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FIGHT CLUB !
this had to come from somewhere....care to share with the rest of the class? or is this old news with a new twist?
Sounds like Jody has been using to back door.
this had to come from somewhere....care to share with the rest of the class? or is this old news with a new twist?
I liked your other sig better :shrug:
This seems like a good time to have a forum get together. where should we hold it this year?
http://forums.somd.com/2712770-post86.html :shrug:Me too. I just needed a new one. Say something witty so I can quote you.
I am not putting that
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Not just for nooners anymore.
We left off the 9, but you know it's there.
You rented the room, now buy the video.
Sure, you could stay someplace nicer, but then you wouldn't have money left over for a hooker.
We'll leave the Lysol for ya!
Hey, we're not the Ritz, but just try bringing your secretary there on *your* salary, pal!
We don't make the adultery. We make the adultery *better*
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We put the "Ho" in "Motel"
The grass may be greener on the other side....however no matter how good it seems, sooner or later it's gonna turn to mud
As a person who has cheated on her spouse,I will say from personal experience that a big reason A LOT of people cheat is 1. getting married too young, and 2. simple immaturity. I had both. For me,I cheated because I felt I was "owed" happiness,and was angry and bitter with my husband for not "making" me happy..we had an extremely tumultous relationship. He was/is bi-polar,and it was hard to deal with. What I found after cheating was that it is not anyone's job to make me happy..that is for me to deal with. You cannot fix yourself with other people. You can change your environment,or who you screw,or whatever,but at the end of the day YOU are the problem and YOU are still in the equation. For me it was a big growing up experience and one that was intensely painful,but one I needed to get where I needed to be emotionally. So,yes,people who cheat are bad,a POS,whatever any of you may think,but ultimately,what happens in someones marriage is between those two people,and anyone who gets involved with a married person is not "wrecking" anything...the damage is already there or they could not get a foot in the door. Marriage would be great if it were that simple,but the truth is,mental illness,abuse,etc. do factor into some situations. As for the initial post saying why not talk or just leave...again....it must be nice to live in a simplistic world.
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We don't make the adultery. We make the adultery *better*
Heh... now that might be a question...Thanks for sharing
We often find it easy to judge peoples actions in realtionships without bothering to look at the root cause.
Heh... now that might be a question...
Who's found themselves either:
A: Cheating on a spouse/significant other
B: Been the cheated on spouse/significant other
C: Been the "other" person, IE the person cheated with
I think that might explain a lot of people's attitudes expressed in this thread.
Heh... now that might be a question...
Who's found themselves either:
A: Cheating on a spouse/significant other
B: Been the cheated on spouse/significant other
C: Been the "other" person, IE the person cheated with
I think that might explain a lot of people's attitudes expressed in this thread.
You also could ask
D. How many people fall into more than one category
Heh... now that might be a question...
Who's found themselves either:
A: Cheating on a spouse/significant other
B: Been the cheated on spouse/significant other
C: Been the "other" person, IE the person cheated with
I think that might explain a lot of people's attitudes expressed in this thread.
I'm B and C... so I guess I'm D?The old "Walk a mile in my shoes" bit. You have a good point. By the way - I'm in category B - Been the cheated on Spouse.
I'm B and C... so I guess I'm D?
Not necessarily.If you are C, are you not you also an A?
the plot thickens....
Not necessarily.
I found myself swept off my feet and my head thrust in to the clouds by a cad of the highest degree... after a brief and intense courtship I found out from a friend of a friend that he was married... that's how I ended up being C.
Not necessarily.
I found myself swept off my feet and my head thrust in to the clouds by a cad of the highest degree... after a brief and intense courtship I found out from a friend of a friend that he was married... that's how I ended up being C.