are a whole bunch of people out there that dont agree with their chosen lifestyle, and basically, not much chance of us going away either.
the harder they try to push to force society to normalize and embrace their choice, the harder some will push back.
morningbell
hmmmmmm
bcp
In My Opinion
comes under the normalize and embracing.but.... you forgot about the acceptance part
they cant force acceptance either.